i like this guy and we're starting to hangout togther alot but he has this "bestfriend" thats a girl and is really close to him. but his so called bestfriend clearly likes him more than just a friend. she calls up everytime when were together. it really annoys me alot. she wants him back pretty badly cuz hes spending more time with me now. wat shud i do?
2006-12-24 05:58:14 · 9 answers · asked by Macky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to the man. Ask for his honesty to choose between you or her.
If he couldn't choose, then walk away.
If he choose you, ask him to get rid of her after you tell him your objections. If he won't do it, just walk away.
Love needs sacrifice, so you or her. Just one word.
2006-12-24 06:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Take it slow and don't act like you are jealous. Take the phone off the hook when you're together, she'll eventually get the idea. Don't do anything manipulative or he just might decide he really likes the best friend more. Turn the situation around how would you want him to treat your beloved best friend, if that were the situation. Good luck and hang in there!
2006-12-24 06:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just continue what you're doing and bring up how you notice how she seems to be attracted to him and if he has noticed then mention how it concerns you. DO NOT give him an ultimatum because : a)Nobody like that, b)He's known her longer than you and most important, c)If you really care for him as much as you say you do you wouldn't put him in that kind of situation to begin with. You're dealing with people with actual emotions, not with chocolate or vanilla ice cream. Hope that helps.
2006-12-24 06:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by DLG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what is bothering you staright up.If he finds this "best buddy "more valuable than you, then he will definitely say it.I dont think you should suck it up and pretend everything is fine.I agree with you, these so calld lovy doves are annoying.best thing is to tell him face to face.Let him make the choice.why should u????
2006-12-24 06:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by teejay gurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess it will be a, little bit unfair if you'll get rid of her.. in the 1st place they met before you guys did..
yeah its annoying when she starts bothering when you guys were together but i guess its up to the guy how he would handle it.. be friends with his friends, respect them and by that you can earn their respect as well..
r u from manila? just saw ung answer with MBA.. lol
2006-12-24 06:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by mystery moo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it loud and clear get your point across and be blunt about it .Then if the dumb biotch dont get the point,open a can of woop *** on her !!
2006-12-24 06:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to pick either you or her
2006-12-24 06:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight it out. dont let no mofo get wut u want. smack that b i t c h hard, show her she aint his girl.
2006-12-24 06:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
screw her!!!!
2006-12-24 06:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by monroe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋