Singles & Dating - 9 January 2007

i am in this relationship w/ a boy who is a little older than i am and it seems like we always have problems....either he's accusing me of cheating on him or its just a big communication problem.....just today he tells me that some girl kissed him....now how ami suppose to believe that.....what should i do? almost everyone i know wants me to break up with him, but i do love him.....i just we are at different parts of our lives so its going to be a little rough....but out of all of the bad times, we do have good ones....but i also feel that i can't trust him because while im in school, he is doing only God knows what......Distress in need of some helpful advice!!!!!

2007-01-09 15:09:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like something that he could have as a reminder of his birthday. I was thinking of maybe donating to a third world cause in his name , like maybe providing funds for something in agriculture or a well or something. He is quite religious and so a Christian or Catholic charity might be good. His birthday is in a week.

2007-01-09 15:08:09 · 9 answers · asked by scarlet 1

have an ex that i dated for 3 years and i love her with all my heart. In the end of the relationship i slacked off and pretty much pushed her away we been broken up for 3 months now lately she has been calling me alot i asked her out to dinner and im sorry for the way i treated her i want to know if theres a chance that i can show her that i still care and that im sorry and if i could get another chance. Have you ever been in this situation? i miss her so much i want to treat her like shes meant to be but is it too late??

2007-01-09 15:07:04 · 15 answers · asked by Confused 1

is he embarassed since you don't ask those questions when you know what's going on in the moment haha

2007-01-09 15:06:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My uncle is 49 years old and very perverted. Every time I bring a girl home, he just stands and gawks at them. Usually he'll make crude comments to them. One time he actually succeeded in getting a date with one of them. Everytime I bring a girl over this happens and they never call me back. I can't take it anymore and I need a solution.

2007-01-09 15:06:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 15:06:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know there r a lot of questions on here, & i'm thankful 4 those of u who've opened this 1. Here's my dilema: I've grown closer over the past year, 2 one of my really good guy friends. I've known him 4 about 6 years now. It wasn't until the we were hanging out one night @ the beach, early last year that I started seeing him as possibly more than a friend. Since then it seems like we hang out a lot more. He's really a nice guy. Which as you girls know, can b confusing. I want to ask him out, but i'm afraid that he will say that he doesn't see me like that, & that our friendship won't ever b the same, & that he may not even feel comfortable being around me after that. I don't know what 2 do. I'm not sure if i'm willing 2 risk our great friendship, 2 begin a relationship that might never go anywhere. But, on the other hand, I REALLY like him. He knows how 2 make me laugh, & we share a lot in common. We live right down the street from each other, so we always hang out @ each others house.

2007-01-09 15:05:14 · 2 answers · asked by Blondie 2

2007-01-09 15:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by Dj 1

i hate now now that on the wekends latey that we just go back to his place and watch tv for a bit and then make and what not all the time i like that i want to do some thing difference for once be sides watching what he want to watch and making out (and "IT") what can we do

2007-01-09 15:03:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know my boyfriend pays attention to his ex.

2007-01-09 15:02:17 · 10 answers · asked by Mara D 1

I had been going out with my boyfriend for about 2-months and I really like him he always came over to my house and we just hung out and stuff. But at school we never really talked that much it was pretty immature If i got mad a t him I wouldn't talk to him and viceversa.So we were both mad and this past week we hit an all time low. Yesterday we broke up he said we should just be friends b/c we act more like friends I was sad but I pretty much agreed. And then we talked for an hour on the phone! he kept saying things like jeez why did you break up w/me! and you should of said no. And then he says I still want to talk to you and hangout with you b/c your cool and not like most girls, and I like you but idk.And then he said we had alot of fun at my house but we were just so much like friends. But I don't know what to do b/c I really like him do you think there is hope I mean did he just end things b/c I wasn't acting enough like a gf?

2007-01-09 15:02:04 · 2 answers · asked by lora 2

What do you like about a girl? What personality traits stand out for you, and why do you like them? Also what type of girl do you go for?

2007-01-09 15:01:37 · 19 answers · asked by Molly 1

Name 2 or 3 songs

2007-01-09 15:00:52 · 13 answers · asked by J_Lin 2

2007-01-09 15:00:50 · 1 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. In fact, it never went past kissing. Do guys "hang out" and stay friends with all of thier exes or only some and should I feel special that he wants to see me even as a friend? What are his REAL intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month? Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends?
Is he playing with me or really wants to be friends?

2007-01-09 14:59:46 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1

2007-01-09 14:58:57 · 14 answers · asked by david68556 1

I'm torn because I've about decided to only date men that I already have a strong physical attraction to. This mainly regards men one might meet on a personals site or something, men who aren't gorgeous but aren't ugly either. I hate to judge men so early strictly on physical beauty so I have dated men because they seem nice/interesting to see what might develop. We'll meet for a first "date"; I have a nice time, enjoy talking to them, and am honestly trying to access what the relationship might become but I'm not physically attracted yet. Next thing, they try to kiss me and it's hurtful to reject a kiss so I usually go with it. Trouble is, then I never want to see him again because I'm so uncomfortable, when 15 minutes ago, I was looking forward to getting to know more about him. Why do men do that when they've just met a woman? Do they really not get the difference between a woman who's just nice and a woman who's really into them? How can I be nice but not send those signals?

2007-01-09 14:58:49 · 13 answers · asked by sweetredbeachlvr 2

What to do when you are falling out of love with your fiance? I don't want to but he is not the same person, nothing is the same, It's not the same and it's not better in the bedroom. we broke up for a while and i can't help but think he was with someone else, so it might be me I juut don't know what to do. I tell him but he just says he has not changed and he was not with enyone else. So what to do?

2007-01-09 14:58:37 · 3 answers · asked by ladybug 1

I'm making a romantic dinner for my boyfriend for valentines day. Whats some good background music to use?

2007-01-09 14:58:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am truly loving a girl...but she never care about me.Sometime she shouts on me..shows her anger...she says go I don't need you. ..sometime dramatically i don't talk to her for a long...then she will show herself like extremely sad...tearing eyes...but never say sorry or anything. I have to again unfold my caring hands and ask her....how are you? Why ar you doing such?...then she feel good and smiling.
One day she was so much angry that she told me...i don't have any feelings for you..I am going to engaged with someone.

I said..its ok..go ..if you are happy.

Two three days she was happy but after that again she is showing her sadness...

she never explain her things..but I always share everything to her..

Now I am confused..I can not she her sad...and she doesn't care about me..


What may be the best solution in this case...

2007-01-09 14:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by nbgl 1

I've like him for around 2 years. I've tried to get over hima nd make myself not like him, but I can't. Whenever i'm around him i get nervous and can't even speak! and then never happens to me. What do I do?

2007-01-09 14:57:50 · 9 answers · asked by allisonbree09 2

Why do guys always suggest that when you are out, you are out with another guy?

2007-01-09 14:57:45 · 21 answers · asked by steffo 2

i've been with this guy for allmost 2 years and he try's to tell me who my friends are who to talk to or hang out even how to dress does not want me to have a jod HELP!! PLZ I may leave him soon i dont know HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-09 14:56:41 · 17 answers · asked by askharley 2

2007-01-09 14:56:41 · 4 answers · asked by ashley r 1

this is to anyone-would you get mad if your partner went through your phone & found some incriminating things about you & then, they confronted you about it?
its like you cheated on your partner & they went through your text msgs without your knowledge & read a text msg saying "i miss your lips." & your partner knows you met this person a year into your relationship. this means that you cheated on them, so they ask you about it.
would you get mad about the fact that she went through your texts?
would you get mad that you got caught up a year later?
or what?

n-e feedback would be appreciated

2007-01-09 14:55:47 · 12 answers · asked by Janelle Marie 3

I was in a long-distance relationship for about 4-5 months and I was perfectly fine with it all. I wasn't worrying about him seeing someone else because I trusted him enough. But when school came around, I started letting my grades slip because he has been acting weird and it was freaking me out. We broke up, both understanding the reasons: because the worrying was making the both of us go mad. That's when I realzed that I am not good with long distance relationships. Problem is, he has this idea that when he comes back, we will be together again when I think my feelings for are beginning to slip. I have learned that I can't love what isn't there and since he isn't there, I can't love him and not worry. Can you help me? I don't know what to feel in this situation or what I should do about it to feel more comfortable.

2007-01-09 14:55:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What girls like mostly about guys?
What they want?
How can I know what they want?
What I have to do when I see girl interesting in me?
Do I have to act? (I don't think so)
Should I care too much when she try to get my attention?(if that happen)

Please answer as much as you can, and if you can tell me why and why not!!

2007-01-09 14:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by want2write7 2

How long does it take to know when someone's the right one for you? I met this guy and we started dating the day we met. It's been a very fast-paced relationship. We're both mature, understanding, and old enough to know the difference between love and lust. We have a deep and meaningful relationship that I feel is going to last. We've only been dating for 4 and a half months. How do I know if he's the one?

2007-01-09 14:52:53 · 20 answers · asked by missesmoo236 2

(DO NOT SAY ANYTHING ALONG THE LINES OF "JUST BE YOURSELF")

How do you talk, act, what pose do you stand with, what expression, what things do you do that attract a lot of girls?

Tell me only what you know from experience works and doesn't work. I am dying to know, and I know I'm not the only one.

So would you really successful guys please tell me what works? I'm probably hundreds of miles away from you anyway and won't offer any competition, so don't hold back.

2007-01-09 14:52:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. "If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. "Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it." She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls "If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better." He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
She flirts with customers at work. But, aren't all girls like that and don't mean anything when they flirt with them. She doesn't do it alot just sometimes. I guess she does it because she see's the other girls doing it at work. The girls call her a s.l.u.t. and a w.h.o.r.e.
I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days, but i'm going tomorrow. Do you think she's testing me to see if I really care for her and wants me to chase her and tell her this tomorrow? What do you think? I really do like her.

2007-01-09 14:52:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous