Singles & Dating - 29 December 2006

I am in year long relationship that, besisdes our sexual desires, is pretty compatible. My boyfriend has made it clear that if our relationship is going to work, he needs to be able to have threesomes with me and another girl. Simply stated, I'm not interested and scared. I worry that he will fall in love with the other girl, that I will feel inadequate as a lover, about the dangers of STDs, and that this will turn into a compulsive behavior that I won't be able to handle or slippery slope into other activities. I worry if I just tell him that it is unacceptable that he will do it behind my back. He has asked me to at least try it once before I give up. I really don't want to leave him, but I fear this is a breaking point. He tells me that I'm being closed minded. It's too akward to talk to my girlfriends about. I just want another opinion or to know if someone else has been in this position.

2006-12-29 14:21:04 · 21 answers · asked by antelope 1

On-line dating or out in real world? Men in clubs, most are drunk and too young! Aren't they all out for the same thing anyway.?

2006-12-29 14:20:09 · 49 answers · asked by Traci 1

My bf of 2 months and i kissed last nite. the 1st kiss 4 both of us.
we usually talk every day, and he is going out of town 4 the next few days, so 2nite was basically our last nite 2 talk 4 those few days.
well, he said he'd call @ 8 or 9. It's 9:20, and he hasn't called. there is bad weather and my home phone isn't working, but my cell is. i emailed him about an hour ago, and told him 2 call my cell.
no call. we talked a little on email this afternoon.
i am really jumpy after such a big event 4 us happened [kiss].
What should I do???

2006-12-29 14:18:40 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3

I can't help it. She's just so damn hot. Is this wrong? or should I just ask her out?

2006-12-29 14:16:02 · 65 answers · asked by IMA SUCK@SS 2

I have been dateing a girl for almost a year now, she left her husband because we got found out, but we were together for about 4 months previous to this, about a month ago she tells me we are in a casual relationship from the beginning, but we saw each other almost everyday, she got talking to some guy from scotland who now lives in newzeland about 3 months ago on the internet, he calls her about once a week and now he tells her he loves her as I have heard him say on the phone to her, I love her too but from the heart, she knows this but now we have fallin out.

2006-12-29 14:15:30 · 7 answers · asked by Gerry x 1

i'm curious as what you will pick. a note, this has nothing to do with me, it's just a question out of curiousity, btw.

2006-12-29 14:15:20 · 6 answers · asked by Nancy M 1

My ex boyfriend and I still are casual aquaintances for about a year now. Last week for Christmas, he got me a gift as he says "just because we're still cool". He got me these little boxers boyshort and cami top to sleep in. He says that he thought they were a "cute gift" but I think the gift was something I might have gotten from him if he was STILL my boyfriend. BTW, I didn't think to get him anything if you're wondering. Anyways, was his gift a sign that he wants to hook up again?

2006-12-29 14:13:13 · 8 answers · asked by bunnychica1984 2

Ugh, ok I had this bf, and we dated seriously 4 6th months, and then he just broke it off 4 no reason. well now he emails me everyday and when i talk about other guys he gets mad, should we go back out? we do love each other alot, he just lets his stupid pride get to him. what should i do? please help me, im hot, and single and this is not right, lol.

2006-12-29 14:13:10 · 10 answers · asked by Chey 3

I wanted to know how both all girls and guys reacted to someone they liked and wanted to be more than friends. I wanted to see if there's a norm for girls and a norm for guys when it comes to them liking someone. Most specific answer gets best answer. Name EVERYTHING.

2006-12-29 14:11:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

how did you let your crush know u liked him, how was your first date and whatnot?

2006-12-29 14:10:14 · 9 answers · asked by becca 3

he docked from being off-shore (only been gone a week), and hes totally wasted. He rang me and told me he kissed someone. Didnt wait around to find out more, and hung up. He had beaten some bloke up and was in a bad mood. He called me loads of really nasty names which i wont repeat. I had a really good night at work and came back to find this out!! Im unsure of what to do now! I thought he was different from all the blokes i seem to have got with. Obviously not!! Any ideas to the solution to my problem?

2006-12-29 14:09:45 · 38 answers · asked by ? 3

Need a little help. One year anniversary coming up and I did not forget. Ideas on what's catchy/hot? Who makes the best what?

2006-12-29 14:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please describe your ideal woman.

2006-12-29 14:08:25 · 11 answers · asked by ahhihello 2

2006-12-29 14:07:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

When a guy who you thought was a friend, not your b/f or realative, buys you a bracelet from tiffany's for christmas?? Does it mean he wants to be more than friends even though you have a b/f?? Why do all my guy friends not accept the fact that we are friends?? Why can guys never be ok with "just friends"?? I think I am falling for him(not b/c of the bracelet, just overall). Was this his goal??

2006-12-29 14:05:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19 and My best friend who has been my best friend since the 5th grade went out of town for christmas and his girlfriend tried to kiss me what should I do I mean I do find her attractive but if I tell her no should I tell him she came on to me

2006-12-29 14:05:32 · 30 answers · asked by niquie_is_cool 1

Sending flowers to an ex girlfriend,wishing Happy New Year.What will she think and how do girls look at receiving flowers

2006-12-29 14:04:56 · 11 answers · asked by Cherokee P 1

I've been trying to do it for the longest time but its very hard, especially when you have to face the person everyday.

2006-12-29 14:04:37 · 10 answers · asked by GlitznGlamour 4

It’s just I am a 24 year old guy, and I really would like to know, how rare it is to be a virgin waiting to lose their virginity to someone special when married? Especially as the world is obsessed with sex.

2006-12-29 14:01:42 · 19 answers · asked by Hades 1

I'm dating this boy and he can be nice and he can be a total jerk.
he's nice on the phone but when i get around him and his friends they make fun of me and joke around. truthfully it hurts inside. but there are 2 other boys that i like and i've never been able to get over them. and it seems impossible to do. one of the boys i had dated before. the other i have like for like 2 years. and the other boys seem so much more respectful. any advice on what i should do?

2006-12-29 14:01:37 · 26 answers · asked by volleyball4life 2

do you think there is just one all emcompassing love....for each separate individual that you adore...from your mum to your friends...to your lover???

2006-12-29 13:59:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i gest most men think like me if we could make babies in test tubes wed be happer without women. women make me mad most of the time and i dont understand them. if im honest im a bit scared of them and i find no pleasure in them.
i would like to in a world where it was just us guys.
call me a redneck or what you want - i know most men think like me. no offence you girls

2006-12-29 13:59:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-29 13:57:06 · 20 answers · asked by missy 1

Seriously, I think the only thing worse than being stood up without a phone call is a toothache.

Why do guys, who see potientally interested otherwise, stand up good girls?

2006-12-29 13:56:19 · 26 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

...go awww! I really love this guy!

Mines is right before she get off work i go over to her apartment and run her a hot candlelit bubble bath so when she gets in all she has to do is get undressed and get in. I leave before she gets there though because i know she like her alone time at times too. She loves it and i love making her smile so its all good!

2006-12-29 13:55:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

its aggravating!

2006-12-29 13:54:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I'm 5'4, 110 pounds, green eyes, light brown hair. i dont think im pretty, I think im pretty ugly actually. I think its mostly because I was dorky before with glasses and awkward looking so I got teased a lot. its not that I never get told I'm pretty, but I never believe it. I dont have confidence and and so shy its rediculous. I cant look a guy in the eyes because I get nervous. So if I work on my confidence, will guys notice that and approach me more?

2006-12-29 13:52:53 · 12 answers · asked by Tina 2

2006-12-29 13:50:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy I have been off-on with a few times this past year. Before this, we were really good friends... We broke up, but I still have feelings for him and he does for me, but everytime we get back together, we break up again over something I wouldn't consider worth it. But is it worth it to stay with him?

2006-12-29 13:49:48 · 14 answers · asked by gymnast.girl520 2

Girls/Guys, have you ever been a rebound for someone in a relationship and has it ever been successful or just a getting over the other person. I'm curious...what was the make it or break it.

2006-12-29 13:48:07 · 14 answers · asked by V. 1