with this one women, i'm guilty of not giving enough attention.
how do you tell a women to drop the attitude, without lsoing her as a friend.
2006-12-24 01:58:43 · 15 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get real, she fancies you! Give her more attention.She loves you. Don't give up she loves you really. Try harder and it could last a while. Good luck xxx
2006-12-24 02:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Phew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that one way or the other you do need to tell her.
I am saying this because, for example when I saw some of the people who auditionned for Pop Idol, I thought to myself: Do they have no "friends" or family to tell them honestly how they sound?
So, a friend is not necessarily a messenger with only good news.
It's someone who truly cares.
Maybe try it at a moment when she's relax;
Or just after she's been particularly bad to make your point.
Whichever, the sooner, the better.
It will most probably hurt, and possibly she won't speak to you for a while; But if she does think of you as a friend, she will come back, because you've been honest with her.
2006-12-24 11:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give her enough attention? Does she think this and tell you, or is it something you've decided upon for yourself?
Personally, I'd drop her from my Christmas card list and break contact. Friends with attitude and high expectations you can probably do without.
2006-12-24 11:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her!! Why are you guilty of not giving her enough attention?? If her attitude is that bad........just talk to her!!!!
2006-12-24 10:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the subject straight and fair - tell her to P*** off out of your sight and your life and that you think that she is a F****** Ugly old hag and her feet stink 'amongst other things higher up' and then 'DUCK' for your own safety.
Happy Christmas and good luck.
2006-12-24 10:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by greagues2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. if u can`t be honest wiv a friend then who can u be honest wiv? take the time to explain to her wot her attitude is like and how it`s making u feel. u wont get anywhere if u don`t communicate
2006-12-24 11:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by groundhog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a friend she will not be offended if you just say her attitude is untenable but why is she so upset if she thinks your not giving her enough attention do we have to read something into that?
2006-12-24 10:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Open and Honest with her!
Calmly sit her down and take a deep breath-then say your peace!
Clearing the Air is Good!
2006-12-24 10:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a friend you should be able to tell her - politely. If she takes offence she will come out of it. True friends should always be able to be honest with each other.
2006-12-24 10:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's real friend you will be able to tell her that her attitude is not on and she won't take offence
2006-12-24 10:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by Angelic Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋