hello,my name is cass,im scared for my older friend.....he had been in the hospital one night because he had gotten dehydrated too much. from drugs..and im really scared because he hasn't been on aim at all yet which isn't like him at all! idk what to do ...and when we were talking last night...i was like what are you upto and he said drugs and im really really scared out of my life right now.please any advice at all if i end up loosing him im going to loose myself and commit suicide.
2006-12-17 09:41:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't hang out with him or live near him. or know his number,.,,,,hes just a really good friend. im so worried
2006-12-17 09:46:47 · update #1
were not going out... and i need more answers none of these help me any.
2006-12-17 09:52:59 · update #2
obviosly he is effecting you in a negitive way. it may be hard to do but he is ruining your life by messing up his so if he dousnt stop with drugs he WILL die it is honestly just a matter of time so you need to cut him out of your life b4 anything worse happens to him . Hope this helps =)
2006-12-17 09:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, suicide is not the answer. Talk to him. Tell him that you need him as a friend and that you are scared for him. Find a way to encourage other activities. I'll be praying for you and him. I would recommend doing the same. Even if you don't usually pray, it couldn't hurt you and it sounds like that's the only option. Is he doing drugs with other people that encourage this or just because he's bored? Try and just be there for him. Make yourself available at all times! See if you can have him stay with you for awhile. See if you can meet with him every day and spend time with him keeping his mind off of that. Don't get overwhelmed. It says in the Bible that God will not allow you to go through more than you can handle. Obviously God thinks you are strong enough to deal with this situation. Ask God to show you little ways to get him back to "his old self", drug-free. Ask God to show you how to listen and speak to your friend so that he will listen and not ignore you. I pray that God will show me what to write before I answer these questions and somehow I always end up saying things I wasn't going to say that actually helps other people. Please know that it's going to work out and that me and my family will be praying for you. Feel free to e-mail me anytime. I would feel honored if you could e-mail me and keep me up to date on his progress! PUSH> Pray Until Something Happens and FROG> Fully Rely On God !!!sonnygirl0303@yahoo.com
2006-12-17 17:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by sonnygirl0303 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok listen to me, if he is in the hospital they will put an IV in his arm which will rehydrate him quickly. He will be fine, get out and do more drugs. Count in it. Do you kno wwhatdrug he is abusing? Crack? Meth?One of those two would be my guess and probably Meth due to the dehydration.The thing that scares me is from what you've said and what I sense here is that you are a minor(under 18)and have been having an online relationship with adrug addicted adult...that's what I'm more concernd about that you are obviously so infactuated with this guy that you're talking about suicide on the internet...that's not good. How old are you and how old is he??
2006-12-17 17:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by Stephen G. Barr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cass: I can relate to what you are going through right now ! First and Foremost is to get the professionals involved RIGHT NOW !!! You are involved in this already, and you stated that you would kill yourself over this, should he die from O.D. (O ver D osing) from drugs. Assuming he has the potential for kidney damage from this experience ... death could be possible even, with dialysis !!! Renal failure is NO joke to be played with. YOU get yourself into counselling too ... I've known people to do what you threatened to do ... and I know that YOU are not "kidding" around !!! Drugs are not to be played around with because ALL drugs have a down-side to them. Get help "cass" because this may prove to be too heavy of a load for you to bear, alone !!!
2006-12-17 17:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apperantly you don't want to lose him. What you can do is try to take him to the hospital, so they can put him in a project. And get help from your family or friends. Make sure you don't stand alone on this! There are many people on the world, who can and will help you! don't let this take you...
2006-12-17 17:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas L. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek professional help NOW! Don't wait to see what your so-called friend is going to do. He doesn't care about you. If he did he wouldn't be lost in the drugs like he is. Seek help now and move on with your life.
2006-12-17 17:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him that he is ruining his life. be REALLY totally supportive. Visit him and do EVERYTHING you can to get him to stop. --- but the most IMPORTANT thing is DO NOT COMMIT SUICICIDE. Explain everything and everyone he is hurting. Email me at carolinagurl_1994@yahoo.com and we can talk more. Please don't hurt anyone and I hope both of y'all have a merry christmas.
2006-12-17 17:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by *abs* 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say do the right thing and tell someone closer to him. They may be able to do something. I feel bad for you and thats my best answer
2006-12-17 17:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by tennis master 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to enter a drug rehabilitation program. Where are his parents at? They need to intervene.
2006-12-17 17:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is using drugs you should not be hanging out with him.. cause you will loose yourself too... and don't committee suicide cause it is stupid..
2006-12-17 17:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋