i have a girlfriend who is 14 years old and we have been dating for a very long time. we held hands (of course), french kissed and hugged. Should i get even more intimate?. Not as in sex, i know shes too young for that. Something like sneaking under her undies or some sort. This is my first ever girlfriend, i love her a lot and im afraid of any wrong steps which would lead to losing her. Please help.
2006-12-24 02:36:31 · 12 answers · asked by LeBear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Chris at a time point in time in your life you and your girlfriend needs to take your time in your lives, if you have been with her that long then take your time and make the relationship last for as long as it should,all those things you want to do with her it will be there tomorrow and the next day. So be patience with her because again she is still a young lady at heart. Chris you sound like a gentleman and in this day and age young men like you are very rare so stay the way that you are and enjoy your life with her if that is your choice.
2006-12-24 02:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Raynette S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is too young. I don't know how old you are, but, one thing leads to another and pretty soon you will find youself having sex. Unless you are ready, ie financialy and emotionally to start a family, you should cool your heels. Stick to the kissing and hugging. If she gets pregnant, the baby will change your young lives forever - enjoy your youth - there is so much to explore without sex. Save it for when you are older, please.
2006-12-24 02:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Pandora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hardest thing to do is guess what other people are thinking. You're going to have to ask her what she thinks is appropriate at this point in relationship. Best way to go about it is to ask her what she would like. It will be hard, but do it. Then tell her that your not going to do anything unless she asks you to. Then you will never be at fault and you'll have less of a chance of freakin her out.
2006-12-24 02:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Puzzeled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are. She is only 14! If I were her parent and found out you were doing such things, I would castrate you! She's a child for gods sake.
2006-12-24 02:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. If you do, both of you may not be able to control yourselves anymore. And maybe she doesn't feel comfortable with more phyical intimacy. I say you should not get even more intimate with her.
2006-12-24 02:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only 14, you keep your hands to yourself.
2006-12-24 02:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You caould mabe take a nap with her and if she really likes that do it naked
2006-12-24 02:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by lemarkz51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it above the waist.
2006-12-24 02:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by FunBetty! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure but do it slowly and carefully dont rush into things to fast
2006-12-24 02:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by nakra_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should 1rst ask her, if she agrees then go on
2006-12-24 02:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by Dj Badboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋