Singles & Dating - 7 January 2007

are looking for a long term relationship, would you be willing to wait to have sex until after you were married to that person being that you were the one who wanted to "take it slow" when it came to marriage? It seems everyone wants to take it slow when it comes to committment and marriage but want to have sex on the second date. Why does anyone understand what take it slow means? I don't want to come across as a cold person who isn't interested in sex but if they guy wants to take it slow in committing to me, than I'm going to take it slow to in having sex with him. Why shouldn't a guy have to wait for sex if the woman has to wait for marriage? After all if they guy is so anxious to have sex, why not just get married?

2007-01-07 11:06:39 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

how do you tell if your in love?

2007-01-07 11:04:55 · 18 answers · asked by luke 1

Would you be ok with having only one sexual partner your whole life? Say you met the love of your life and you lose your virginity to him, would you in time begin to wonder how sex is like with other men?

Would you think to yourself "Damn, I really wish I would have had sex with other guys before I settled with just one"?

2007-01-07 11:04:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

In my class there is a guy that sits right next me in my class. He is my ex-boyfriend and we havent really seen eachother in a while.
When i sit next to him we are like totally silent and dont say anything. I'm too nervous to start up a convo but i really do want to talk to him. What should i do?

2007-01-07 11:03:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 16 years old and i wear briefs ( FTL tighty whities) but my gf dosnt like them on me. i was just wondering if girls would think i would look good in them.

2007-01-07 11:02:09 · 6 answers · asked by dodgecharger6901 1

if you gave me an answer on my last question thank you soooo much!!!!.......how am i going to get over him after the fact i gave it up to him and i feel like **** cuz he started treatin me like this as soon as i did but i made him wait forever its going to hurt to see another girl on his arm i gave him my everything

2007-01-07 11:01:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found out my bf was attracted to another girl and he didnt do anything about as in he didnt tell her he had a gf and hung out wit her it until he got caught, he said nutin happened n i believe him after alot of snoopin of course. anyway i love this guy so much, and i decided to give him another chance. how do i learn to trust him again. all ihave on my mind these days is where is he? wats he doin? who is he with? it hasnt been that long since i found out about this issue and all before that i neva thought he could do that to me. ide been with him for over a yr. and yea well it sucked big time wen i found out wt was goin on,

2007-01-07 11:00:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy a like, he used to like me too buh then iunno what happened, its so confusing, and now he doesnt like me at all, not even as a friend, and i cant stop thinking about him,,what do you pple think i should do? :(

2007-01-07 10:58:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ummm lots of times i find im not acting like myself, or im acting overly happy to compensate for my moments of extreme sadness and depression, I know im defenetly not normal right now..and Im scared to tell my parents im thinking this way. i want to get better and act like any other normal human being. I guess alot of the time, I feel like i dont have a voice, i dont have a unique me who thinks and acts like a unique individual, so i find myself having to answer a question but not really feeling like im talking like myself, when i answer it..please help i need alot

2007-01-07 10:58:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

wat does the word emo mean??

2007-01-07 10:57:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend I had a hard times with him he left me three times and he comes back in every time abologizing and saying that he is so sorry the last time he dumped me was the worst he really hurt my feelings and I had the worst vacation in my life now he is back but the problem is he loves me can you believe this this is the problem. he can't admit his love to me in front of me because of being afraid of losing me instead he uses all his power to hurt my feelings and make me feel that he doesn't love me he thinks that this way he will never lose me because I'll be so worried on pampering him to keep him with me. If he doesn't love me why he comes back to me in every time he doesn't take anything from me no money nothing and if he loves me why he is hurting me please help I am so tired of thinking

2007-01-07 10:56:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-07 10:56:24 · 9 answers · asked by harvardgurl 2

So what do you notice first? Are you able to check a guy out without him noticing?

2007-01-07 10:54:15 · 17 answers · asked by Mikey 2

2007-01-07 10:50:43 · 27 answers · asked by xSSxo 2

Ok, so this girl and I were kinda seeing each other, but then she told me she wants to be friends. Things have gone a little sour. I stopped talking to her, but she keeps coming over and talking to my friends when im with them, and she has also started to flirt madly with another mate when im around, sitting on his lap all the time etc.
I've also noticed her staring at me when im talking to people, in the pub. And when I was talking to another girl she interrupted by saying "he's taken". What the hell is going on??!!!! I am extremely confused...

2007-01-07 10:50:22 · 23 answers · asked by jon t 1

My Friend Sam is a lazy bum who does no work, lots of drugs and drinks a lot. He doesn't really have that many aspirations, no real future plans, a big mummies boy, doesn't really have standards. Basically will "fall in love" with anyone who sleeps with him?

2007-01-07 10:49:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel like my boyfriend and i are drifting apart. i still care about him... i think its because we didnt talk on the christmas break. i dont want to break up with him, and i dont want him to break up with me. his b-day is coming up and i want to get him the most perfect gift! and i dont want to lose him. what should i do? shoud i talk to him about it, or just leave it be and hope that it will fix itself??? i need help and advice.... thnks

2007-01-07 10:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my guy going on 4 years in june. We've been enaged for nearly 2 years. Basically I'm not sure if he's worth being with because he hasn't had a job for so long. I think it's going on close to 6 months. now don't get me wrong i've been without a job before and he supported me but he's barely even looking for a job. i've been working 40 hour weeks for the last 6 months and he hasn't pay anything. Rent, bills, even this internet he hasn't put one cent on. I really love him but I'm tired of putting up with this. what should i do?

2007-01-07 10:48:08 · 4 answers · asked by ladyamethyst83 4

It has been scientifically proven that girls who will not have sex with her man on the first date is because A.) they are lesbians or B.) They have a stanky bush

What are your thoughts on this recent discovery?

http://www.myspace.com/kazztaur

2007-01-07 10:47:30 · 10 answers · asked by kazztaur 1

tomorrow being the first day of the rest of your life and all that...;0)

2007-01-07 10:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel very bad. Last night my bf of 3 months and I were chatting about our past work experiences. He has had many great job oppurtunities around the world. For some reason I felt like I had to lie about mine to impress him. I told him I worked in Europe for awhile when in fact I was only in Europe for a 2 week vacation. It is not a major lie but, I feel very guilty. I am very serious about this guy and do not want to start our relationship off this way. Should I just tell him I lied or does it even matter?

2007-01-07 10:44:58 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

We do not have a title.The problem is I want more not necessarily with him but more.How do i start to let go? Also he sees other people I don't. I am a better friend to him than he is to me. I will miss him but I need to move on. Please help me!

2007-01-07 10:43:46 · 4 answers · asked by I DESERVE 2

Ok I was planing on taking a trip to see my friends, and a girl.
This girl knew I was coming and was having me plan things to do.

I had asked for 4 days (Jan 11th-14th) off from work in order to spend time with her and my friends last month.
Well I talked to this girl yesterday and she disappointedly told me that we might not get to hang out that much b/c she was going to be doing something Fri-Sat, but wouldn’t tell me what.
She later said that she wanted to tell her sister first.
She did say that what ever this thing was, was good for her.

Now I’m feeling kind of blown off. She knew I was coming. She has had a month off from school and does this thing, what ever it is when I’m there.
Rarely do I get to take a trip or get this many days off to be able to do something like this.
I’m really ticked off by all this, but don’t want to overreact with out knowing why she blew me off like that

2007-01-07 10:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my bf juat had a 3way about a week ago with his bestfriend.now i like his friend more than i should.i dream of him.i now want to sleep with his friend but i don't want to hurt my bf. what should i do? i really want his friend now.

2007-01-07 10:43:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not going to quote statistics here, since I have none, but given my own experiences, those of my friends, and given the enormous numbers of folks engaging in on-line romances and partner searches, does anybody want to speculate about why these things appear to have such abysmal odds? I finally concluded that part of it is that many of the judgments we make about people are unconscious - stemming from our past experiences, our family-of-origin issues, prior partners, current desires, etc. - and that these judgments simply can't be made until you meet in person. Then there is the whole question of learning information on-line, or on the phone, before meeting the person, and "projecting" onto them the image of what you hope they will be, or what you conjure up based on the info they give you.

Are there any other alternate viewpoints out there? Thanks for the responses.

2007-01-07 10:42:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 30 years old, and good looking women. I never had sex before. Seems most the guys chatted on blind-date website is only there for sex. And I don't wanna to have casual sex.
PS: I am in Paris.

2007-01-07 10:41:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

so basically me and my ex were going to get back together, which is what i really want. but i went out on new years and m/o with another girl, ex found out and is pissed.i regret it soo much and i want her back but just saying sorry doesnt cut it. what do i do/ tell her.

2007-01-07 10:40:49 · 6 answers · asked by Trauma9 2

2007-01-07 10:40:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems that many men near my age want 20 year olds - no matter what the man looks like - bald, grossly overweight or whatever, they think I am "too old" even though I'm in better shape than many younger women. And what is the best way to meet someone nice? Does dating online ever work? I've heard horror stories from my friends.

2007-01-07 10:40:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-07 10:40:08 · 13 answers · asked by jada07 2