we both want to save our long distance relationship, but untill we met. we cant stop seeing each other.. i love my boyfriend so as his girlfriend! we obviuosly like each other but we cant say that we are officially.. so hard.. what should i do?
2006-12-17 09:58:51 · 8 answers · asked by bianca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should just,tell him
2006-12-17 10:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Meghan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bianca !!!
Hey sweetie, don't do that to yourself, please!!!
It doesn't work. That is not healthy,from both parts. Is a constant
mental anguish, and both of you will be living a lie.
You should definitely keep the friendship, but both should be responsible enough to let each other know that is not fear, for neither one of you.
You both should date, go out, and have fun, meeting other people. If it also happens that after dating others and as the time passes, you bump into one another again, you will still have a chance if both of you are available at the time.
Long distance relationships, are good if you want to drive yourself crazy/insane. That will bring your confidence and self esteem down quite rapidly.
If you love yourself, respect yourself and want the best for yourself, a long relationship is out of the question.
Live and let live !!!!! You deserve it !!! Why commit to something so not realistic??? No one should unless you are already married with children, and still loneliness, is a bad counselor !!!
Be smart, who knows, there's some one dying to know you and willing to love you right next to you !!!!
GOOD LUCK !!!!! GOD BLESS YOU !!!!
MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR
ALLIV Z
2006-12-17 13:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a long distance relationship and I know it is very hard to stay true to that person, but you have to ask yourself one important question. Do you love your long distance person and is there any chance that you will be together. If the answer is yes to both then be true to yourself and that long distance person, if it is no then you have your answer.
2006-12-17 10:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by monz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be blunt, but long distance relationships typically never, ever, ever, ever, work.
Start talking to the new friend, and TELL the long distance boyfriend. That way the long distance boyfriend will know that you are honest, loving and exploring your options.
2006-12-17 10:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry cuz it really hurts!u'll both have to b completely honest with each other on long term plans if there r any b/c it's not fair 2 either of u not to.they can & will work if it's completly understood by both what is needed.otherwise u both will end up hurt,talk 2 him with an open heart/mind.what happens after is what u make of it.(if u have hope & faith,& r honest with each other u'll find a way)
2006-12-17 10:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by cleo 888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard understanding this question as well!
If you are apart from each other because of long distance, and its not an option to live together or either one of you move.
Then you both need to move on, this is pure torture....
Find someone in your time zone.
2006-12-17 10:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by * Deep Thought * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive done the long distance relations and it doesnt work.
2006-12-17 10:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is already complicated so it will not work out
2006-12-17 10:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋