I'm 25 yrs. old and went out yesterday with a girl from jdate.com who's 24 yrs. old. We had a very nice time and I would like to see her again. We said we would talk in a couple of days and discuss when to meet next. Do I really have to wait? I mean, what gives? I want to call her today and ask her (tongue in cheek and sort of laughingly) "I mean, do I really have to wait to call and talk a little?"
Is that crazy or too pushy? Or, perhaps, since she says she is non-judgemental (lol, right), then is there a chance she would appreciate this?
2006-12-24 02:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SIMPLE.LIFE IS 2 SHORT TO KEEP WAITING.HAVE FAITH IN URSELF & GO 4 IT.U NEVA NO SHE MAY BE ASKING THE SAME QUESTION.WELL GET ON IT WITH IT.ALL DA BEST
2006-12-24 02:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by MAIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With Christmas just one day away she may have other plans with her family but maybe a call would be OK just let her know that you're not trying to be pushy but that you were just thinking about her and wanted to talk for a few minutes if she had the time.
But remember what time of year it is. If she says she can't talk right now don't feel hurt she maybe tell the truth and would have more time after Christmas. If may make her feel good that you called early.
2006-12-24 10:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mama's gone crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok my friend if you want to call her the next day go for it just tell her "i dont know what it is but i cant get you out of my mind" because it is true. speak from the heart and you cant go wrong unless you tell her that you want to marry her after one date then you just lost her.
call her and see how she is and tell her you had a great time and that you want to do it again sometime soon
hoped i helped
Griff
2006-12-24 10:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by griff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely am not about games, so I would go for it. It depends though, how you want to go about pursuing her. Do you want to be honest and put it all out there? Would you be embarrassed if she was weirded out? Are you willing to take that risk? Albeit, it's not a huge risk at all, but you have think about whether or not you would regret it. If you get the vibe that she is equally just as into you, then go for it. If you get the vibe, she wants to go slow, then go at her pace. Don't push it if she wants to take it reallly slow.
2006-12-24 10:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectably acceptable to call, but try not to appear desperate or impatient, it may be percieved as your flaw and be a turn off to her. If you call, be brief and invite her to call you back when she wants is able to talk longer...make sense?
2006-12-24 10:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by curiousJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never wait and I have pretty good luck-if she likes you then shes probably just as anxious as you are to talk
2006-12-24 10:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by I'm laughing WITH you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! you should call! i dont think it is to pushy! i would be flattered that you would want to talk to me again so soon!
2006-12-24 10:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by CaKeRox1o1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask! New Years eve is fast approaching!!
2006-12-24 10:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by Nanny2Kara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
won't know unless you try
2006-12-24 10:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋