Singles & Dating - 17 December 2006

i want to tell a friend my feelings for him; but i am extremely anxious at the prosepect that our friendship may change because of it.
How can i tell him, without making a fool of myself or losing him altogether?

2006-12-17 11:01:26 · 4 answers · asked by egaboo23 1

a gift for the holidays

2006-12-17 10:59:03 · 20 answers · asked by hi 1

do you think a girl with big blue-green eyes, medium-length blondish-brownish hair, always smiling, athletic, artistic, in shape, and very shy is attractive? just wondering.

2006-12-17 10:58:22 · 11 answers · asked by Surfergirl 4

that way I can just be with the sister??

2006-12-17 10:58:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will be 36 yrs old soon - I am African American/independent/I've been told I am a very attractive woman/Have my own "stuff"/no kids/good job.
Problem is that I worry sometimes that I will never marry; I am trying desperately not to panic! But it is hard as heck sometimes!!!!
I've done alittle online dating for the last 5 years - they've mainly all been jerks - I mean really disrespectful jerks!! I don't particularly want kids so that's not an issue. And don't get me started on how it feels to see some out of shape, poor, uneducated mother of TEN get married to prince charming! Just keepin it real!
What is so perplexing to me is that I hear people say all the time that it will happen when I "least expect it", but I don't know how to NOT expect it. The marriage rate for Blacks is terrible!! Statically, my chances would be better if I were white woman. I guess my question is - has anyone ever felt this way?

2006-12-17 10:57:58 · 5 answers · asked by Cutie girl 1

i was goin out with my ex for 1 year and 3 months, she dumped me a month ago today. she said she loved me, she is just afraid of being in a serious relationship at this age, we are both 19. she told me a coulple of months ago that she was happy with our relationship and its seriousness. i didnt give her much space the 1st couple of weeks, so i gave her loads of space the past 2 weeks, and she has been e mailing me and rang me a couple of times, she asked me if i was with any1 else, she said she didnt mind, i dont think she wud have asked if she didnt care. i told her i wasnt because im not seeing anyone else, when we broke up i told her she wont find a guy as nice as me very easily(i did everything to make her happy) she txted me 2nite and said i was right about that..i told her u have to find some things out for yourself and she said, i truely found out..... does this seem like she missis me and that she is starting to relise how much she loves me...do you think she might want me b

2006-12-17 10:56:09 · 5 answers · asked by Dan W 2

im a tall guy ( 6'8 )with mucles ( lots of em ! ) so some times ( mainly wjen i dont have a shirt on )
i can be pretty intimdating.
i also have a reputation to keep up the tough guy rep.
i have a lot of women friends and one day a couple of them decided to come to the gym with me.i had a slight cold and out of no where i sneez and i hate my sneezs because they sound like highpiched squels.
and when i sneezed they whent all like " OMG ! thats so cute and you act like a tough guy but your just a big marshmellow ! "
and the whole gym heard it and started laughing !
and i couldnt stop sneezing !
why the hell are women so mean ?!?

2006-12-17 10:54:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is this a good time to talk about the Cheating I was doing on her with her sister??

2006-12-17 10:54:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

k so here is the story..i found out that this girl that i know was trying 2 play a friend of mine not a close 1 just 1 that i play hockey against and i told him what she was trying 2 do 2 him...and now she sez that she likes me..she mite b lookin 4 revenge 4 screwin up her plans of playing the other guy and try 2 play me 2... should i trust her??...

PLZ HELP

2006-12-17 10:50:57 · 20 answers · asked by hockeybro 2

Well hes one of my good friends and we talk and joke around alot. My friend says that hes usually starts the convo and that he likes me. He always makes up nicknames for me to get me mad but like jokingly and always jokes, tells me to give him high-fives, and says "hi" to me for no apparent reason. I was sposed to move so at the end of the year he only gave me a hug and seemed rally sad but got rlly happy when i sed i was coming back. but the BIGGEST thing of all he gave me his number to call him if i didnt want to talk online. so does he like me??? and i cant ask him out cuz im not allowed to n im too scared to tell him

2006-12-17 10:46:47 · 2 answers · asked by Britt 2

There is this cute popular guy in my class everytime he sit beside me he gets all close to me I don't be close to him first hell be so close that are shoulders are beside each other he does this with alot of girls and flirt with them Could he like me?

2006-12-17 10:44:52 · 10 answers · asked by Thelma 2

what are some?

2006-12-17 10:44:47 · 7 answers · asked by alonzo h 1

Okay, I'm 17, I started work about 3 months ago. Fell for a 19-year-old guy I worked with, and there was just so many signs pointing to that he liked me. I won't go into alot of detail, but all my friends thought he liked me, he acted like it, by body language, etc.

Yesterday, I finally worked up the courage and told him I liked him, and he just smiled nervously and asked me why I liked him. I told him I thought he was an amazing person, and I like him simply because he is him. After that there was alot of awkward silence and sorta, smiling at each other and looking away. Lots of fidgeting and walking back and forth. Eventually he said, "I don't know what to say."

I feel really hurt, because I'd rather have someone just say they don't like me, rather than give me false hope. I just really don't know what to do or think at the moment, I am completely beside myself. I'm afraid of what I might hear. But any advice/answers would be great. Just be honest about what you think of this.

2006-12-17 10:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by Loki 2

Thanks

2006-12-17 10:41:14 · 10 answers · asked by JOHN DOE 1

We have been "friends" for 3 or 4 months, he gets mad at me when I talk to other men, but he doesn't want to be more than friends. He says he want us to get a house together and have a family but he always say we are just friends. I really don't know what to do about us.

2006-12-17 10:40:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wasn't expecting to see my boyfriend tonight, but he stopped by just to say that he wouldn't be by later and didn't want to leave me hanging. What's the point? I already knew he wouldn't be over.

2006-12-17 10:35:38 · 19 answers · asked by torn 3

How many dates did you go on with your bf/gf before it became a serious relationship? What are some of the indications? Like how it evolves from dates to bf/gf relationship?

2006-12-17 10:35:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She and I was together for a year and somehow we broke up. I swear I didn't do anything to break us up and she didn't do anything either. We just grew apart. But lately we have been talking and thing are starting to get like we used to. What to do????

2006-12-17 10:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by christina21197 1

Ok, a rare serious question from me; don't you find it frustrating when you make friends with people on the internet and you know that because of distance, you will never meet them?

There are so many really awesome women that I have met from Yanswers, some of whom I would like to hang out with, given the option, but I know I can't....does this happen to others?

2006-12-17 10:33:04 · 12 answers · asked by Poster22 2

a guy likes me but he is10 yrs older than me
i m 16 and he is 26
he recently proposed me
i dont like him but i cant hurt him..........................
dont u think he is too old for me?

2006-12-17 10:31:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

lets see okay so..my boyfriend dumped me..we were apart for a week..then he decided he REALLY thought we should get back together and that he made a huge mistake in dumping me...but now, since he hurt me so bad before, im soo afraid of getting my heart broken yet again..im trying to proceed with caution but i mean i wish i could get over my fear of him doing it again but at the same time, i feel like its inevitable cause teenage love and all. does anyone know how i should go about these beggining stages of my"re-relationship". oh yeah, also, our relationship before we broke up went on for 3 months. thanks so much.

2006-12-17 10:30:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf was having a party at his house and i went in his room to get something and then his friend walked and talked to me alittle then he grabed me and treid to rape me i got out of his grip and ran in the other room with my bf and his friend told him that he was gonna go. should i tell him ? i really dont want the my bf to go to jail or any thing he has a really high temper when it comes to when a man tries to mess with a women he broke 8 of his litlle sisters bfs ribs just because he yelled at her and they had to stun him 7 times just to get him off.and fortuntly the guy was to afriad of him to press charges.
but i dont want any thing to happen if he finds out and im afriad of what he might do to his friend since he broke 8 of some guys ribs just for raising his voice.
should i tell him ? i really dont want too

2006-12-17 10:30:35 · 4 answers · asked by me 1

I'm researching my family history. It turns out my genealogy shows I come from a long line of chicks who lied about ther ages !
3 of them apparently never even told their husbands or kids until they were dead or over 90 !
Its kinda funny but also surprising.

Why do so many women lie about their ages and pretend theyre younger ?
Is it so they seem more attractive ?
My brother was dating a chick and everyone thought she was 30, turns out she was 40.
Her looks didnt change but my attitude towards her did just because of a different number. I actually feel stupid judging her by a random number.
Is it a huge sin , a big deal to fudge ones age ?

2006-12-17 10:30:18 · 4 answers · asked by Leea 1

What is the nicest thing the opposite sex has told you?

What is the rudest thing the opposite sex has told you?

For me, the nicest thing a guy told me was that I was beautiful and that he would marry me, and another guy told me that my personality would light up any room.

The rudest thing a guy told me was when several guys were walking past and said "look at that piece of ***"--very degrading. Also one guy told me I was "too innocent" for him.

2006-12-17 10:29:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok a guy gave me his number on tuesday i saw him on wednesday but i didnt call him untill thursaday and he didnt answer so i did other stuff and then called backan hour later and left a message. he called back like 15 minutes later. we kind of talked for about a half hour i saw him friday and we really got closer and well we made out. we're not going out though i want to but what can you do. he's hasnt called all weekend and i dont want to sound too desperate,should i call him?? and if i should what should i say??

2006-12-17 10:28:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 10:27:40 · 23 answers · asked by mark 1

2006-12-17 10:27:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 10:27:33 · 16 answers · asked by Taylee L 1

I think my heart has just fully broke but you need to hear the full story. I met this guy about 6 months ago and I just instantly liked him and I really got the impression he liked me, he's quite shy though. Now one of his friends really likes me but Im not interested in him. The guy I like though told me nothing can happen with us because his mate is so head over heels for me. I accepted this then. So anyway, I was out last night and I bumped into the guy I like and we chatted the whole night and it just all came back to me again, and I really really like him, Ive never felt this way about anyone. So he told me to text him so I did and I thought I may as wlel make a move, so I asked him if he would like to go out sometime and he said yes and I asked him maybe we could go out for a drink and he replied saying "yes but just as friends yeh?". Im devestated. All his mates say he likes me but that hes just to shy, I really thought so too. Any advice would be appreciated.

2006-12-17 10:26:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, my boyfriend always talks about this girl anmed chelsie and its pisses me off because it upsets me so much. They are friends I guess but she always flirts with him and then he talks about her so I have a reason for why it upsets me...I dont wanna say anything tho because its his friend and i dont want him to know im jelous...also chelsie's friend karen is pretty close with him too and he talks about her a lot..and then he told me just today that nxt year he is switching schools to take a certain course to help him..Karen goes to the school hes going to and i dont and i wont be able to see him as much...its really upsetting me and i dont got the guts to say everything because he gets mad when i say stuff about his friends...I dont know what to do =(.

2006-12-17 10:25:53 · 11 answers · asked by My-Feelings-Inside 1