i found out my bf was attracted to another girl and he didnt do anything about as in he didnt tell her he had a gf and hung out wit her it until he got caught, he said nutin happened n i believe him after alot of snoopin of course. anyway i love this guy so much, and i decided to give him another chance. how do i learn to trust him again. all ihave on my mind these days is where is he? wats he doin? who is he with? it hasnt been that long since i found out about this issue and all before that i neva thought he could do that to me. ide been with him for over a yr. and yea well it sucked big time wen i found out wt was goin on,
2007-01-07 11:00:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'll have to prove it to you that he's trustworthy. I'm not sure that there's anything that you can do. He has to be able to prove to you that he's only interested in you.
2007-01-07 11:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to be honest with yourself and know that he is going to find other girls attractive. But you have to have a conversation about this to find out if he plans on hanging out with other girls. He has to be honest with you and then you make a decision about whether or not you want to be with him. It is not cool to find out later on that your bf has been hanging with other girls and especially if he didn't tell her he had a gf. You may need to ask him if he even wants to be in a relationship.
2007-01-07 19:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can never tell what will really happen in the future. As long as you love him, just be patient. Men are just like that, as long as he doesn't break you. I think he really loves you. Don't ask him questions, sounding that you don\t trust him. it will only make him crazy. Its either that you give him your trust again or investigate on your own what's really been doing.
2007-01-07 19:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nanshi M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once trust has been broken it is very hard to get it back. You need time. He needs to be totally honest and opened with you all the time. If you catch him out again then you must leave.
Good luck
2007-01-07 19:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's been spending time with her?forget it.he's not giving you any respect,if you are supposed to be exclusive.let go of the mouse and find a man.
2007-01-07 19:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure
2007-01-07 19:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cynthia C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋