2007-01-09 15:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by Dj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
will you go out with me to ------- on ----------
the same way as you would as a girl that you know likes you back the only difference is that the chance of getting rejected is alot higher
2007-01-09 15:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by T razz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon ... what's the worst that could happen?
Instructions
•STEP 1: Take advantage of the telephone. If things start going south, you can excuse yourself from the conversation easily.
•STEP 2: Be sure to identify yourself when you call. This saves both of you from the uncomfortable "who?"
•STEP 3: Try not to blurt out your invitation. Ease into it. Start a conversation. If you start having second thoughts, you can always call back later.
•STEP 4: Make it easy on yourself. A movie is better than lunch or dinner. It doesn't require much conversation, and you don't end up staring at each other all night.
•STEP 5: Bring up a movie that's been recently released. Ask if she's seen it. If she has, you've opened the door to talking about films. If she hasn't, ask her if she'd like to.
•STEP 6: If she says no, be direct. Ask, "Is that a bad time or are you just not interested?" Her answer could surprise you, and you're leaving it up to her to decide how to handle it. If she's really your friend, she won't be brutal with you.
Tips & Warnings
•If you say you will call her, do it within a couple of days. Remember, she's your friend
2007-01-09 23:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love it when guys are funny, nice, and can be relaxed when they are around girls. also cuteness helps and a good smell too.
Well girls want a guy who they can be friends with and is mature and understanding when they want them too, but most of the time we are as funny with our friends as you are with yours!
If you wanta know what a girl wants, just hang around her, get to know her and her lifestyle, how she approaches situations and such. Talk with her and her friends (but dont make a move on her friends) and just learn to become her friend first.
If you see a girl interested in you, and you too are interested, take the hint, and go for the case. Flirt, talk, and little things like saying hi in the hallway can help your relationship.
You dont have to act any different then how you usually do, because sooner or later, your true self will shine through and she might not be in loe with that real you but the fake, stuck up you. So dont act, be yourself, and the girls will take the bait.
When a girl is trying to get your attention, tottally let her have it! Let her know you appriciate her and that you to can connect. If you find out you just want to be friends, minimize the flirting and gestures until she moves onto a new boy.
When looking for a girlfriend, you should try to talk to as many girls as possible that you would like to date. Look at all the girls, the populars, geeks, average, and etc (i am not trying to label people or class them together) I am just saying you should flirt and talk and be yourself, and when you feel like she is ready, ask her out.
The best way to know when it is a good time to ask her out is when she drops hints or is constantly asking you, who are you going out with, or who do you like, or that she is single and that she likes someone but wont tell you. Know hopefully the girl will tell you that she likes you, but if she doesnt, just follow all that up there. Wish you luck.
-an average Jr High student-
PS: i know this is extra information, but hey, at least its not a waste. It may come in handy.
2007-01-09 23:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by maddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In English
2007-01-09 23:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by ahab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get fixated on any one girl. Appear uninterested, get a conversation going, then slide it in like "What are you doing later." - DO NOT GET FIXATED ON ONE WOMAN , it takes practice to get it right, the more attention and desperate you seem, the more she will be repulsed.
2007-01-09 23:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try something groupy first
something like
Hey a group of us are going out for pizza, wanna come?
cause then it feels more friendlyish
then gain her confidence and ask her out
2007-01-09 23:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Nohaymanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By opening your mouth and asking her out. How else would you do it?
2007-01-09 23:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and be yourself. maybe give her your number instead of asking for hers, or take her someplace nice that she might like. for all you know, she likes you too.
2007-01-09 23:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Crisseye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wanna do _______ on friday?
2007-01-09 23:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋