Singles & Dating - 24 December 2006

Guy I'm interested in (Steve), who says he's interested in me, isn't making an effort to spend time with me. Keeps asking me to be patient and not give up. Recently had an ex (Kate) with breast cancer contact him for moral support. He dated this gal years ago and she moved away to seek treatment in another city. He dated someone after that (Sharon), but they never went anywhere because he was still hung up on Kate. Two years later, here I am. He says he's not in love with Kate, but feels obligated to support her.

Positive:
- Says he's interested, compliments me, brings me little gifts
- 'Says' he wants to spend time with me

Not so positive:
- Doesn't call me--only IM and phone text
- Hasn't taken me out yet (been 2 mos)

Granted, if someone asked me out right now and i wanted to go out with them, I would. But this has been eating me up inside--esp. with the holidays and all. Part of me wants to just end this, but will I be ruining something potentially great? What should I do?

2006-12-24 02:42:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

more than 200 bottles get wasted by being poured on women

2006-12-24 02:40:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

HEY GUYS. i liKE A GUY AND i ASKED HiM OUT AND WE FliRT All THE TiME.HE SAiD HE WASN'T READY TO OUT W/ ANYBODY THEN.NOW HE SAYS HE WANTS TO START DATiNG NOW.SHOUlD i ASK HiM BACK OUT? iF YES.HOW SHOUlD i?
THANKS SOOOO MUCH!!
MERRY CHRiSTAMS!
♥MADiSON♥

2006-12-24 02:40:32 · 16 answers · asked by ♥CUTE lil` CHEER CHiCK♥ 1

It's my birthday in a couple of days, and I'm going to be 34.
Now I'd like to do something special and I've tried looking on the web for ideas but I'm still not sure. I'd like to be DOING something.
I may be able to find a baby sitter for that day, and if not would you know of anything I could do where I could possibly include my two children aged between 6 and 10.
No, I don't have a bf. It's just me and the kids!
Thanks for helping.

2006-12-24 02:37:49 · 10 answers · asked by Kc 6

i have a girlfriend who is 14 years old and we have been dating for a very long time. we held hands (of course), french kissed and hugged. Should i get even more intimate?. Not as in sex, i know shes too young for that. Something like sneaking under her undies or some sort. This is my first ever girlfriend, i love her a lot and im afraid of any wrong steps which would lead to losing her. Please help.

2006-12-24 02:36:31 · 12 answers · asked by LeBear 2

I'm 25 yrs. old and went out yesterday with a girl from jdate.com who's 24 yrs. old. We had a very nice time and I would like to see her again. We said we would talk in a couple of days and discuss when to meet next. Do I really have to wait? I mean, what gives? I want to call her today and ask her (tongue in cheek and sort of laughingly) "I mean, do I really have to wait to call and talk a little?"
Is that crazy or too pushy? Or, perhaps, since she says she is non-judgemental (lol, right), then is there a chance she would appreciate this?

2006-12-24 02:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1

I dont know if I even love him but he is always on my mind

2006-12-24 02:19:24 · 9 answers · asked by marija t 1

if a guy wants to sleep with different women.why does he need to be in a relationship?why not be single?

2006-12-24 02:14:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 02:13:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

he keeps talking to my like best friends and saying he could get back with me in a minute if he texted me and he always hangs out with my friends and talks about me and causes drama and asks what boys im with now etc and ive been ignoring him becuase its not worth fighting about but he isgetting on my nerves do you think i shoudl clal him and like scream at him to get the hell away from my friendsx get your own and stop talking about me you dont kno me anymore or do you think i should continue to ignore him because if i dont then he thinks i might still like him which i absoulety DO NOT. and would never get back with him because hes an insentive jerk and liar

2006-12-24 02:11:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 02:08:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 02:01:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

how would you say “I love you” to your boy/girlfriends, wife, or husband.

2006-12-24 02:01:02 · 19 answers · asked by just_D 2

My boyfriend is away in Australia for 3 weeks with a mate over Xmas and New Year. Is it possible for him to stay faithful with all those stunning women about, seriously? When hes home is there a way i can work out if he hasnt been faithful?

2006-12-24 02:00:34 · 21 answers · asked by scarlett0811 1

2006-12-24 01:59:20 · 31 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2

with this one women, i'm guilty of not giving enough attention.

how do you tell a women to drop the attitude, without lsoing her as a friend.

2006-12-24 01:58:43 · 15 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2

My former bestfriend is one year older then I, we used to date but broke up and were extremly close ever since. His friends tore us apart and he blamed me for thewhole thing. He is now in college and he has completely changed and is a complete jack *** now and i miss him. He is a terrible person now. Is there a way i can make him feel guilty about how he has changed with out me looking bad bc i dont want to loose him i just want him to feel guilty?

2006-12-24 01:57:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recentely split with my ex, i was the one to break up with him.
I then went to a reunion of a guy who is going to college/university for his masters further up in the country. This guy is friends with my ex i dont think their v.close. Plus i dont think i should feel guilty for liking his friend (since my ex told me many times how much he likes one of my friends, before we went out and after we broke up).
Anyway at the reunion i ended up holding hands with his friend and he seemed really keen on me.
We then meet up again the following weekend and i thought it was only fair to tell him his friend was my ex (he didnt know) and that i still have a broken heart. I then sent him a mobile msg saying that i do like him but i have a brokenheart+dont know completely what i want. He didnt reply!! We did really get on when we meet up, sooo where do i stand? did i freak him out?? Why didnt he msg me back?? Was it the chase and now that its gone he doesnt like me? I dont know what to think??

2006-12-24 01:57:05 · 15 answers · asked by lazydazy 4

Are they stupid?

If you never heard of this before watch 911 Mysteries on google video.

2006-12-24 01:55:54 · 10 answers · asked by dsfdgfd f 1

do women mean this when they say it or is it a ploy to get rid of a guy.

i know this women, who is being really aggressive whenever i'm with her and it's making me feel uncomfortable. she does like me,but i don't know how to do show her i like her back. more importantly, i'm affraid she won't let me and will keep on turning me down,

2006-12-24 01:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2

yo.. It is not about what is natural or watever u r talking about.. to the average dude.. there isnt really anything a woman can do to stop a man from ******* another woman.. plus we not talking about love here, we talking baout cheating...when a man have a woman.. there is a 110% chance he will encounter another woman who is better looking and have a lot more to offer him than his present woman... a wonder if u know that some of the nicest and sweetest and most caring women out there are the ones that are cheated on?.

what you must know is that a man dosent necessarily decist from cheating because of what he is getting from his present woman..there r several reasosn why a man would wnat to **** another woman even though he has one that is giving him every and anything he wants.. thats the way a lot of women get ****** over, because they think that because they treat their men so nice and do everything fi him bla bla bla... etc .ect ect. he wont **** another woman.

2006-12-24 01:53:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

do they show or tell you when they are upset.
do they know how to show emotion.
are you confortable with accepting it, when you lady is cross with. you.
what do you do, when your other doesn't need you, when you go to her
do her employers accept you
is it a sign of faith and acceptance, when someone shows you when their feeling annoyed
how do you treat your lady
how do you show her you respect her
how do you show the meaning of a relationship
how do you know when she want your attention
and should you ask, how she likes to receice attention.

2006-12-24 01:50:13 · 10 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2

Ive been seeing this girl alot the last few weeks (as friends). im interested to no wat you all think. Shes probably the nicest person ive ever met. The last 4 weeks ive been round her house nearly every night. I get on with her mum, get offered food when im there and that.
Was in town with her afew weeks back and see her friends, and they were like ooo so this is the person u said about that comes round your house.
The other day she text me to say it was weird she hadnt seen me (due to being at her dads). She rang me jus to say enjoy the gig I was going too. And the other nite when I was there she grabbed my hand and held it against her chest. She likes to hug up to me, resting her head on my chest.
She likes to try and wind me up, cos she thinks its fun, Shes quite nosey when it comes to textin and wants to no whos texted lol like “whos that” etc. We get on really well, what do you think? is there something there to say she wants to be mo

2006-12-24 01:46:21 · 12 answers · asked by grezzor 2

He is so sexy and ...hmmm just sexy...ohhh...Im in love....

2006-12-24 01:44:15 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Blue 2

...and you had one minute to win them over, what would you say?

2006-12-24 01:43:55 · 23 answers · asked by just_D 2

i met a guy a couple months back online and i have a high sex drive but i have no way of letting it out on him. so if i was to go get laid by somebody else would i be cheating

2006-12-24 01:41:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

“It is raining last night.”
Is this correct English ? My Japanese girl friend thinks this is correct English. I need some help !

2006-12-24 01:40:38 · 18 answers · asked by ron s 1

well he is sooo sweet and i luv him but...sometimes i wish he was a little more..well ya assertive.

2006-12-24 01:37:33 · 12 answers · asked by alison b 4

I love pigtails myself but untill lately I only have been wearing them at home when its too hot because I've always kept my hair in a style to hide my ears as they are really big and stick straight out and totally take over and change the way I look. But my lover loves me in high pigtails so much that I now wear them all the time for him and I just promised I'd even wear them up when he's not around. I'm wondering if he just wants me to look funny so boys don't flurt with me cause he's also very keen on cuting off all my hair.
I went out with two of my girlfriends clubbing the other night and usually I get a lot of attention but all I got just stares while my girl friends got lots of attention while some drunk was telling me I had the biggest ears he'd ever seen. I do love my relationship and would love to please him even if its embarassing Should I just get used to it and try and accept my ears the way they are or are pigtails or cropped hair for me a crime against good hair sense?

2006-12-24 01:37:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLEASE!!! Give me advice on what NOT to do!!

2006-12-24 01:37:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous