i a guy who is in love with his best friend . she like me a lot but cannot think of me as her boyfriend. This is because we've been friends for some years now.she has been thru some bad relations and i think is scared of any further commitment . what do i do . please help
2007-01-12 07:50:04 · 14 answers · asked by desparate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she does not feel the same and you can not separate yourself from how you feel you should move on and give yourself some space. Let her live her life and if she realize that she had feelings for you you will find out then. Otherwise you will just torture yourself being around her and see her go out with other guys other then you.
2007-01-12 08:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kenny C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to view the things and emotions from her perspective, dont force her, get her feel comfortable with u by everything in ur life shariing with her. Take gentle care of her in every difficult moment of her life. In short or long run she will get realised or u just get her realised that U and Her r made for each other. Keep patience and faith in ur love one day she will be urs. Take time and share with her. Obey ur frienship with her in the best manner u can. And never force her for confession of love , whem she realise she will automatically confess. Best Of Luck.
2007-01-12 16:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by manish a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there before, myself. I recommend that you continue to be her friend and be supportive of her , and her choices in boyfriends. If its meant for you to hook up with her it will happen on its own. Until then be the "best" best friend she could ever hope for. Sometimes it does work out this way , but you should also plan for if it does not.
2007-01-12 16:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your friend then do what she wishes you to do and that is to stay friend with her.. Sometimes people fear that if you date together and something went wrong in the relationship in the future you don't even hav the friendship anymore... In the meantime prove to her that you are a good friend and who knows when the time comes when she likes you you then can put your feeling out again
2007-01-12 15:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be her best friend and stick through with her in all her testing times.. maybe one day she'll start loving you.
You're more like that Forest Gump guy arent you..? Do what he did.. Just run.. run for her.. run with her.
2007-01-16 04:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by etfr0325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ruin the relationship,my best friend loves me but i never felt that way towards him,though he said it " I Love U" but it's not the same here and after he said this to me it feels kinda wierd him being around it's not the same anymore....i love this guy AS A FRIEND NOTHING ELSE but till this moment i wish things are the same as they used to be b4 him being in love with me,,,,,,,,,,,,,he's a gr8 guy honestly......
good luck
2007-01-12 15:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by fabulous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time......she is been through bad relations so she needs time to heal and then to realise that maybe u r the one she was waiting for all through!!!!!!!!!time is the best healer....plus u r her best friend..........if u comfort her now she will not only feel closer to u but also think u r a gr8 guy..........
2007-01-16 07:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably she does not mix relationships.... love and friendship are two different things.. and she prefers to keep them that ways ...... if that is the case then there is no point tryin... but if it is otherwise then u have better chances .. she is hurt for now and definitely wants a shoulder to lean on ..
2007-01-12 16:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. Just tell her how you feel and be up front with her. Then give her time. Nothing you can do. You can't make people love you.
2007-01-12 15:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man! get over it and find another girl who will like you.
2007-01-12 15:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by packerswes4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋