Seriously, I think the only thing worse than being stood up without a phone call is a toothache.
Why do guys, who see potientally interested otherwise, stand up good girls?
2006-12-29 13:56:19 · 26 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awwwww...did he stand you up for real? Sorry rascal. I was hoping you were having a good time watching your movie with the neighbor. Sorry he did that to you. He is the loser! Move on. Not ALL guys stand women up. There's a good one out there for you.
2006-12-29 14:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how they act most guys are shy and self-concious. They are so afraid of looking dumb they will not attempt anything new. Like taking out a new person. It's not about you. It's about them.
I don't know how you plan to start these dates but maybe there are ways to make the dater feel more comfortable, like meeting you with mutual friends. Then if you get stood up you can still have fun.
2006-12-29 14:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suspect you're looking in the wrong places. The bad ones are easy to find because they slick their hair back and talk too much. Stay out of the bars and the shopping malls. Try the Gym, the Library, and the Nice little coffe shop inside the Organic food co-op.
2006-12-29 14:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ellis26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that a lot of guys just get nervous. Sometimes they feel that a woman has high expectations of what they want in a guy and they feel as though they cannot live up to those expectations. This would make a lot of people buckle under the pressure of the situation. That's the best explanation I can give you about this.
2006-12-29 14:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by ny_elephant518 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Count yourself lucky that he was a no show. He must be a loser. Be blessed and wait for the right kind of man ot show up. They always do. Happy New Year and a better 2007 than 2006.
2006-12-29 14:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
choice one; be a good, good girl. it's going to get worst for you.
or become a wild, fun girl who gives a damn about the guys.
you want to stand guys up and they like it or do you want to be stood up? make a change. All good wife s husbands are out with the fun girls while the good wifes are waiting at home. Hey life is a *****.
2006-12-29 14:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys who stand up women are doing them a favor. Any guy who would do that is not worth the first date let alone a second of any womans time. Ya hear that guys????!!!
2006-12-29 14:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am tired of being stood up... what do girls have against nice normal fun guys.. does the guy have to just want to have intercourse with her and leave her for her to like him? why do girls go for guys like that then complain
2006-12-29 22:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will forever be a mystery. Some guys pretend they are interested when they truly arent. So basically they waste your time because they are cowards. Don't let it get to you, Just move on to the next one.
Good luck Dating is terribly confusing.
2006-12-29 13:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Vanessa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because guys are dumb, but i think i experienced a worse thing than being stood up being broken up with over the phone!
2006-12-29 14:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kendra S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋