Singles & Dating - 10 December 2006

he ASKS HER OUT...." no thanks,"...and he says...WHY?,,,AND SHE SAYS...."because i am not interested, sorry!"....NOW I THOUGHT THAT MEANT IN NICE WORDS....'back off"...but she said it nicely... WHY DO MOST MEN NOT " GET IT?""" OR IF you were to say...."Oh, no thanks, i just like you as a friend"....doesn't that just tell them the same.?????..that is what i had thought that had meant...WHY are men sooo thick headed??? now i know this will upset someone. so i am sorry...

2006-12-10 07:09:24 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4

he always stares at me when we are out & the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met & that initially he was intimidated by my job he's a carpenter & im an academic he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving & he kept on grabbing me & said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous & said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink ,,i tried he has not replied to my text! He also was staring in to my eyes & placed his fingers on my lips, he said his mother loved me. I adore him whats the best way to win him back y is he acting like this? what should i txt him?

2006-12-10 07:08:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-10 07:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

she really liked me and had conciderd me before but it was a bad time for some reason and that she will tell me when she is ready.
What does this mean is it good or bad???

2006-12-10 07:05:14 · 14 answers · asked by bob 2

This boy named Alex likes me. He is so popular and he is a good guy but not boyfriend material. I like his best friend Jason, and Jason likes me too. We both decided not to tell Alex so he dosent get his feelings hurt. Alex heard me talking to my bestfriend Jade about Jason and he doesnt talk to me anymore. Neither does Jason. What should I do?

2006-12-10 07:03:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok,my x boyfriend broke up with me a while back he said that we were taking a break and then a little while after that he started liking me again but then he went out with this other girl and then he didnt like her so they broke up and i still think i love him ALOT but idk wut to do he nos that i like him and we talk alot on the comp and we see each other during school and he looks at me so does he like me and what should i do??

2006-12-10 07:00:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl i used to talk to was coo at first, but, you know how people always seem coo at first, and then you get to see the real them and they turn out to be a total @ss. well basically i stopped talkin to her, and she kept callin my phone like 20times within a minute, creepy. but anyways, for a couple months she stopped callin and then all of a sudden last night she called, only once though. I want to tell her how i dont want to talk to her anymore, but i dont want her to think that since i answered that means you can call as many times as you want. anybody else ever dealt with a psycho? lol. what was your experience, and how did you deal with it?

2006-12-10 07:00:04 · 12 answers · asked by Yahoo 3

He is always always talking to me, and trying to make me laugh(it always works). Yet when someone asks him if he does like me he says i dont know. But i have known him for just a few months now and i feel like i have known him forever. Do you think he could truly like me ,and is just to "shy" to admit it, or should i move on?

2006-12-10 06:59:55 · 11 answers · asked by Tori H 1

Mine is.......ignorant....

2006-12-10 06:59:17 · 38 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2

help me! im a 13 year old girl and i like a 16 year old guy...i barely know him, but we dance together in a musical that we are both in......what do i do?

2006-12-10 06:58:56 · 13 answers · asked by Kiana 3

was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to 1 another & things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out & the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met & that initially he was intimidated by my job he's a carpenter & im an academic he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving & he kept on grabbing me & said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous & said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink ,,i tried he has not replied to my text! He also was staring in to my eyes & placed his fingers on my lips, he said his mother loved me. I adore him whats the best way to win him back y is he acting like this? what should i txt him?

2006-12-10 06:58:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-10 06:58:08 · 18 answers · asked by Peanuts 2

hi all,i am just about to write a letter to the man of my dreams and i'm meeting him thursday to give it to him.i am quite shy but want to make my feelings known so a letter i thought would be the easiest option.but where do i start? we are great mates,i want that to continue...maybe more.but he's the man i want to be with,he's stood by me through EVERYTHING.

2006-12-10 06:57:53 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica D 1

Im a 35 year old female currently going through my second divorce. My first marriage my x was really abusive. physically and, mently. I was married for 8 years. I didnt have any support from family or friends i was basicly alone. ( I hate it when people say, you should have just left his ***). i wished it was that easy. People shouldnt say it unless they have been in that situation.

After I had enough courage to finally leave I was single for about 3 years then i met my second husband. At first everything seem to be going fine. I was married to him for 8 years. A couple of months ago my daughter told me that he was touching her sexually. So, I left him that was easy to do because, I would do anything for my daughter to be safe.

Im losing my trust in men I feel like i should just give up on them.

2006-12-10 06:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by hello 1

I was wondering if you guys are still wearing condomes even if you are using birth control , because these days I rarley hear about AIDS and SDT, I was a teenager in late 80's I really got lucky and I am straight cuz that does not mean anything, please answer my Q I dont want to see young people dead.

2006-12-10 06:55:23 · 8 answers · asked by Dove4ever 4

well,I like this guy but we were friends and now he made me mad and he know that I like him...I really don't know what to do please help!!!!
oh, rate my avaters too please and thatnk you!!!

2006-12-10 06:54:37 · 9 answers · asked by hott_mama313 1

do u like it when girls hug you?

2006-12-10 06:52:52 · 4 answers · asked by Elle :) 3

if u do then y would u

2006-12-10 06:50:45 · 9 answers · asked by Joho 7

Shortly after I decided against having an abortion my boyfriend left me. He said that he still loved me but didn't want to be a father. A few months later we started seeing each other again and things seemed to be getting better. He said that he still had feelings for me but that he didnt love me anymore, which is hard to believe judging by the way he is around me. He even told a friend of ours that he still loved me and then when i asked him he denied it. I can't help but wonder if he's trying to fool himself, if he maybe thinks that making me believe he doesnt love me will make it easier for him to leave. Despite the fact he said he didn't love me anymore he always seemed to want to be close to me and missed me while i was on holiday. He even kept a conversation going about baby names, but then he left again. Saying he didnt want me or the baby. He's leaving to join the marines in January will the tie away make him realise what he's going to lose?

2006-12-10 06:50:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you prefer a girl draw more attention to her eyes or to her lips?
Also, what's more attractive: nice eyelashes or full lips?

2006-12-10 06:49:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

that i think it may be lust

2006-12-10 06:49:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

do guys say i love you for fun?

my guy friend said that to me
& i dont know whether to believe or not.

its like his game is more impt den me.
his phone calls are also more impt
[ though he always apologises after that.]

i`m confused!
*argh*

2006-12-10 06:49:35 · 5 answers · asked by lilbr0wnsuga 3

I asked my bf what he wanted for Xmas, and he told me a hug or something cheaper, and then I told him that I know he wants something and just to tell me what it was...and he said that he already got what he wanted for Xmas, which is me! and what more could he ask for!......and now Im debating on whether or not to get him something! He's 16 and im 14 and I have no idea what to get him! should I just not get him nething?! or what?! Any ideas on gifts and stuff?!

2006-12-10 06:48:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime we get into a fight i am the one who is "wrong" and he always tells me a just have stupid feelings and am to emotional about everything. But i cant help the way i feel. he says i attack him when i have a problem with him. and i dont know how to present somthing without making him feel that way. and im also really tried of him never trying to see from my viewpoint and admitting he is wrong, i have no problem saying sorry when i am wrong. what is his deal? and what do i do?

2006-12-10 06:47:51 · 8 answers · asked by pretty_little_disaster 1

can a relationship work if you and your partner don't see each other,just talk onthe phone and see each other on the weekends.

2006-12-10 06:47:28 · 10 answers · asked by joe 1 1

2006-12-10 06:47:16 · 16 answers · asked by heleanthusovulia 2

both of you are friends and the girl in question has many offers of a relationship, yet she keeps turning them down. and you ask her and she tells you it is becos she is not yet ready for a relationship until a certain period of her life. would you still therefore ask her out despite this knowledge of her?

2006-12-10 06:46:23 · 12 answers · asked by wittybaby 2

I have recently caught my boyfriend in a lie about him wanting to stay home and not hangout with me cuz he was tired then he ended up going out with his friends to a bar and drinking any ignoring all my concerned phone calls. we were in the middle of talking and he just basically hungup on me (pretended he had no service) and finally called me at 6 am i told him hes a liar he lied about wanting to not go out he lied about not being able to call me . he has done funny business before my trust for him has decreased so much in the past 6 months. ive even asked him if he has ever cheated on me before because of rumors and he denys it and says if u cant trust me then we cant be together cuz ur always going to think im cheating. but he gives me reason to think he is i think i should just end it. i cant put up with liars i know no one is perfect but why lie about it? and why isnt he kissing my *** 3 days later? he has been cheated on before and said its horrible why would he do it to me

2006-12-10 06:43:21 · 23 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1

i have been dating this guy on and off for the past year. but every time we date we break up because one of us "cheated" on the other. mostly he broke up with me because i "cheated" on him but it never happened. well when i met him he had dated like every girl in town plus more. and he was dating this girl while he was tryin to get with me. and i always heard that he cheats on every girl he gets with. well now im with him again and hehas changed alot. but i still have this thought in the back of my head that says he is going to cheat on me... and it doesnt help when i bring my friends to his house n he pays more attention to them... but when we are alone its all about me he even asked me to marry him but he has told me stories about him gtting engaged before and let me tell you ... he has been engaged way more than five times. and i love him sooooo much i wanna say yes but i still have that bad feelin that what has happend in the past will happen again. whats gonna happen next?

2006-12-10 06:42:16 · 9 answers · asked by Jettelyn 1

I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a crush on a 14 year old guy. I don't know him real well, but he used to say hi to me and stuff before he found out my age. Now, he basically ignores me. Is he intimidated by my age? I've caught him looking at me a couple of times recently, and once when we were smiling, we made eye contact. I'm very shy, so I'm too afraid to ask him, but do you think he's got a crush on me?

2006-12-10 06:41:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous