Singles & Dating - 29 December 2006

My girlfriend says I'm not boring to her, but I can't help but feel that I'm boring her sometimes in our relationship. The reason I feel this is becuase I bore myself sometimes. I think she only says that becuase I am a sensitive guy and she is afraid of hurting my feelings. What are some ways to make myself not so boring and to spice up my relationship with this wonderful girl that I have and don't want to lose. NO!!!! sexual ideas please!!!!!!

2006-12-29 20:15:29 · 12 answers · asked by Garin M 2

Well I knew her for about 2 years and I talk to her at school, and she talks to me. We're not really too close, but we always talk and stuff. The thing is, I'm not sure if she only likes me as a friend. Well, what do you think the best way to ask her out would be? Like a safe way so if she rejects me I won't feel bad, and won't hate her, and we will still be friends. Should I like order her flowers? Or write her a letter? Or just straight up ask her? Or something else?

2006-12-29 20:15:23 · 1 answers · asked by Alucard 1

okay well it`s been a year since a this big mess happened with a guy i fell in love with and all this crap happened i don`t feel like remebering cause for some reason i always cry while remembering it.. anyways i fell in love with "him" orginally i met him cause he lived down the street and me and my sis would go down and hang out with 2 other girls and him and he flirted with me and stuff for months but then he started being really mean to me and giving me these cold glares even though i did nothing to him he stopped talking to me when i went down too!! the one i loved the most, hated me. It broke my heart shattered it into dust. after i stopped going down to hang out, my sis kept going until something happened bettween him and my sis (i think he tried to kiss her) but she would`nt say anything and now she says she hates him.but i can`t forget him his smell,his hair,his stupid jokes,and most of all his smooth, soft, gentle voice..i miss him but i don`t want too i want to hate him

2006-12-29 20:15:13 · 4 answers · asked by Heather 3

hi, i m dentistry student in india..one girl came in to my life 6 months back.my junior..we both spent a verry good time as bf and gf...and we both are damm serious about each other..now the situation changed..she hev to be there in US for a greencard procedure as her parents are also there..she hev to study ther..it means she is not gonna come back..she still wanna continue..i cant leave her..but there is nothing decided wen to talk or meet on net..do you think its gonna work???she will not change there becoz of US??i m not able to do anything here...Please help me..should i continue???distance relationship works???

2006-12-29 20:15:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems I meet these nice guys, (of whom I really don't have a romantic interest in) and they think I want them. I'm not one of those girls that says 'NO!' and reject someone to their face. I like to be nice to everyone, but it seems that its just causing me more problems in the end.
I tend to attract the CLINGIEST guys ever who don't seem to catch any hint or major sign!!!! (like talking about other guys...)
Please help.....! And no, turning lesbian is not an option I'm afraid.

2006-12-29 20:15:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-29 20:14:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. he throw cherrys at me
and one of my best friends like him too is that odd
but he doesn't talk to me once he hide from me in someones garage
he also knows i like him alot

2006-12-29 20:13:37 · 7 answers · asked by kady 1

I dont get why i always read girls saying a guy has to be "confident
" and ask them out, but a girl doesn't?

Do you want equality or not?

Or do you want to be MORE equal.

2006-12-29 20:11:24 · 9 answers · asked by Its me 4

so theres this guy, the last time i saw him was like a year ago and i've changed[looks wise-for the better] alot since, and so his sis invites me to their place to have lunch ,cuz we're sch mates.Anyways, during lunch, i catch him staring at me like,say,80% of the time and when i looked at him he like quickly turned away[but not quick enough!]
i kinda have this crush on him and is he looking at me cuz i've changed or does he like me[i hope] or what??
or please dont tell me i have a booger in my nose[yes i actually went to the bathroom to check]
so im really not sure,the only thing he said about me was that i'm"tiny"[ im 5"1]whcih doesn't sound like a good sign to me
help!

2006-12-29 20:09:18 · 15 answers · asked by krystal_engel 3

most of my guy friends are (3-6yrs) older than me because i see them as big bros, which i never have. i get along all of them pretty well... there's this particular friend whom i would joke most of the time and we'd say that "we'll wait for one another to finish college." about a week ago, we hung out in the mall and we ended up in the babies department and started looking over baby stuffs and talking about what ifs in having kids... i always kid him about settling down because he's not getting younger at all and he would kid w/ me and say that he will someday with this knowing look.
should i be aware of this? it's my first time to actually experience this...

2006-12-29 20:08:35 · 2 answers · asked by DruNkStripPeR 3

Guys, if a college female doesn't like to drink but still likes to have a good time is that a turn off? What about if she is saving herself for marriage?? Would you view her as a prude or would you respect her decision?

I am just curious, because it seems like most guys like the wild party type...

2006-12-29 20:06:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was working at the same office with me but different department. I been noticing her since 2 mths ago... Recently during Christmas i give her a card and chocolate... and manage to
communicate throught office email...

Is my hint obivous enough? How should i carry on from here?

2006-12-29 20:05:04 · 11 answers · asked by ConfusedLost 1

why do some poeple think that Physical attraction is so important when you are looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend, but then again some people are picky about who they would like to date or some people really don't care about the persons looks and its all about thier personality and the interests that they share with that person that they would wanna date, but what do you think?

2006-12-29 20:00:15 · 6 answers · asked by . 6

2006-12-29 19:59:25 · 17 answers · asked by kady 1

I'm tired of liking this guy that ignores me. Sometimes he talks to me & flirts but thats only when he feels like it. I'm tired of waiting around for him and only talking to him whenever he feels like it. People at school say it's just because he's shy because he knows that I like him. But I don't really care anymore. I'm just hurting myself by liking him. I really want to stop liking him and I've been thinking about all the negative things about him and it's kinda helping and I've been listening to all these mushy love songs and it's kinda making me dislike him a little more. But then he has to go & do something cute and I fall in love again. I need help!

2006-12-29 19:54:54 · 5 answers · asked by *Manda* 2

2006-12-29 19:53:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so i really like this guy who is in a couple of my classes. im a freshman, and hes a junior. (varsitywrestler<3) and he heard that i was going to ask him to winter formal because ours is a sadie hawkins/winter formal kinda dance... any way... so ever since he heard that he has been giving me alot of hugs and stuff and he has been talking to me more... i really like him because he has so much respect for me, and the nicest bod. should i ask him? if so then how?

2006-12-29 19:52:23 · 2 answers · asked by tootsyrolly 1

I’m attracted to the boss of the small plastics company I work for. He’s in his mid 30s and not married. I’m 25, moderately attractive and don’t have much experience. I’m not great at reading signs so I could use some help. I really like him but not sure what his feelings are for me. I don’t want to come on too strong in case he doesn’t feel the same. Whenever I go up to him to ask a question he gets flustered and uncomfortable, but is very friendly with other females in the office. He likes to joke around with them during lunch and coffee breaks, but never talks to me and even avoids looking at me during those times. Sometimes I come away feeling very ignored and think he doesn’t like me at all. I’ve noticed that when he needs to come over to my desk to talk to me about something, he always takes his glasses off when we talk, but never does that with the others. I’m not sure what that means. If I smile at him he gives me a sort of half smile back, not a really friendly one.

2006-12-29 19:52:14 · 9 answers · asked by karwalk2 1

This person has told me that he likes me alot and has picked me up from places and we talk on the phone for hours every night...Hes a sweet heart and he always brings me stuff i need in the middle of the night no matter how late it is...Please help me i need some help..As i said he has told me he likes me alot and he means alot and that is all he has said..

2006-12-29 19:51:39 · 14 answers · asked by Babygirl 1

I've been dating the same girl for around 9 months now. The first 6 months were awesome - we just completely enjoyed being with each other and got along great. Over the past few months though, she's gotten extremely clingy and wont hardly let me go 3 or 4 hours without having to have a 30 minute conversation and demands that we spend a few hours together every day. She has no hobbies though... none. She used to party and drink some with me but won't even do that anymore, preferring to sit around and cuddle. Anytime I want to do something fun without her, she gets her feelings hurt, but anytime I would ask her to join me - ya know...she may like it or something... - she gets real defensive. She's BORING. So this weekend I went on a roadtrip with some guy friends and met this incredible girl. She had a bit of a wildside but was sweet and had alot more in common with me. I don't feel like I could date her, but I had an awesome time with her. Now I feel lost and don't really know what to .

2006-12-29 19:48:49 · 13 answers · asked by masse_master1987 1

2006-12-29 19:48:08 · 13 answers · asked by kady 1

2006-12-29 19:46:29 · 19 answers · asked by tootsyrolly 1

When I tell her to do something she gives give me that I am a stupid **** look. I should not have to micromanage every moment of her life. She is a mature woman who knows what I expect of her. There is no excuse for her to behave this way. How do I get her to realize that she will never be the lead dog so her scenery will never change?

2006-12-29 19:45:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im in 7th grade and well i sort of want to know what love feels like! my sister is 26 and she is married to a guy that she started dating in 6th grade! i want a realationaship like that! but how do i know wat love is....i have a boyfriend but i dont wan to say i love him until i know what it actully is...ADVICE?!?

2006-12-29 19:43:10 · 8 answers · asked by WOAHbabay its krissy! 1

2006-12-29 19:42:28 · 19 answers · asked by Janina 1

Are there free dating sites or any good techniques?

2006-12-29 19:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Ryan H 2

Well, I've had a crush on this guy for a long time but I don't think anything will ever happen between us and even though it makes me sad, I'm gonna let him go because I'm tired of getting sad all the time because he ignores me. It's just not worth it. So what are some good songs to get him off my mind?

2006-12-29 19:40:10 · 9 answers · asked by *Manda* 2

hey im seeking people who love to meet people all over the world and who like to chat and also to idle in an empty chatroom.... if u know where i can find people like that simply contact me on YM! ... thx so much

2006-12-29 19:39:50 · 3 answers · asked by explosivegrey 2

I know of course it is what we notice first. But be honest about how much it really matters after you get to know someone.

2006-12-29 19:38:14 · 33 answers · asked by freshlybakedj 3

I am in love with my best friend.....I have a boyfriend but I would never give my best friend up for my boyfriend. I actually wouldn't be willing to give anyone else for my best friend. I think he feels the same way but he is much to shy to admit it. We spent the holidays together and it was actually one of the best holidays I've had in a really long time. My boyfriend feels the distance but he doesn't know the real reason for it. But my best friend is my heart and no one could ever take his place. He is the first person that I talk to in the morning and the last person that I talk to when I go to sleep at night. And if I don't hear from him, I automatically know that something is wrong. We know each other so well that we can not talk to each other and know that something is wrong with each other. I am so in love with him but I am so scared to tell him how I feel for fear of rejection...What the heck do i do?

2006-12-29 19:38:14 · 5 answers · asked by deshenae23 1