I know there r a lot of questions on here, & i'm thankful 4 those of u who've opened this 1. Here's my dilema: I've grown closer over the past year, 2 one of my really good guy friends. I've known him 4 about 6 years now. It wasn't until the we were hanging out one night @ the beach, early last year that I started seeing him as possibly more than a friend. Since then it seems like we hang out a lot more. He's really a nice guy. Which as you girls know, can b confusing. I want to ask him out, but i'm afraid that he will say that he doesn't see me like that, & that our friendship won't ever b the same, & that he may not even feel comfortable being around me after that. I don't know what 2 do. I'm not sure if i'm willing 2 risk our great friendship, 2 begin a relationship that might never go anywhere. But, on the other hand, I REALLY like him. He knows how 2 make me laugh, & we share a lot in common. We live right down the street from each other, so we always hang out @ each others house.
2007-01-09 15:05:14 · 2 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea, i've asked this before, but i need more answers. should i keep waiting for him to make a move? or should i initiate a move, and see if he gets the clue? or should i not risk our friendship and always wonder if we could ever be more than friends?
2007-01-09 15:06:53 · update #1
Take a chance tell him your feelings. If he's not interested and he's the good friend like you said he'll still like and probably be flattered, Its also possible that he may have the same feelings about you that you have for him but is afraid to express them. Life is short take a chance.
2007-01-09 15:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably bashful and feels just like you do>>> GO ahead pop the question.
2007-01-09 23:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by EL-BRAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋