Singles & Dating - 17 December 2006

we both want to save our long distance relationship, but untill we met. we cant stop seeing each other.. i love my boyfriend so as his girlfriend! we obviuosly like each other but we cant say that we are officially.. so hard.. what should i do?

2006-12-17 09:58:51 · 8 answers · asked by bianca 1

okk heres the deal my boy is jealous of my friend and he wont get it threw his thick skull that hes just my friend and he wants me to stop talking to him and im like trying to find a medaim w/ him ibut i cant hes to stuborn HELP

2006-12-17 09:56:41 · 2 answers · asked by amy 1

MY BOYFRIEND SAYS WANNA FOREPLAY BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT IS.

2006-12-17 09:56:01 · 21 answers · asked by Dr.DRE 4

I've been friends with this girl for quite some time, and a few months ago I finally got the courage to ask her out on a date. However right before our date, she called me to tell me that she would rather just continue to be friends. I was a bit bitter about this but I quickly got over it and to this day we have continued to be very good friends.

However there are many situations where it seems like she may very well like me more than just a friend, and I've had this verified by some of her other close friends. The problem is that she can be incredibly shy when it comes to boys, and I highly doubt she'd ever approach me and tell me how she feels. If I were to approach her and tell her what's been going through my head, and it turns out that she doesn't like me then that wouldn't look terribly good on me socially, having been rejected by her before.

What are some ways I could continue being good friends with her but drop subtle hints I like her more, just to maybe get her courage up.

2006-12-17 09:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i tell if a boy likes me? better yet, how can i tell if a boy that is already involved in a relationship likes me? my ex is really complicated and i think he still likes me because he's always doing things to make me envious of him and he writes me letters just to say hey and he's got a girlfriend and last but not least, he stares at me all the time. how can i tell if he really likes me?

2006-12-17 09:53:56 · 18 answers · asked by musical_genius 3

I recently went out on a blind date, I was told the girl was pretty and nice. I show up at the bar and BAMMO, she is a gross hog! I walked up to her and said that she should be ashamed of herself, that she was fat and ugly, that no one would ever love her, that she wasn't even a person, and that she should leave the bar cause she was so gross it was bothering everyone. She cried and ran out. Turns out, SHE WASN'T EVEN MY BLIND DATE! My date showed up a little later and was pretty hot, I ended up sleeping with her! I'm I awesome?

2006-12-17 09:53:10 · 23 answers · asked by Jar Jar Binks Molested Me! Help! 1

2006-12-17 09:53:08 · 5 answers · asked by lemarkz51 1

When a girl goes out on a date with a guy and guy tells the girl she's beautiful instead of hot, what's the difference? Do you prefer to be called hot or beautiful by a guy? And for guys, which do you prefer to use and is there any difference to you?

2006-12-17 09:53:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can you offer home
to a stranger unknown
with no map to find
the peaks of the mind
and valleys of the heart
where do you start
to glow and ascend
will purity transcend
when the concrete invades
and an abstraction fades
depression was a season
before she gave me reason
to keep connection
in this human collection
Now, I intellectualize
feelings that have no eyes
can a gift stay alive
can kindness still thrive
on the end of this vine
nothing to be mine
but only for once see
filtered eyes set free

2006-12-17 09:51:26 · 8 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1

i hv this friend who lately broke up with her boyfriend and he's having a hard time letting go, he's really emotional about it and i tink he's emotionally abusing her, but she doesn't want to hurt him further...help

2006-12-17 09:50:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a long-distance relationship for 3 years and during that time I cheated on the woman overseas with a girl in my hometown. At first it was just sex with the hometown girl but I loved the woman overseas. I became frustrated at the long distance relationship and I also started to fall for the hometown girl. Both of them found out about each other, it was really messy and I chose the hometown girl. I know I broke the overseas girls heart because at least the hometown girl knew about her but I couldn't see when we would be together because of the immigration restrictions. After 18 months with the hometown girl, I can’t get what I did to the overseas girl out of my head. I think I still lover her. I’ve tried contacting her for a year but she is still angry and won’t take my calls. I am starting to feel like I’ve made a huge mistake. What should I do?

2006-12-17 09:47:35 · 33 answers · asked by Rob 1

There is a 36 yr old guy I work with that doesn't believe in xmas, sort of, due to some past reasons.However he has told me he was going to get me something, like a good gift, so he says. Anyway I need a cheap and descent gift for him or a good gag gift. Please help.

2006-12-17 09:45:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 09:45:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this boy that i go to school w/ & i had a huge crush on him we were rlly good friends and hung out all the time. then somehow a grl found out i liked him & told him everything and he stopped talking to me completly than about 6mo. later he started txting me non stop. anyway every holiday i would leave a gift in his mailbox just to show i liked him since we weren't allowed to "go out" 4 about 5 yrs.but it's been 2yrs. and he still doesn't talk to me @skool his friends say that it's weird that he does that cuz he talks about me a lot. although he's kinda snotty to my bff 4rm what i hear so i decided it's not worth liking him if he doesn't even respect my friends and i'm having a rlly hard time letting him go and i want to make sure that he knows i don't like him anymore so if i don't leave him an x-mas gift do u think he will get it? and do u think this is too harsh or am i leting him down soft enough?

2006-12-17 09:45:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 09:44:05 · 4 answers · asked by WAY_to_good_for_you 1

...with a "g" as in "girl" or as a "g" in "giraffe"? lol...I have to call this woman and i only know how to spell her name.

2006-12-17 09:43:50 · 18 answers · asked by sothere! 3

she is a 36DD and she likes 2 boys which one should she pick. Billy her crush who is smart, Jeff is her second crush who is stupid

2006-12-17 09:42:11 · 8 answers · asked by mz.money 2

he is really sweet, cool to hang around, and has a great personality....but one of my friends keep hanging around him and acts like thats her boyfriend but its not....she has one already!!!! i never get to talk to him exept for in class....and i love being around him....so how can i talk with him without getting interupted by my friend...i am sorry but she acts like a ho around him.....but i also know he doesnt like her.....and i want to make him like me!!

2006-12-17 09:42:01 · 3 answers · asked by Lil Itty Bitty 1

hello,my name is cass,im scared for my older friend.....he had been in the hospital one night because he had gotten dehydrated too much. from drugs..and im really scared because he hasn't been on aim at all yet which isn't like him at all! idk what to do ...and when we were talking last night...i was like what are you upto and he said drugs and im really really scared out of my life right now.please any advice at all if i end up loosing him im going to loose myself and commit suicide.

2006-12-17 09:41:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well me and my girlfriend brokeup a few months ago,because she cheated on me. And the guy she was with left her and now she want's to get back with me. Oh and we have a 1 year old son together. I don't feel the same about her any more but should I for the sake of our son? These past few months been hard on me and my son but we made it by ok, so what's some advice you can give me? Thanks for your support!!!!

2006-12-17 09:41:17 · 9 answers · asked by Gilly 2

Okay. If there is a girl I like, how do I know if she likes me? I dont want to tell her I like her, so that solution is out of the question. Is there any casual way of asking her, like subtely? Or, how do I do something and her response would give me a tip. Should I have a friend ask her? If so, should they ask in an off hand sort of way so that they know I did not ask?

2006-12-17 09:41:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK we've only just met. I'm totally bessotted with him. H's gone home to see his family for Christmas. He's sent me a couple of text messages but how many can I send him without scaring him off!

Do I play it cool and wait til he texts me or so I just become a text pest so he knows I am keen?

2006-12-17 09:40:44 · 31 answers · asked by MsCurious 2

I am going on a dinner date tonight with a guy friend that I met online. I dont know if I want to go on the date....even though we are just going as friends because he is not attractive at all.

What should I do?

I already told him that I would meet him...so I dont want to back out of the date...that would be really rude.

2006-12-17 09:40:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My first kiss: (i kind of made the first move, he had asked me before but i was nervous so it didn't happen then 2 and a half weeks later...)
we were sitting on a coach watching a movie, talking and sort of playing, and then I gave him a little peck on his lips, he wasn't really expecting it but he wasn't shocked, he seems more like happy, and like two minutes after it he stated kissing me soft and slowly, and after that we french kissed...
my question is... MEN WOULD YOU EVER FORGET THIS KIND OF KISS COMING FROM A GIRL? WOULD U LOVE IT OR NOT?


this happened around our fourth date.

2006-12-17 09:38:55 · 5 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2

girls like it when guys run a train on you?

2006-12-17 09:38:22 · 5 answers · asked by swampassdingle 1

hey everyone who should make the first move in a relationship well friendship to relationship

jamie

and how should you go about it what tips

2006-12-17 09:37:22 · 12 answers · asked by jm_girling 1

ok i met some guy at a public party an he got my phone number, that same night he called but i didnt hear it so i didnt pick up, 2 days later i called him and he aint pick up so this kept goin on for a week and he would call me too but i didnt hear it. so one day when he calls i finally pick up, but we only talked for about a minute and told me to hold on and then the call dropped, he hasnt called me since and that was on friday and its sunday. i just wanna know what do you guys think is up with him?? i have no clue. oh and another thing is HE NEVER PICKS UP HIS PHONE! idk y help me yall

2006-12-17 09:36:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you are comfortable with a guy, together a while and he does it, do you think it's a turn on or turn off?

2006-12-17 09:35:17 · 15 answers · asked by mr. buns 2

We dont really talk much and I genuinely need help on school related matters. She seems to like me, as she does give off signs and would sometimes ask me unpersonal things like Is that assignment for us, etc. But today I want to call her and I think it will catch her off guard. Will she be mad, happy?

2006-12-17 09:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by za z 1

Today's woman has made it clear that they don't want to see much of the male body. Shorts that are higher than the knee cap are a big no-no and must be extremely baggy. And speedos or bikini briefs will cause women to scream in horror and run the other direction. So ladies, you are on a safari and a well-built jungleman in a loincloth is studying you from afar. Do you check him out or do you quickly avert your eyes and say, "ewww gross, that jungleman is wearing a loincloth!"

2006-12-17 09:32:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous