lived in another state (about 800 miles) and they were supposedly between jobs (whatever that is supposed to mean) and therefor had free time and you had a job where you got 2 days off that weren't together. He wants you to fly to his town and stay with him (not a good idea, I don't think) for a few days. I think it makes more sense for him (since he has free time) to fly to the large city I live in and stay at a motel near by so we could meet for lunch,etc around my work schedule as I would probably have a day off in that time. I think it makes more sense for him to fly to a large city where he can stay at a motel and we could visit around my work schedule than for me to fly to some small town where there are no motels and stay with him (I would never stay with a complete stranger). He thinks it is a better idea for me to come there. I think it is a terrible idea and I am probbably going to delete him for this reason. He seems to be looking for the same things I am.
2006-12-09 04:44:58 · 9 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am bothered by his lack of employement as he seems to think it was getting in the way of him meeting someone, but to me, his unemployment is a turn off especially since he has no plans and has moved to a new state. Sounds odd to me, doesn't he?
2006-12-09 04:46:07 · update #1
The fact that he is unemployed would make me delete him. My advice to you is to forget him. Don't fly 800 miles to meet him. He wants you to do that because he has no money for a ticket. Guess who will end up paying for everything if you do meet? It won't be him.
2006-12-09 04:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him come see you. That way you are in your own city, your comfert zone and you don't have to stay with some one you don't know. And if he wont go for that idea then foget about him. Do what makes you feel safe and comfetable, and don't put your job in jerperdy.Then you will end up unemployed like him.
2006-12-09 04:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by quileter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm...move on. There are plenty of unemployed freeloaders closer to you than 800 miles away! Go down to the local unemployment line and pick out a loser from there instead!
2006-12-09 04:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by JayScrounge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question....except the part where you say, "He seems to be looking for the same things I am." Obviously, he is not. He is looking for you to come to his town precisely because you would have to stay at his home. There's only one thing he is looking for. Be carefull....you know nothing about this guy and that which you do know has already raised some red flags. Stay home, please.
2006-12-09 04:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your eyes. You know better. Why would you fly all the way over there to meet someone you know does not work. Please think about what you're doing. Forget him. There are a lot of men right where you live, don't do it.
2006-12-09 04:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be turned off by the fact that he wont come to visit you.... and obviously he can probably not afford to visit you BECAUSE of that lack of employment. Probably not a good match for you. Good luck!
2006-12-09 04:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by KSmom24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you as a woman should not travel - I don't like the thought of you travelling to see him. Probably he can't afford to come to see you. I certainly would not stay with him at his place if you do go.
2006-12-09 04:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 08:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Keep your decision with your gut instinct. This boy is trying to drag you down with him. How pathetic!
2006-12-09 04:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋