Singles & Dating - 18 December 2006

Alright. Everybody seems to think the "scene" is important. Short of it: my gf has some unresolved personal issues (don't we all, somewhere) but after talking w/ her about some oddities I have noticed about our relationship and hearing her talk (sometimes and just absolutely freeze at others) it occured to me that they are big but they are not her fault. Can't expand any more b/c I don't know much more than that. After talking with her about it, it occurs to me she recognizes she has a problem but seems to think she doesn't need to get help for it (professional). The tricky part is I know she wants to change but is convinced she is strong enough to do it by herself. So noble to want to and to try and yet so foolish. What would you say? Anything even? Accept it as part of her, the whole her? Maybe even just leave w/out a word? Very delicate situation. Unfortunately, it may need broken before it can REALLY get fixed. Any thoughts?

2006-12-18 19:21:22 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6

im five nine...its seems to be tall men only want the shrimpy girls, like under 5'7 and I dont get it. I want to hear at least one tall guy who prefers tall women, not taller than them just tall.

2006-12-18 19:19:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-18 19:18:28 · 15 answers · asked by bikash s 1

I've met this girl on the internet. She gave me her phone number. We talked a bit, decided to meet each other. Then, she invited me to her birthday party, theater. And then, I've invited her at my family party for christmas. She said yes. But sometimes, I've the feeling she's not that much interested. I know she's a bit busy... but each time I've talked to her, it was really ok. When I see her in person, she has a way of looking at me that gives me hope... she's really nice and intersting. Well, what do you think about this ?

I've sent her an email (lame of me) about how I feel and stuff, but she didn't answer... yet. She told me she was confused and didn't know what to answer. What I know for sure, is that she accepted my invitation, so now, I'm a bit confused about everything.

Yesterday, she didn't call me back, she was probably busy... she's not a liar...

2006-12-18 19:12:09 · 10 answers · asked by eth1_hifi 2

Why does this happen to me? Dudes input would be great...?
No offense intended here, im just wondering if this happens to dudes too. I can never get it 'UP" around meaty, stocky--fat women. Even if shes curvy, I just dont get turned on. Im actually gross out by the whole situation. But what I dont understand is how some other homie date a fat girl, how can he do it? iS it out of desperation or real love? I mean, when shes naked and you see all the flabs, wouldnt that be a site to vomit on? sorry to all who got offended im really wondering about this///

2006-12-18 19:09:34 · 14 answers · asked by Kyle 1

2006-12-18 19:07:58 · 10 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

i got to know this guy recently and i only found out that we were actually in nursery school together.. same class !! coz in the were looking through old photographs togehter and in a class photos he was just rite beside me ..and to imagine we were close and played together when we were younger...
its been like 20+ years before we met again as we are both working around the same area now and only recently he approached me .. coz he felt some kind of connection when he 1st saw me ... but he was not sure..he told me he was searching for me all these years..
is he for real?? any thoughts

2006-12-18 19:06:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-18 19:06:34 · 6 answers · asked by Cheers 2

2006-12-18 19:01:13 · 11 answers · asked by Fall 1

Accidentally looked at my boyfriend's e-mail (seriously total accident). He talks about a "sweet membership" to a porn site and sends his buddy the username and password. He goes into detail about the site ...DISGUSTING. Then he starts talking about going to Hooters and hitting on a "hot brazilian girl." WTF?!! He acts sooo differently with me. This is really hurting me. I feel like I dont even know him. (we've been going out for 3 years). What do I do, do I confront him or not?

2006-12-18 19:00:23 · 17 answers · asked by Kristina 1

there's this guy that i really like but the thing is all we do is exchange mails and due to his really tight schedule, the most number of mails we can exchange up to is 3 which is limited to the weekends reply(he apologized to me abt that which i thought was sweet!) but everyday seems like a guessing game for me because i have to guess if he's going to reply today or any other day or even if he wants to reply! at the beginning, i'm quite positive that he's interested in me but now i'm not sure anymore. i've asked him out before but i guess i was being too direct and scare him off a little, i wanna ask for his number or maybe out for coffee one day but i'm really afraid he will not reply and there goes our friendship which i cherish so so much..tell me what i can do?

he told me that he's having his hols now till 3rd of jan, is that a hint for me to ask him out? i don't wanna read too much in to it but i'm already at my wit's end..pls help..

2006-12-18 18:59:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with him for a while now
and he and he ex have been getting close
which i really don't mind
but they almost did it
do i break up with him?

2006-12-18 18:55:54 · 7 answers · asked by brazilianbeauty 2

An analouge of my situation: say I knew my gf was into the "scene" but it had only come to my attention how into it she really was recently and had become a cause for concern. After talking with her about it, it occurs to me she recognizes she has a problem but isn't willing to get help for it. The tricky part is she wants to change but is convinced she is strong enough to do it by herself. So noble to want to and to try and yet so foolish. What would you say? Anything even? Accept it as part of her, the whole her? Maybe even just leave w/out a word? Very delicate situation. Unfortunately, it may need broken before it can REALLY get fixed. Any thoughts?

2006-12-18 18:51:08 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6

Ok i have been seeing this girl for 2 weeks, should i get her a present? I mean is it too early, have we been seeing each other long enough to warrant a present? And no it is not me being tight! Just if i get her a present will she think i am a bit forward! If yes could i have some ideas? Thanks

2006-12-18 18:51:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want my boyfriend to think that I am his best lover.

2006-12-18 18:49:38 · 5 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2

2006-12-18 18:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by deepunderscoresweet29 1

2006-12-18 18:44:01 · 17 answers · asked by TOLITS L 1

but i want her to no how i feel because i really realy like her but i dont think its mutal so i just wanna let her no how i feel thx

2006-12-18 18:43:52 · 6 answers · asked by yulick2001 2

I know this girl for the past 6 months.We have been good friends and I am planning to propose her for marriage.
I have have bee sporting a beard and she has never seen me without a beard.
She has been telling me that I may look far better without the beard and moustach
and she feels that a clean shaved head will also suit me.

Will there be a better chance of she accepting my proposal if propose her with a clean shaved face and head?
Please help me take a decision.

2006-12-18 18:42:40 · 12 answers · asked by raghu n 1

My girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship and see eachother almost every weekend..we have sex about every other weekend..but every time we do it, it seems like she's trying something new..I've seen videos and found other ways to find new positions, but she's not like that..she doesn't watch porn, doesn't read sex magazines, etc..IDK how she's doing these new things..is she practicing with another guy during the week when I'm gone?? This has been happening the last few months, and we've been together for 2 years..she's got this guy at school that she's really "close" to..could they be hooking up during the week when I'm not around?? I feel helpless because I have no way of knowing what all she's doing during the week..

2006-12-18 18:40:40 · 13 answers · asked by Life10 1

2006-12-18 18:37:06 · 8 answers · asked by santhosh a 1

Okay so I like my best friend whom I've known for ten years and this really I mean Really! HAWT guy who is a grade older then me. Well, my bf and i are kinda smitten because we always argue like an old married couple.Plus our parents are always saying that we should marry along with our ENTIRE school! Now the other guy he is like WOW! But i think (hint think) he likes another girl who is our (bf and i"s) friend. But being the fun guy that he is, he is always like flirting or messing with us (the girl he likes and me) but not infront of each other. Plus when we ALL have four-way, afterwards Mr. Hawty and i go to chat rooms to talk more since my dad doesnt like me talking to other boys. AND now i can't stop thinking about either of them! I even have dreams of them! But i know that I can't have either though. I stand no chance againest the girl Mr. Hawty likes so.... :( I just want to get them out of my mind cuz it's killing me! plz help! Uh Oh! im running out of charactacters! :(

2006-12-18 18:33:50 · 5 answers · asked by johnsonterrica 2

I know i will get a girl one day but i dont want it to be a compromise, can a girl genuinely love a 5'7'' tall guy???

2006-12-18 18:33:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

... Caribbean-American unattached & single male actively pursuing and being romantically & sexually involved with a thirty-eight (almost thirty-nine) year-old Caucasian-European divorced & barren female at all?

Furthermore, does anyone believe that they should go their own separate ways and thus eventually find someone more suitable to be in love with and build their respective future(s) with or should they simply continue their torrid love affair/relationship, get married and live happily ever after?

After all, they are not hurting anyone, is that correct?

Or is there something anthropologically and sociologically wrong with them being a couple and officially announcing it to the world by living together in sin as husband & wife even though they may or may not ever get married to each other?

2006-12-18 18:27:20 · 12 answers · asked by Lolita Angel Rose Taylor-Kennedy 3

I know around the house it may be comfortable, and in backyard/beach they like the tan; but do they only do it because guys like it, or do they actually enjoy it also.

If I have a female friend and we're swimming is it innopropriate to undo the top part of her bikini before she jumps in the water??? She'll object but maybe she actually thinks its fun/exciting...plus i kidda wanna see the boobs. Is this okay??? n o harm no foul???

What's your experience?

2006-12-18 18:27:18 · 31 answers · asked by thank you come again 2

I've caught her a few times looking at me. and she teases me sometimes, and a lot of other positive signs. One day my friend (another girl) invited her to go out, and she declined. when i asked her why she didn't go... she answered "i didn't know YOU were going". BUT! when I ask her out, she agrees, but then later she says she can't make it. it's happened a few times. what's up with that? Does that mean she's not interested?

2006-12-18 18:27:05 · 6 answers · asked by geo87 2

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2006-12-18 18:23:07 · 2 answers · asked by Alex Jones Fan 1

If you were to suddenly receive a letter in the mail from someone you once dated years ago, someone who you weren't ever expecting to hear from again (not someone you've been avidly pining over or obsessed with), what would you want it to say?

2006-12-18 18:16:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-18 18:15:12 · 11 answers · asked by glayse 2

I'm currently 14 right now. And I'm at that stage with the hormones ya see and the likin' the boys and the phone callin' and the cuteness and daaaa you know what I'm talkin about! *shakes head like Bill Cosby* j/k Anyway I'm starting to really like my best friend whom I've known for like 10 or so years and it's kinda getting on my nerves. Because sometimes I just want to touch him or jump him or something! And I hate it. Other times I would want to tell him how I feel and most of the time I got close to doing that too! But luckily, I stopped myself before it happened. Phew! So, I'm kinda off and on with this like one day I "lust" for him and the next I hate him. Same goes for him except the hating part because he both get on each others nerves.Okay, now I like another guy in the tenth (i and my bf are in the nineth) and nearlymelt when I see him he is just that WOW! but he likes another girl though. They both like each other but he always flirts with me and.....TO BE CONTINUED !!!!

2006-12-18 18:12:33 · 3 answers · asked by johnsonterrica 2