We broke up awhile ago, and I cannot get over him we had a very "adult, in love realtionship" and then it just ended and I feel like no how matter much I try to get over him I can't. I want to like other guys but I can't all I think about is him when I am with other guys, I also feel like when I kiss other guys I am cheating.
2006-12-24 06:27:07 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are well rid of him. Time is the only thing that is going to rid you of him. Get interested in a hobby of some kind. Do anything but think about a piece of human feeces. You are better than he is. Pain is natures way of teaching. They are lessons well learned.
You are not cheating on him. He will get his, I promise, i have it too many times to count. But they always get hurt and it is usually 3 times worse than he did to you.
2006-12-24 06:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by cprucka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel that way because you cling to his memories. You refuse the see other men the way they are, you always try to see your ex in their person which is very unfair on the part of these other guys you dated. For eight months, I guess you had given yourself enough time to mourn. Keep yourself busy and read books on overcoming past relationships, they will help.
2006-12-24 14:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by brainyluscious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK from alot of experience in this area my best advice to you is to focus on you for a while stop looking for love outside and create it inside yourself find at least one thing you really enjoy and add it to your week .Do this for your self it helps fill the void and of coarse if you believe in God theres nothing like the power of prayer and one last thing .If you are being good to yourself people can see that and are attracted to it !! and also there nothing like time to heal all wounds!
2006-12-24 14:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by sadeyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then cheat on him. It's either that or live alone for the rest of your life and despite what most people say...that's not a bad thing. I plan on doing it myself.
We only really need friends that we can tell anything to. We don't have to have sex.
2006-12-24 14:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel,my ex girlfriend and i broke up around 8-9 months ago and she is always on my mind also,i wish i could stop hurting but my feelings are even stronger for her now,besides that ive been staying faithful to her as well,even though she dont respond at all to letters i send
2006-12-24 14:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by tristan2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel you're cheating cause your love for him still burns. Nothing can help you but time, it can take a while, but it will happen. Good luck!
2006-12-24 14:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby I can top that, it took me six years to get over my last love....sometimes when it's very real for you, it takes a long while to place those feelings away....Give yourself some time....
2006-12-24 14:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have ya'll considered getting back together? If not, see if he's willing to try again. Then you can see what happens from there.
Good Luck
2006-12-24 14:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mz.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. When you fall in love again, you won't feel this way anymore. I promise. Good luck sweetie.
2006-12-24 14:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by shania3949 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋