I know around the house it may be comfortable, and in backyard/beach they like the tan; but do they only do it because guys like it, or do they actually enjoy it also.
If I have a female friend and we're swimming is it innopropriate to undo the top part of her bikini before she jumps in the water??? She'll object but maybe she actually thinks its fun/exciting...plus i kidda wanna see the boobs. Is this okay??? n o harm no foul???
What's your experience?
2006-12-18 18:27:18 · 31 answers · asked by thank you come again 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get me wrong (for all you people claiming i'm a "pervert") I haven't done it and am only considering it depending on what u guys say. Give a poor guy a break I don't know how women feel, that's why I'm asking you guys!
2006-12-18 18:41:40 · update #1
I am awarding a best answer 10 points so answer well. be serious!
2006-12-18 18:44:59 · update #2
PLEASE RATE ME FOR THE THUMBS UP. to offset those who UNJUSTLY put the thumbs down.
In return i'm voting the "honest, seirous, and decent" answers, which are most, with a thumbs up
2006-12-18 18:50:17 · update #3
You guys have really stepped it up. Thanks for the good answers guys down at the bottom. I'm getting good answers for both sides and don't know what to do can someoen help a poor chap out and be a tiebreaking vote!!!???
2006-12-18 19:34:41 · update #4
I got to the nude beach here on Long Island, so obviously I oike to be naked, which includes topless. Here in New York State it's legal for a girl to be topless anyplace a guy can be, so there are a number of instances where we feel free to bare our boobs in public, as long as it's in an appropriate place.
My boobs aren't super large (34C) so when I'm topless there's no problems with excesive bouncing or soreness...just a great feeling of being free, especially outside on a warm summer day.
This past summer myself and another girl from college played in a "shirts vs. skins" basketball game in a park...and we played topless on the skins team! Aside from a few stares from appreciative passers-by (and the obvious distraction of the opposing team) there was no real reaction, and certainly nothing negative, to our bare boobs. Believe me, it was fun and it felt great!
I think that spending so much time at the nude beach has given me an appreciation of the fact that simple nudity - or even toplessness - is really no big deal. It's just bare skin, and we all have it!
Bare hugs...
PS...It is NOT appropriate for you to open your friend's straps and try to remove her top when swimming. If she wants to get topless, that's her choice and she'll do it for herself. Some girls are confortable with nudity and others are more shy and reserved...but it's not anybody's right to make that choice for them.
2006-12-19 08:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think that any normal guy won't object to a peek at some nice boobs. In Europe it's much more accepted and "normal". Here in North America we're still a little hung up about boobs.
I can understand that wearing a bra or other confining garment isn't always pleasant for women.
2006-12-18 18:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on the woman. Before you do something like take her top off, you should at least know her well enough to ask her if this is something she'd like! Some women don't mind being naked in the privacy of their own homes, but would be really upset if they were naked someplace where anyone without permission could see them.
If you accidentally see a half-naked woman, don't assume she wants you to see her. You should get a pretty clear invitation. If you don't, she either doesn't want to be an exhibitionist, OR she's a game-player who may seriously mess with your mind further down in the relationship.
But if you get a clear invitation, count your blessings and treat her like a goddess (-:. Good luck!
2006-12-18 20:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Madame M 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
By national law in Canada and USA, woman and men are allowed to go topless in public.
2016-05-23 06:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being topless in the sun when breas feeding helps to protect the nipples, this is a fact and I suppose that it is the same swimming topless as when a man swimms bottomless - FREEDOM of appendage floats LOL!!! Merry Xmas and it is Summer here down South :) Enjoy the Winter lol!!! I'll be swimming
2006-12-18 20:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by tracey s 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im a female. Some women like to be topless, I think a good example is this one chick was always topless on MTV real world. It wasnt for attention either. It would be like a guy who wore no shirt around the house.
Some women prefer to have the support of a bra instead. With it on or off, I dont think we find either enjoyable or not, thats like asking a guy "do you enjoy wearing no shirt". Its preference, not about enjoyment.
Your question is "is it innapropriate to undo the top of the bikini before she jumps in the water?" *** yeah it is if YOU do it without her wanting you to. Being topless is not "exciting" for women. Its exciting for a guy. Skinny dipping is not that exciting, its just diffrent and some girls like it. I like to be in a hot tub naked instead of with a swimsuit for example. But if I am around a bunch of guys at a hot tub, unless I want to gain more of their attention, I will wear a swimsuit.
Remember, DO NOT take off her swimsuit like you state in your question. You may get slapped.
2006-12-18 19:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by dianek 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My gf will go topless in her yard, she lives in the woods. In fact she will take her suit off and swim or lay out in the yard with nothing on. She may ask for my help, she knows that is a turn on for me. She will only do this when i am there with her and her kids are not at home. She loves the freedom. You should never ever try to untie your friends top, unless she asks for your help. How would you like it if she tried to pull your swim trunks off of you? Use some common sense. If you are in a private pool, or in a lake and you two are making out with the intent of making love, you may get lucky and untie her top. If she offers any resistance I would advise to stop.
2006-12-18 19:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by cm f 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
As a guy I'd like to comment on the last part of that - in general you're looking at a foul that can earn you great harm, like a kick in the nut sack.
Unless you know a girl/woman EXTREMELY well and/or are extremely good friends you should never undo any of her clothes unless she's pretty much explicitly implied she would like it and/or find it fun or funny or exciting.
You're much better off having one of her female friends do it, so that you don't die a horrible death after suffering great pain.
Just my .10
-dh
2006-12-18 18:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Okay man,. here it is,. plain and simple,...
Don't undo her top,. your not only going to get your a$$ kicked,.. you could got in a lot of trouble,.. and your probably going to lose a friend too.
You guys need to be more than friends for this to be a vyable option,. and if you get to that point,. t hen you'll know if this is okay or not,... I've dateed women who were on both sides of this,.. some who I wouldn't do it to, since it would offend them,.. and others who it was a turn on for,.. but I knew this since we were going out, and so I could make an educated decision
as far as women being topless... its another opinion thing,.. some do,. some don't... rarely is it to please a guy though, as it is usually personnal choice...
so trust me,... figuire out where this relationship is going (just friends or more than) and then you'll be abel to figure out if you'll ever be able to...
and if not,.. don't sweat it man,... theres plenty of boobs I had wanted to see on various women,. it didn't always happen though,... so I went out and found some others instead :)
good luck
2006-12-18 20:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by Z 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
c'mon people he's HUMAN. I would be surprised if you didn't have these urges as a male. OK here is what I think. you can get my opinion and another girls opinion. but it's going to be different. and the opinion you chose to follow could be the opinion she(the girl that you want to see her boobs) could disagree with. So instead of asking other girls, ask her!!! but be nice. Say this: "I don't mean to be disrespectful and stop me if i am, but if i undo the top part would you think it's exciting or would you find it disrespectful, I respect your answer. But I find it exciting plus i find you attractive." Wow I'm good. If she says "No OMG you perv" you say " Sorry for being respectful and asking you" then she says "well i think your moving to fast" you say "what??" LOL OK i should just stop because I'm creating a soap opera. you get the point. Good Luck!!!!
2006-12-18 20:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋