He checks my online profile everyday and watch who i talk and send scrap to.sometimes he prompts his friends to send me "ask you out" or "looking hot" mails to check if i will reply.I have orders not to reply anyone else but him.He buys me what evr i want, love me a lot and i love him a lot too but i just dont know why he keeps on spying.Is something wrong in life????i just dont feel so good about this.
2006-12-24 06:15:25 · 11 answers · asked by teejay gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can help because I had a friend who was in the same situation.
In my friends case they were married and he was extremely jealous. It was not a good situation. I'm not trying to over worry you or anything but be careful... My friend couldn't talk to any guys but him and what made it worse was he could flirt and have as many lady friends as he wanted to... Just be careful and you will do what is right FOR YOU. That is the important thing. Think about yourself.
2006-12-24 06:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by chef nate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start spying on him. If he gets agressive about it, then you know that he is one of the types that like to have "control" over women and doesn't think that women have the right to syp on the man, just the other way around. Try telling him to back off. If he gets physical, call someone you can trust and stay with them for a while. (because i know it's not easy calling the policeon someone you love) :)
2006-12-24 14:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mz.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you done something that made him not trust you? Maybe he does this out of guilt?!
have you checked his things, if hes not guilty hell see how it feels and might stop
If thats not it then he is insecure and that needs to be fixed before the spying issue will change, ensure him that you love him and wuldnt do anything to hurt him, that should be a good start.
2006-12-24 14:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy WB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order.. OR threaten him with it. Save everything he has sent to you and others. You might be able to use it later if you need to involve the authorities for harassment..
2006-12-24 14:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is some thing very wrong this guy is afraid and insecure, ask him to explain why and perhaps you can come to a compromise, but the sneaking around behind your back must stop
2006-12-24 14:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest that you get a new yahoo account which means you would have to start over with yahoo answers and then don't give anybody your password not even your boyfriend
2006-12-24 14:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try starting a new account and dont let him have yor password. good luck,marry christmas and happy holidays.
2006-12-24 14:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with this controlling untrusting jerk? I've seen the type, why do women put up with it. I don't get it. You should leave him.
2006-12-24 14:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt love you he believes he wants to own you
2006-12-26 15:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by efiles2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to ignore this person
2006-12-24 14:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by jordan l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋