Singles & Dating - 29 December 2006

I can not figure it out. .. He is very nice to me , also trying to see me each time when I am available .. Shortly – everything seems great.

BUT!!!! He asking me (many times),
- what do I expect from this relation …
I give him an honest answer that I am looking for solid relation but for now is too early to tell ( we been together only 2 months.
And..
ones he sad – “ U r so sweet , maybe I am not guy for U…?!.
What is his problem? ??
How I have to react???
Don’t people dating for pleasure ..and then time diced what happens???
I like this man a lot…
please, any ideas how I have to deal with that??

2006-12-29 22:01:14 · 8 answers · asked by awg 2

Alright.

So the guy I like told me this secret about him liking his ex-girlfriend and how much he misses her and all of this stuff. I mean he shared everything and I could tell how upset he was. He asked me not to tell, I promised I wouldnt.


I actually feel like were better friends now. We talked about it for like 30 mins and he didnt hold anything back.
These are signs of trusting me right?

I was sad he still liked her and I pretty much got sick when he told me but now I just want to become really good friends with him.

Thanks for reading.

2006-12-29 22:00:27 · 4 answers · asked by =] 1

Okay, I'm 22 and very attractive, live in NYC, I seem to find it easier to date/meet women from online as opposed to in person. Mostly because I have like no friends to go to bars, night clubs, or go out anywhere at all with; even if I go to these places myself, I have a hard time starting a conversation or approaching a girl. None of them even approach me even though I'm not ugly at all. Mind you, I'm am open to one night stands as well as relationships, so when I go to look, I am open to both.

But the online route isn't that easy at all, it has its points because u can read a girl's profile and learn a bit about her before u even talk to her. So I've been trying myspace for a few weeks now. My profile & pics are located here: http://www.myspace.com/handsomeitaliano

I have sent about 45 messages so far + a few friend requests, half of those are already read and the other half still unopened. Out of the read half, about 5-7 girls replied and added me as a friend but they didn't follow up after i wrote back to them, however 2 out of those 5-7 girls I have remained in touch with and am now chatting on AOL AIM. I usually try to write something appropriate, more generalized, and maybe a bit direct and contemporary at the same time, something like this:

"Subject: Hi (INSERT GIRL'S NAME HERE)

Message:
What's up?

I'm Stephen. I really dig your profile and your pics, you're very beautiful ;) I'd love to talk to you, get together perhaps, and see where things lead. My pic is in my profile. I'm 5'8, italian, pretty green eyes, very cute, great smile, clean cut, into acting/screenwriting.

Get back at me ;)"


I know this is silly logic because if you're good looking and you approach a girl in a non-offensive manner, you should be successful right? Well I know I'm not being offensive or stupid, so what am I saying that is causing me to get less replies? Or is it not me but them?

I do know that the two girls I'm talking to from there right now loved what I wrote, one of them even said that she immediately liked me after she read it.

Please I'd really appreciate some serious replies, I know a lot of people like to joke around here a lot and you guys are funny at times, but I'm just looking for some insightful advice right now. Thanks.

2006-12-29 21:59:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Best answers to ridiculous Q...could do with a laugh!!

2006-12-29 21:56:22 · 23 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5

An person I know uses this approach. Everytime we go out, he will approach a girl, introduce himself ask for her name and within 3 minutes of the conversation invariablely end with "so you want to come back to my place or go to yours?" If the girl says no or slaps him. He immediately moves on to the next girl and repeats until he gets a winner. He will approach every girl at the bar/club that appears not be with a guy.

I have seen him apply this method many times. And it seems like it works maybe 1 out 20 or 1 out of 15 times or something like that. He has got balls and he is my hero but I just cant do that.

What about you guys? do you do it? got any friends? Best method? GIrls what do u think?

2006-12-29 21:55:58 · 11 answers · asked by David H 1

I think i would be a good girl friend
my friends have told me that I'm really sweet and funny and i make friends well
i look okay, i'm curvy not fat
smart can bake anything. i'm that really sweet girl that can be crazy in many ways.
well any way my friend asked me why don't i have have a boy friend and to tell you the truth i don't know why. just no one has ever asked me out.
i'm sure i not the best person out there i can be a little wierd and i'm not realy shy,but for the most part i think i'm cute.
what do you think about this should i care?


oh and i posted this question and it was removed why do you think?

2006-12-29 21:55:26 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 3

2006-12-29 21:54:21 · 7 answers · asked by fanta 5

I have always been the type that loves to get all dressed up for men. I love makeup and heels and nice clothes and shiny hair. Recently, a friend of mine told me that guys think that that's fake and unattractive. Do guys prefer girls who do not bother to look pretty?

2006-12-29 21:53:25 · 9 answers · asked by beautylover 2

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2006-12-29 21:49:37 · 8 answers · asked by texasrider 1

2006-12-29 21:49:11 · 11 answers · asked by fanta 5

2006-12-29 21:45:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a 22 year old Indian and Ive decided to date English women only as the Indian girls Ive come across are way to childish, restricting and have no common sense.
But Im a little shy and I certainly dont want to be rude and offensive in my new belief.

Can a mixed race relationship work?

Any comments and suggestions welcome from anyone.

2006-12-29 21:45:13 · 38 answers · asked by Avey Khali 1

Iam starting to think about my ex alot laely.I dont know what to do,but,looking back,he wasnt a bad boyfriend at all.I don't know why we broke up,but I am sure it was over something stupid.I am 13,and he is 14.What am I going to do? Thanks for the answers!

2006-12-29 21:45:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm experiencing some back-and-forth feelings about a man that just wasn't right for me. There were so many signs that we were wrong for one another almost from jump, but I still see him posting on a website we both frequented (not a dating site) and it's now clear that he's involved with a woman on the site. I'm doing my best not to go to the website because I know it's not good for me to see him there. I've never experienced this kind of difficulty "getting over" relationships which were infinitely more healthy than this one. Is there some issue here that is unresolved for me?

2006-12-29 21:41:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend says she loves me very very much and treats me good and i treat her good..and all that good stuff..

do u think when we leave for college(we r going to the same one) we will stay together or do u think we will break up??

2006-12-29 21:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few weeks ago, I asked if I should give up on finding my missing best friend. I explained the back story and everything and I got responses that told me to keep looking. After four years, I found him! Yay! Now what? I mean, just because I was looking for him and loving him and wanting to be with him doesn't mean that he is available to return the love. Yes, he was my best friend and to thins day is one of the most lovely and friendly people that I have ever met. Yes, he did like me and I liked him when last we were in contact. I just don't know what to do. All of this hope has been building and dreams have been dreamt and plans have been imagined, but they were MY plans and I didn't take into consideration that after this much time has passed, he may very well be married and have a family. I'm so so so unexplainably happy that I have found my guy, but should I tell him how I feel and risk being crushed by whatever is going on in his life? Help. I'm scared.

2006-12-29 21:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by T!ff 1

whats the funniest pick up lines you know or heard before?

2006-12-29 21:36:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I would be a great girlfriend, but I think I might have something wrong with me. I'm not ugly and guys ask me out but its never the guys I want to go out with and then when I did find a guy I liked that liked me back it didn't work becuase he thought I wasn't aggressive enough. Is that really even a good reason to break-up with someone? What should I do should I just try not to think about boys(I'm 17 its kinda hard)? Because I am having difficulties finding a guy that is good for me. Please don't say that i shouldn't even worry about having a boyfriend because I used to not care about having one then I had a real boyfriend and now I can't stop thinking about having one.

2006-12-29 21:34:43 · 5 answers · asked by Kelly 2

my buddy is asian. I have known him for 18 years. He told me he had a thing for white chcks since he was young. His current girlfriend is white and weights over 200 pounds. He doesnt like talking about her. He is skinny. He says hes likes girls with more meat. His previous girlfriends white and non white were all of normal weight. . Is he just that desparate for a white chick?

2006-12-29 21:34:16 · 12 answers · asked by David H 1

"Come on, you're joking right?"

What did he mean by that?

2006-12-29 21:32:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many of you flirt on-line.......even if you are in a stable relationship?

2006-12-29 21:32:47 · 23 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5

Me this will be her hair,eyes conversation and her feet

2006-12-29 21:30:43 · 15 answers · asked by slymkid 1

Does anyone know how I can add a few extra inches to my body height (no I dont mean my tinky winky)?

2006-12-29 21:27:35 · 13 answers · asked by Avey Khali 1

For now we have dicided not to do anything and just let it wear off. But i dont think this is really a solution to the problem. please help!

2006-12-29 21:26:48 · 7 answers · asked by alexandros t 2

I always wonder this, I'm pretty shy so I don't flirt with guys even if I am attracted to thim. I usually act like I am not interested. Is this the wrong thing to do?

2006-12-29 21:25:07 · 13 answers · asked by beautylover 2

ok me and my friend were wondering does talking dirty with someone on the phone and them saying how much they want you and need some lovin and they you both basically watch a dirty movie together is that cheating?

2006-12-29 21:23:41 · 24 answers · asked by SmashJ 2

2006-12-29 21:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by Dreyah 1

My boyfriend is going to boarding school and I want to make a box of stuff for him to remember me by and for him to look at while hes away .. what should i put in there??

2006-12-29 21:19:33 · 12 answers · asked by AMBZYYYY 1

There's this girl i've been going out with lately. I only knew she liked me after she saw me at a party with another girl and she got jealous. i've only known her for a short while, but i know she has a close friend (i'm not sure if he's her boyfriend), but i've met him before i went out with her and they didnt touch or anything, though she's known him longer than me. She tells me he buys her stuff and he's nice. But when we go out, she lets me rest my head on her shoulder, put my arm around / over her, play with her hair and she gives me hugs (i'm really close to kissing her). She's pretty open and tells me some intimate stuff about herself and we can both joke about sexual stuff.

She was sick recently and she didnt want me to see her sick but i know the other guy visited once because she said he gave her a christmas present. So i'm not really sure where i stand in all this. What do you think?

2006-12-29 21:17:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous