Singles & Dating - 9 December 2006

My girlfriend and I broke up last Friday. We had been living together for about five months. She has two kids who I have loved since day one. I have come to call them my own. I am truely in love with her and would do anything to get her back.

The problem is that she claims to be confused about what she wants. She has been talking to her x-bf, and says she still loves him. Nothing I did really drove her away that she didn't already know about. When I first moved in with her she knew I didn't make a lot of money. I am a med student and don't have the chance to work as much as I would like. This other guy is a construction worker and must do pretty good income wise. She says its not a money thing and that in the long run she knows I am better for her and her children but cant seem to stay on the right track.

Do I give her the time to think, even though she sees him on occasion? Or do I move on? I can't seen to get her out of my mind and try not to call, but I do. What do I do?

2006-12-09 04:45:43 · 3 answers · asked by Seth R 1

lived in another state (about 800 miles) and they were supposedly between jobs (whatever that is supposed to mean) and therefor had free time and you had a job where you got 2 days off that weren't together. He wants you to fly to his town and stay with him (not a good idea, I don't think) for a few days. I think it makes more sense for him (since he has free time) to fly to the large city I live in and stay at a motel near by so we could meet for lunch,etc around my work schedule as I would probably have a day off in that time. I think it makes more sense for him to fly to a large city where he can stay at a motel and we could visit around my work schedule than for me to fly to some small town where there are no motels and stay with him (I would never stay with a complete stranger). He thinks it is a better idea for me to come there. I think it is a terrible idea and I am probbably going to delete him for this reason. He seems to be looking for the same things I am.

2006-12-09 04:44:58 · 9 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

what is trying to say??

2006-12-09 04:43:30 · 3 answers · asked by julia1975 4

2006-12-09 04:42:53 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with her for 6 years. I was already thinking about getting married. The last three months I noticed a lot of changes in her. I eventually found out she was cheating on me with one of her co-workers. She says she only did it twice but had been flirting and talking to him for about three months. Our relationship seemed perfect and no one saw it coming. everyone in her family and mine thought we would live happy forever. Now she says she can change. She does not make any excuses and says it had nothing to do with me and how I treated her. she says it was her own issues and she is seeing a therapyst. I asked her not to call me and to give me time and that is exactly what she is doing. I spoke to her a few times and she makes a lot of promisses and keeps saying that she realizes what she lost. but that fact that she does not try harder to get me back makes me wonder if she really means it. She says she is just respecting what I told her (not to call me).what 2 do?

2006-12-09 04:41:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

nice

2006-12-09 04:41:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want it to be inexpensive yet something wit alot of meaning. help me plz.

2006-12-09 04:40:50 · 23 answers · asked by ~%*Bubblesz*%~ 1

tonight ?

2006-12-09 04:40:42 · 14 answers · asked by Brains & Beauty 6

I have never heard the term before, just curious if anyone knew what she was referring to.

2006-12-09 04:40:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

can someone who work at a healthcare facitity tell me, whether your a nurse, cna, or service worker...why do most healthcare workers have affairs with their co-workers. my friend is a nurse and she said its very common in fact to have sex while at work. she said she has even walked in on people while in the act!

2006-12-09 04:40:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so there is this guy who i like and have liked for 2 + years....everytime we hang out something usually happens if ya know what i mean. Should I tell him how i feel? Play hard to get? what? We both have admitted that we like each other..and last time we hung out he asked me to go to a movie with him sometime soon...any suggestions???

2006-12-09 04:39:47 · 15 answers · asked by cutie 2

I have a guy friend, just a friend, that said something to me I dont get. He told me that I am the kind of girl he could fall for, but then later said he didnt want a relationship. What is that? He knows that I am not trying to have a relationship with him , so why would he say that?

2006-12-09 04:38:36 · 18 answers · asked by jeepgirley 1

ok so my ex and were trying to work on things and things were getting better. then yesterday while i was at school i loged on msn and she was on and she says to me " im a waste of ur time you should move on, its best if we just give up and im not doing this cuz i dont love u cuz thats not true i love you" then she just leaves. was that a crappy way of doing that or what i was in the middle of class trying to hold my emotions back. what was her fing deal?

2006-12-09 04:38:29 · 6 answers · asked by slaphappy 3

This girl gave me a hand-delivered road map to her heart in lavish handwriting adorned with gold leaf and all. I accepted her invitation. And once I arrived she told me she "wasn't ready". These are the games guys talk about. This is why some guys are bitter towards women (I'm not yet, but getting close). Guys, am I right? Anything I should know ladies? What SHOULD I take from this?

2006-12-09 04:37:41 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6

It's bad for your skin to lay out in the sun.
What's wrong with your natural color?
Can anyone explain this behavior?

2006-12-09 04:35:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and this guy have started fliritng I think!!! Im useless at picking up signs!

Anway, we were chatting yesterday and I found out he goes to uni as I do so i was telling im studying psychology. He then said so you can read my mind and I jaoking well trying! he then smiled at me raised his eyebrows up and asked me what he was thinking then and there - I felt that it was sort of cheeky suggestive?? so I started laughing and said Im not saying at which point I started laughing too. later in the conversation I said something about reading his body language and he asked me what it said so i checked him out from head to foot (any excuse!) and then i just started to laugh again and didn't answer!

I felt like it was quite a flirty thing going on but I'm useless at anything like that!!!

2006-12-09 04:35:03 · 18 answers · asked by Steph 2

right asked a guy if he fancied meeting up for coffee sometime and he said yes that would be great. that was 2 days ago and hes not text me, im free tonight should i text him to see if he would like to go out or wait for him to ask me when he's ready too. ??

2006-12-09 04:34:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have decided to take her out for a meal. She plans to wear evening dress. Which is more suitable - Burger King or McDonalds

2006-12-09 04:34:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do attractive women keep unattractive friends so often.
does it make you feel better about yourself?

2006-12-09 04:33:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-09 04:33:06 · 10 answers · asked by Red_Amor 2

2006-12-09 04:32:57 · 16 answers · asked by Angel N 1

i'm just one of the crowd.
venue of the seminar is in the cinema,inside the shopping mall.

2006-12-09 04:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been going out for about 2 months, parents dont no. He suggested a x-mas present for me, white roses. I thought it was so cute and a great idea, but didnt want to be a ***** so i said i dont care. But now he wont get me anything. How can i change my answer without looking like a idiot?

2006-12-09 04:25:51 · 11 answers · asked by AC 3

Why does he feel so insecure when i love so dearly??

2006-12-09 04:23:55 · 3 answers · asked by julia1975 4

a friend of mine recently broke up with her boyfriend.

they've been going out for the past two years, were in love, however they broke up and got back together many times. He's cheated on her before (while intoxicated), however she always took him back.

Now they've broken up for good (he broke up with her) and he keeps telling her "I want to want to love u and be with you" and while she's trying to get over him, he isn't letting her.

What should I say to her when she talks to me about it?

(btw we are juniors in high school, this isn't like THAT serious of a relationship)

2006-12-09 04:22:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

just need a bit of a fling

2006-12-09 04:22:48 · 18 answers · asked by sawsy20 2

ANYoNE OUT THERE FOR ME

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2006-12-09 04:22:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

...or do you still think they give you attention or buy you things cause they really care?

2006-12-09 04:22:26 · 9 answers · asked by xoxo 4

2006-12-09 04:22:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-09 04:21:11 · 8 answers · asked by sweet_nibblets33 1