My Friend Sam is a lazy bum who does no work, lots of drugs and drinks a lot. He doesn't really have that many aspirations, no real future plans, a big mummies boy, doesn't really have standards. Basically will "fall in love" with anyone who sleeps with him?
2007-01-07 10:49:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ewewew. Are you kidding me??? There's NO way I'd date a guy like that if I was single. To me, that basically says that he doesn't even care about himself, and if he can't care about himself, how is he going to care about me? There's a certain level of respect that you have to have for yourself before you can win other people's respect.
First, the fact that he doesn't have a job but does have drugs and booze tells me that he's probably mooching off others and/or stealing. This is SICK. Drugs are a big "nono" on my boyfriend list. So is drinking (illegally or way to frickin' much). Depending on how old he is, his life is pretty much set out for him... and that leads right to an unhappy ending. If you're a true friend, get him straightened out and don't let him live his life like this. It's pathetic. Quite honestly, I feel bad that he's never had any aspirations, no dreams, and no real love.
2007-01-07 10:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you really have to ask this question? Or did you just need some proof to help your friend face reality and make some life changes?
Well hopefully the bloak will get his bum off the couch, get cleaned up, lay off the drugs and set some goals for himself. And any girl that currently has or would want to sleep with him the way he is needs just as much as help as your friend Sam does.
2007-01-07 10:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly Bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding. Who in their right mind would even consider it? Not that there isn't hope for him, but a trip to a monistary in east bum somewhere, where he can spend some drug/alcohol free moments contemplating life and his position in it would probably do him some good right about now.
2007-01-07 11:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anna Hennings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there are some issues with this "man" that go far back into his childhood.....could possibly even explain why he is so attached to mommy......sounds like this one will need many hours of expert psychological advise before he is deemed "date-worthy"
2007-01-07 10:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not only would I NOT date him - but I would get as far away from him as possible. Sounds like he doesn't care about his life or future - so why would you????
2007-01-07 10:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by 2mom35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABOUT as likely as finding weapons of mass destruction !
2007-01-07 12:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider hiring him to dust my apartment, as I'm allergic to dust. Other than that, forget it.
2007-01-07 11:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no thankyou. i would want a guy who is the complete opposite actually.
2007-01-07 10:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say no, but how many of them are on here complaining that they are stuck in such a situation and they LOVE him so much
2007-01-07 10:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no - you have not discribed a flattering man - sorry sam
2007-01-07 11:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by all that jazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋