My former bestfriend is one year older then I, we used to date but broke up and were extremly close ever since. His friends tore us apart and he blamed me for thewhole thing. He is now in college and he has completely changed and is a complete jack *** now and i miss him. He is a terrible person now. Is there a way i can make him feel guilty about how he has changed with out me looking bad bc i dont want to loose him i just want him to feel guilty?
2006-12-24 01:57:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be the one feeling guilty. So he changed and took on butthead qualities. You don't want to lose him but you do want to pile a guilt trip on him. In other words, you don't have his best interests at heart, the very same thing that you accuse him of.
You might want to put some of the energy you're spending on manipulating him into looking at yourself and figuring out why you feel the way you do.
I hope you get over this before dating, no other guy deserves the pile of animosity you're carrying around....
2006-12-24 02:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a few emails...
Tell him you never new what the other side of dateing was till you two broke up. Explaine to him thathe really did you a favor as how to compair MEN..
Like he only thought with his ZIPPER and you have found others that really know how to wear there pants.
Tell him he deserves all the credit in the world as he represents the back woods breed and they really have not learned about life yet. Moonshine is not everything and he definatly is not a Little Abner.
Tell him the reason he still wears sneekers (SHOES) is simply because he is a sneeky person and the shoes fit him just right.
Tell him the reason he don't weat Under Pantsis because of the Brown Spots. You know this nowas you have come to find out he is a BULL S----R!!!
Gust adlib and tell him his Mama must have worn combat boots.
Have a greay holiday
2006-12-24 02:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by TEX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He is doing and being what he wants to be, he won't feel guilty for it. Sometimes guys get MORE immature when they get into the college scene. But you can't change him. Besides trying to make people feel guilty is a manipulation game.
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2016-12-01 03:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by duperne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't want to make a person feel guilty and not be a bad person.
2006-12-24 02:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do something to try to make him feel guilty,than you're just stooping to his level,that makes you a mean person too!
2006-12-24 02:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by baby_gail68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why....what is the big attraction to someone who is a jerk????
2006-12-24 02:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋