My ex and I went out for 2+ yrs. we did love each other. Then when we left for college. (i'm already in college, she was just leaving. she was 2 yrs younger) a few weeks into it, she lost the feelings she had for me and she broke up with me. it hurt a lot. i know it wasnt for a guy, or a prospect. I wish she had a reason, but she doesnt. she even saiod i love you each night. i want to stay friends and so does she. she is also friends w/ all my friends so we will end up hanging out in groups. everytime she comes up i get anxious. its been months since the break up. I dont think i still like her, i will admit i miss her as a friend, cause we were best friends for so long. I cant tell her to stop hanging out w/ my friends cause that will upset everyone. I don't want to do that. I just wish I knew why i got anxious about this? why should i care if she hangs out w/ everyone? I am looking forward to meeting someone new, i don't think of her that much anymore as i did when we first broke up.
2006-12-24 06:14:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we speak really often online, and its always fine conversations. we talk like we used too, just without the i mmiss you's and teh il ove you's. i dont want to get back with her, cause the trust is gone, and would be really hard to form again. i will be seeing her no matter what, ill act civil and stuff. and i dont think i love her,cause ots kinda hard ro love someoen when they dont feel the same back.... ugh.
we did disscuss the break up on the phone. she didnt want to stay in the relationship w/o all her feelings. she thought it would be worse if she stayed there foir me, and then i found out she was lying for so long...
2006-12-24 06:35:46 · update #1
forgot to add, yea i do miss the relationship, and i am forward to meeting a new girl. i miss the relationship more htan my ex... if that makes sense
2006-12-24 06:37:35 · update #2
becouse you love her, and you lie to yourself about that, I did the same... maybe you`ll be happier if you get together again and if you dump her, but..... you still love her, and even if you get a girlfriend if you see her with someone else you`ll feel so..... bad.... maybe the worst feeling..... after 2 years..... :( sorry 4 u
2006-12-24 06:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Apollo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, count your blessings. It is better to find out what she is made of before you have to pay for child support, not to say it is very hard on the children.
It wasn't meant to be. If you really want to know about love, let it go, if she comes back to you, then it was true love. Off hand, I would say it was most probably puppy love, and even puppy love hurts. That is natures way of teaching. With that in mind, there is someone out there for you. Be patient. If you have a chance to see how some girl is, watch how she treats her boyfriend. If the breakup is because of her, she is not the one, if it is because the boyfriend treated her wrong, then approch her as a friend at first and take things slow.
Good luck!
2006-12-24 06:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by cprucka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you get drunk everyday then one day you go on the wagon. You stay sober but every once in a while you miss the craving. Like love, your body. emotionally just got used to the attachment. And since everyone needs love or an emotional attachment, you miss her. Now when you find another woman, hopefully, this should help and then the feelings will go away.
2006-12-24 06:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
constructive yet no longer continuously her friends do no longer decide for to here approximately your themes or something they basically decide for to paintings out you 2 be happy so in case you hardly ask this is positive yet as quickly as you in many situations do it her friends are in fact going to hate you and consistently think of of this is all you %. to communicate to them approximately.
2016-11-23 15:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have to move on it is going to be hard but u just have to and if u get anxious around her she probablly does to so just move on
2006-12-24 06:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by theused246810 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U may still love her.
2006-12-24 06:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by prince_y2kkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you get anxious cuz you love her and you dont know that you love her
2006-12-24 06:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by sassy suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its not a good idea to remain friends
it will hurt you when you see her interact with other guys
2006-12-24 06:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋