Well me and my girlfriend brokeup a few months ago,because she cheated on me. And the guy she was with left her and now she want's to get back with me. Oh and we have a 1 year old son together. I don't feel the same about her any more but should I for the sake of our son? These past few months been hard on me and my son but we made it by ok, so what's some advice you can give me? Thanks for your support!!!!
2006-12-17 09:41:17 · 9 answers · asked by Gilly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say no, you are in her eyes, the last one standing there and she doesnt want to be alone, chances are she will do it to you again. She didnt think about your child together when you cheated last time. I wouldnt be there to pick up the pieces when she got dumped. You will do fine. I have my pride and I wouldnt let her take that from me. You can stll be great parents only apart.
Sounds like she left you with him and the child only 1yr old. I would definately say AH HELL NO to that. If she abandoned her child with you to be with someone else. Besides, you cant trust her and you will always remember that. Tell her she should have thought about all this before and that you arnt gonna be her old stand by just because mr right now dumped her, lol.
2006-12-17 09:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by jeannie64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think this is a toughy. Since you have a one year son yes it can be good. So i do agree with you taking her back due to that reason, but since you dont have the same feelings and you've been cheated I would say no but its the sake for your kid. he needs a mother. my best advice is to change your ex around to make sure she wont make that same mistake again, and just give her another chance. if she messes up again, f it then she will always remain the same person she was.
2006-12-17 17:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dante Jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do feel for you my friend. If you do not feel the same way about her, what is to be done? You should tell her how you feel and explain that since her infidelity you obviously feel differently. You should be civil for the sake of your son and try not to belittle her to him. Be the best dad possible, your son will be relying on you. Take care. Best wishes.
2006-12-17 17:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly she cheated on u dont go back. by the sound of things u dont want 2 go back anyway. she has cheated on u b4 so how can there b any trust in the relationship.. thats it there wont be so it`d be a very difficult relationship indeed weather u have a son with her or not..
2006-12-17 17:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she cheated on you once then she will do it again, just move on and try to maintain a stable friendship with her on the grounds that you are only doing it for your child, just because you have a child with her doesnt mean you have to enter a romantic relationship with her ever again, you will allways be tied together because of your son, but sometimes people are better if they are apart....
2006-12-17 18:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get back together so he can see his mom and dad happy together again and give him a younger sibling if you want but go easy dont hurt her!
2006-12-17 17:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by A kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in time hope thing will solve
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2006-12-17 17:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about a new gf who will love your son?
2006-12-17 17:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by Tazo m?m m?m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cheaters alwaz cheat. Its their nature. Move on.
2006-12-17 17:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by detox_denny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋