Okay. If there is a girl I like, how do I know if she likes me? I dont want to tell her I like her, so that solution is out of the question. Is there any casual way of asking her, like subtely? Or, how do I do something and her response would give me a tip. Should I have a friend ask her? If so, should they ask in an off hand sort of way so that they know I did not ask?
2006-12-17 09:41:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thing first.....do NOT have one of your friends ask her...that shows her that you will not be there for her, because you are allways hiding. Now, lets see...if you are friends with this girl, i would ask her when you are with her. Say something like..."can u see us together?" or something like that. It doesnt have to be fancy, just simple. If she says something that sounds like a yes...then shes yours, if you are still confused, just come right out and say what you feel. Women hate being left to guess what guys think, its torchure. It may be awkward, to tell her right out how you feel, but that earns you so much respect. Try it. You could be amazed. If you want a relationship to work out you need to get past the fear of asking her out. Girls love guys who tell them they love them....why? because its so rare, if not extinct. If you do this, you will be singled out from the crowd. Hope this helps. Go get her tiger.
2006-12-17 11:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by carla 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am having the exact same problem except it's with a guy. You could have a friend ask, but she would probably not tell them the truth. Try saying 'hi' to her, mnaking eye contact, and smiling. Really get to know her, then ask her out.
2006-12-17 17:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
here are some ways to tells if she likes you.
she will play with her hair if you talk to you sometimes.
or her palms will be open when you talk to her.
she will stair at you constantly.
if you ask her to go somewhere with you she will blow off her friends and go with you
and here is a good if you both have watches then you stair at yours for like 3 seconds look up and stair at her and if she is stairing at hers then you no she was stairing at you.
she will lower or higher her voice when she talks to you.
ok that is about all the things to tell if she likes you there are more but i dont no them all
since you are shy you should start wrighting notes to her or get her email and ask her out on one of them
2006-12-17 18:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by bkewlv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when you see her does she wink @ you does she smile @ you does she speak to you, and only you no other boys, then thats the SINGLE she likes you.. so yes then you should tell her that you like her.. let her know that you want tobe her friend .. NEVER ask a friend to help you out on asking a lady out, that shows your scared to asking her anything...
2006-12-17 18:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by mike_m50501 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welll when i grl likes u, they usually hang around with u alot and just are always leaning on u when ur with them. also they are probably starring at u so look and then and see if they are looking at u and if u catch their eyes just smile and keep starring it, if yall hold that eye connectoin then she definetly likes u and u should ask her out. GOOOD LUCKKKKKK and get um get um!!!
2006-12-17 18:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try the friend thing, jus make sure they dont spill the beans and make it obvious that you like her, and make sure that the girl doesn't like the friend who's helping you get info... that would suckk
2006-12-17 17:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Uche Wally 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋