he keeps talking to my like best friends and saying he could get back with me in a minute if he texted me and he always hangs out with my friends and talks about me and causes drama and asks what boys im with now etc and ive been ignoring him becuase its not worth fighting about but he isgetting on my nerves do you think i shoudl clal him and like scream at him to get the hell away from my friendsx get your own and stop talking about me you dont kno me anymore or do you think i should continue to ignore him because if i dont then he thinks i might still like him which i absoulety DO NOT. and would never get back with him because hes an insentive jerk and liar
2006-12-24 02:11:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just continue to ignore him. in situations like this, any form of contact with him will spur him on to contact you further. after 2 weeks, if he is still persistant then i would then send him a message or see him in person saying you really will never want to get back with him, please could he stop contacting you, and the most he will get from you EVER is your friendship. he should get the message then.
2006-12-24 02:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by alabama w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a few emails or dial the phone...
Tell him you never new what the other side of dateing was till you two broke up. Explaine to him that he really did you a favor as how to compair MEN..
Like he only thought with his ZIPPER and you have found others that really know how to wear there pants.
Tell him he deserves all the credit in the world as he represents the back woods breed and they really have not learned about life yet. Moonshine is not everything and he definatly is not a Little Abner.
Tell him the reason he still wears sneekers (SHOES) is simply because he is a Sneeky Jurk person and the shoes fit him just right.
Tell him the reason he don't weat Under Pants is because of the Brown Spots. You know this now as you have come to find out he is a BULL S----R!!!
Just adlib and tell him his Mama must have worn combat boots and his surly wern ment for walking.
Have a greay holiday
2006-12-24 02:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by TEX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor you, well first of all, i really think you should call him and tell him how you feel, scream at him if you want, itll help him realize that he was wrong. then when your done screaming, take a deep breath for ten seconds and tell him what you want in a really serious tone so that he would also realize your not freaking kidding. never let him talk to your friends! its just bad karma! yeah, you dont like him anymore, but by letting him talk to your friends, your letting him keep a small connection with your life! he'll still know at least one thing that's going on with you! is that what you want? i hope not. cuz if he thinks he's getting a connection to you by your friends, he thinks he still has a chance! tell your friends to ignore him at all costs, so that he could finally realize . . that he has got to get his own friends and his own life and get over you! its the only way. :)
2006-12-24 02:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by mia_n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just showing u how insecure he is b/c he is playing on your friends to get to u. When u get out a relationship u sometimes need to make a new group of friends. This will help u grow when u can look back & learn from past mistakes. Too many women don't do this & continually make bad choices.
2006-12-24 02:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the first comment left.
This is very important to learn, that when a man says, "I can get back together with you in a minute" he's asserting control over you. If you give in, then you invite other men to take control or manipulate you.
Be strong
2006-12-24 02:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was going through the same problems with one of my ex's i ignored him for a while but then i got fed up with it and i screamed at him in the middle of class in front of everyone...needless to say he has stopped talking about me, to me and to my friends! it worked for me...but it might not be the best thing for you! i would just talk to you friends and tell them how you feel about it and ask them if he does say things about you to stick up for you and if he asks questions like what guy you are with and everything ask them to tell him that its not of his business...maybe he'll get the point!
2006-12-24 02:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not yell it him! it hurts, i know from personal experience! but don't ignore him, that hurts too. just tell him calmly that he should stay away for a while. you need your own time without him in your life.
2006-12-24 02:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your friends are present,( so everybody knows from the horse's mouth) tell him everything you have to say, how you do not appreciate his attitude, talking, etc......insensitive jerk and liar...cross my fingers for you
2006-12-24 02:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what I think you should do is just tell him that you don't like him and you want him to stay out of your life and you don't want anything to do with him what so ever( tell him) don't scream at him
2006-12-24 02:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by Chevy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to **** off and leave ur friends alone and to stop causing drama. scare that crap out of him
2006-12-24 02:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by sexyg0pher770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋