Singles & Dating - 24 December 2006

I have a ex boyfriend who is deployed. We have been on again off again since he has been deployed. I love him very much but the whole situation is not one that i want to be in..One minute Im the love of his life. The next he doesnt see a future with me. I ask him to comment to something more but he tells me to be patient. Im at the end of my rope. I know how he gets when things aint right with us..I want him to stay focus but I want to make a clean break without feeling guilty. He is the love of my life but I need more..Am I selfish for wanting more from a man who is deployed

2006-12-24 06:28:23 · 5 answers · asked by SOLIDERGUY 1

would you be mad if I didn't get you a gift? I didn't get my boyfriend one for two reasons. 1 I didn't think that he was gonna get me one but he did. 2 I don't know what to get him! Would you be mad?

2006-12-24 06:27:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We broke up awhile ago, and I cannot get over him we had a very "adult, in love realtionship" and then it just ended and I feel like no how matter much I try to get over him I can't. I want to like other guys but I can't all I think about is him when I am with other guys, I also feel like when I kiss other guys I am cheating.

2006-12-24 06:27:07 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-12-24 06:26:44 · 4 answers · asked by ♥kisses_in_the_rain♥ 3

I didn't expect so many responses so quickly. I will take the majority opinion and tell my girfriend, but after the new year. I want to make sure she has Great Xmas and New years eve. Thanks Again

2006-12-24 06:25:50 · 3 answers · asked by Curious 2

Do guys like the girls that are really skinny. Or the ones with more meat on their bones?

2006-12-24 06:25:38 · 17 answers · asked by keonia_cutie1 1

2006-12-24 06:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by babygirl143_dk 3

2006-12-24 06:24:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every party I have gone to Im always making out with minimum 10 chicks Every now and then when Im drunk I get a little hardcore, but the girls never say anything. Im just wondering do most girls like that?

2006-12-24 06:23:30 · 14 answers · asked by Mo H 2

I mean is right to have a girlfriend wills in school or when you have got a good job

2006-12-24 06:21:50 · 17 answers · asked by reynoldsfrimpong 1

Okay. I like this girl, and someone recently told me that she liked me. I never told anyone that I liked her so I was pretty surprised when someone told me she liked me. I knew it could not be a prank. So, I have decided that after holiday break, I am going to ask her out. ( I know, hooray for me ) Give me some tips on what I should do, how do get her to like me, where to take her on a date, etc. Thank You!!!

2006-12-24 06:19:33 · 10 answers · asked by playthatfunkymusicbryan 1

He checks my online profile everyday and watch who i talk and send scrap to.sometimes he prompts his friends to send me "ask you out" or "looking hot" mails to check if i will reply.I have orders not to reply anyone else but him.He buys me what evr i want, love me a lot and i love him a lot too but i just dont know why he keeps on spying.Is something wrong in life????i just dont feel so good about this.

2006-12-24 06:15:25 · 11 answers · asked by teejay gurl 1

My ex and I went out for 2+ yrs. we did love each other. Then when we left for college. (i'm already in college, she was just leaving. she was 2 yrs younger) a few weeks into it, she lost the feelings she had for me and she broke up with me. it hurt a lot. i know it wasnt for a guy, or a prospect. I wish she had a reason, but she doesnt. she even saiod i love you each night. i want to stay friends and so does she. she is also friends w/ all my friends so we will end up hanging out in groups. everytime she comes up i get anxious. its been months since the break up. I dont think i still like her, i will admit i miss her as a friend, cause we were best friends for so long. I cant tell her to stop hanging out w/ my friends cause that will upset everyone. I don't want to do that. I just wish I knew why i got anxious about this? why should i care if she hangs out w/ everyone? I am looking forward to meeting someone new, i don't think of her that much anymore as i did when we first broke up.

2006-12-24 06:14:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i listen to my feelings ?

2006-12-24 06:14:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tinkerbell101 1

OK, I am starting to get incredibly depressed...why? Because I am alone. I don't have a girlfriend, hah, no girl sober and in their right mind would even give me a second glance. I hate the way I look, I am very reclusive (I have sociophobia and have been trying my damnedest to rid myself of it since shortly after I got it nearly 4 years ago) My depression has had a HUGE detrimental effect on friends...to the point where I just can't bear to face them.

People have tried to cheer me up and for a while it has worked, but shortly after the shadow comes back and I am hating the world and my life again. I have never really had a real girlfriend before and its eating me up inside...I know I cant force a girl to like me or anything and I wouldnt want to if I could. If anyone wants to know more about the real me, please check out my myspace profile http://myspace.com/illiathu. Thanks if anyone can help me.

--Rob

2006-12-24 06:13:39 · 15 answers · asked by crazytoad11 2

Well i see my boyfriend tomorrow night and i have helped my mom cook and clean all day and i have nothing to do right now. so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of what i could make for my boyfriend!..i got him things but is there something nice i could do...i made him a poem allready..any other lsat minute ideas?..pleasee

2006-12-24 06:11:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do ppl impersonate each other on chatrooms? Why do ppl be mean to each other on chatrooms? Why do ppl (mainly guys) get all creepy perv gross to girls on chatrooms? Why? I go on this one chatroom a lot and all of what I said has happened and continues to happen. Otherwise though, this chatroom is awesome. If ya wanna come on it, email me and I'll tell where to find it. I'm on a lot... Bye!

2006-12-24 06:11:21 · 7 answers · asked by Ali 2

if someone was going 2 come over 2 hang out, and were late, how many minuets late would you allow before you call?
Tnx

2006-12-24 06:11:19 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3

I wouldn't say Im ugly... people say Im kind of hot/cute... i have my own style...im really nice, sometimes funny... but I never had a boyfriend... guys just dont look at me as at a girl... but i want one, what should i do?

2006-12-24 06:08:04 · 23 answers · asked by lidiyaloves 2

ok so im going to give a 'love' cd to a really good guy friend of mine.


any suggestions?? and how many shud i hav???

2006-12-24 06:07:09 · 6 answers · asked by $loverr 1

We been going out for awhile she is great - intelligent, beautiful,funny and loves sex.
But here is the problem, am I afraid with my luck she will discover that I used do pornos and I am not sure how she would react. Should I behonest tell her? Say nothing? How would you react if it was your boyfriend or husband?

2006-12-24 06:06:47 · 20 answers · asked by Curious 2

2006-12-24 06:04:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 25 yrs. old and went out with a 24 yr. old girl yesterday and we had a very nice time. She seemed happy but I'm not totally convinced she liked me. She was laughing and talking alot while we were eating but when we were walking outside a bit she was talking and not really looking towards me. Just looking straight ahead. Anyway, we agreed we would talk in a few days and see what to do from there. Now, I've seen her on the site three times now since then and why the hell should I wait to call her? Shouldn't I just be bold and try to call right away? If she really DOES feel interested in me, she shouldn't mind right? What is your take on it? I really thought alot of her but again, am not sure if she was just being nice.

2006-12-24 06:03:58 · 10 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1

Example: A friend (male), says they will call you back in a couple of days and you don't hear back at all, should you leave another message for them, or is this a simple way of blowing you off?

2006-12-24 06:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by Angela W 3

???? do you have children and that is why you do find them attractive? If you do not have children what about them is attractive to you? If you dont find them attractive, what makes you think so

2006-12-24 06:01:51 · 13 answers · asked by Chrissy WB 2

2006-12-24 06:01:21 · 9 answers · asked by Geena 2

2006-12-24 06:01:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

constitutes a casual sexual relationship. Is it just getting to gether for a few hours of sex and then one leaves and goes home?Or do you go out for dinner, talk for hours DO IT and the next morning you have breakfast and leave?

2006-12-24 05:59:05 · 9 answers · asked by lauren10901 1

i like this guy and we're starting to hangout togther alot but he has this "bestfriend" thats a girl and is really close to him. but his so called bestfriend clearly likes him more than just a friend. she calls up everytime when were together. it really annoys me alot. she wants him back pretty badly cuz hes spending more time with me now. wat shud i do?

2006-12-24 05:58:14 · 9 answers · asked by Macky 2

No really, ur the best! ;P

2006-12-24 05:57:14 · 5 answers · asked by Sopwith 4