2007-01-09 15:06:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to get over her but I will in time I want to be her friend .
2007-01-09 15:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over a relationship is an experience most of us have to go through at some point in life.
Instructions
•STEP 1: Allow yourself to grieve over the loss. Grieving includes going through feelings such as sadness, anger, shock and acceptance.
•STEP 2: Take any pressure or expectations off yourself to get over it quickly. Depending on the length of the relationship or how important it was to you, you may need weeks, months or longer to get over it.
•STEP 3: Take care of yourself. Get adequate rest, eat right and get some exercise.
•STEP 4: Nurture yourself. Give yourself permission to relax, take it easy, and do whatever makes you feel better - such as taking walks, baths or naps; listening to music; reading; or watching movies.
•STEP 5: Plan pleasurable activities with friends or family ahead of time (especially on weekends) to keep you busy and get your mind off the loss.
•STEP 6: Consider joining a support group to be with others dealing with similar feelings. Ask your doctor for a referral.
•STEP 7: Talk to your doctor about possibly taking medication if you're having trouble sleeping, or if you're experiencing anxiety or depression. Or discuss the options of herbal supplements
•STEP 8: Get a journal and write down what you have learned from the relationship about yourself, relationships and life.
Tips & Warnings
•If the relationship was very significant for you, you may never get over it in the sense of having no residual feelings about it. Over time, the feelings will become less intense and you will be able to think about the relationship without it being so painful.
2007-01-09 23:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse you will get over her. Breakups take time to heal and there really is not a time table to follow. One of the best ways to get over a past love is to begin seeing other people. Just be careful because you may be very vulnerable.
You should also consider cutting off communication with your ex to make it easier. If you continue to speak to her then she will stay on your mind.
2007-01-09 23:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but will take time and a lot of lonely nights, but in the end you will learn more about yourself, but there will be days you remember the pain of leaving you lover but it will pass soon.
2007-01-09 23:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why did you breal up w/her? seems that you still kinda care 4 her
2007-01-09 23:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by lora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋