My boyfriend is away in Australia for 3 weeks with a mate over Xmas and New Year. Is it possible for him to stay faithful with all those stunning women about, seriously? When hes home is there a way i can work out if he hasnt been faithful?
2006-12-24 02:00:34 · 21 answers · asked by scarlett0811 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah youre all right in your own way. Ive just had some rough experiences in the past and i know that shouldnt affect the way i think as theyre different people. I guess its the time of year. Getting abit emotinal! Thanks.
2006-12-24 02:16:04 · update #1
Yes it is possible. However, why would he be away from you at this time of year and obviously prefer to be with his mates? I'm assuming that you have not been dating very long and this was arranged before you met and unless you have agreed to date each other exclusively then you are on dodgy ground anyway. However, if you have been together for some time but he has still arranged this then perhaps he is a little too sure of you. If it worries you that much just ask him out straight if he saw anyone else while he was away (unless you don't want to know the answer anywayin which case why would you want to put yourself through the agony of trying to 'work it out') - it seems to me that you need to work on your communication if you were not able to discuss this before he goes/went away. I hope that you are not going to be sitting by the phone for the whole time he is away; get out and about with your friends and family (and I don't mean chatting up guys) he might not be so eager to go away again if he realises that you are not totally dependent on him.
2006-12-24 02:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to try trusting him otherwise the relationship just will not work but if u`ve had bad experiences in the past then i can understand how u feel. personally wen i`m in a relationship i`m 100% faithful. i think u need to give him the benefit of the doubt
2006-12-24 04:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by groundhog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is away as well, he is in Venezuela, he's been gone 11days now & won't be back till Jan 4th. I trust him implicitly and wouldn't dream of even thinking that he would 'play away'.
Try to keep yourself busy go out with your friends and if you can spend time with your family. I understand that it's not easy but there is no point in torturing yourself with thoughts of what he might be up to, go out enjoy yourself and make sure you plan something special for when he returns.
Good Luck x
2006-12-24 02:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by shortstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bit of blind faith goes a long way, just ask him on his return was he faithful and i think he'll tell you yes! and you'll know hes telling the truth. if i went off on hols with a mate i'm only there to rip the joint up and get pissed have a laugh, women are the last thing on my mind.
2006-12-24 02:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just trust him or you will be eating yourself up inside with worry and jealousy. If he wouldnt do it he, you must believe in your heart that he wont do it on holiday. Dont ruin your festive season, have a good time, he will probably be thinging the same of you. if it is love you have nothing to worry about.
2006-12-24 02:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to worry about. The women look like blokes down here. But if you're truly worried about him misbehaving you need to look at an even greater worry - the reason why you don't entirely trust him.
2006-12-24 02:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have trust, then is the relationship worth it, as you will always doubt.
If he loves you he will window shop but not go in and buy!
2006-12-24 02:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by dancingmaveric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? Sounds like trouble...
If you're not married and no kids then it's hard on the heart but no big deal really.
2006-12-24 02:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by swingfromhips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have one thing to say trust is the foundation of a relationship and if you don't trust him then maybe he isn't the one for you. sorry to be so blunt but its true
have a good xmas and new year
2006-12-24 02:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him not to wash then smell his dick when he gets home. Fish = unfaithful, funk = faithful
2006-12-24 02:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by Knobby Knobville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋