Singles & Dating - 9 December 2006

my boyfriend told me he had to go to a family dinner last weekend because his very old grandmother was there or something, and he had to go. anyway i found out that his aunt was actually havin a christmas party and his grandmother wasnt really even there. i guess its not something to get so mad about, but i am. first of all weve been together for over two years, and you'd think he would at least invite me to a family party, but he didnt even ask me. second of all im pretty sure he has some girl cousins around his age who were there with their friends. i dont know i just think he takes me for granted. anyway should i tell him i know he lied? i dont like keeping things in but i also dont like starting arguments.

2006-12-09 05:17:03 · 18 answers · asked by molly s 1

If you hang out other than when you are having sex, that's not a booty call, right? If you do other things together and spend time together and stuff.

2006-12-09 05:15:38 · 27 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2

ok. we've only been going for 3 weeks and i dont know what to get my bf. i know he's into music. he likes slipknot, stonesour...mostly hardcore stuff. he also plays guitar. and i was thinking something to do with music or maybe a t-shirt. but the problem is i dont know what he already has. soooo.....any suggestions will be took into consideration. Thanks!!!

2006-12-09 05:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-09 05:15:11 · 33 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5

i really want to have a positive outlook on life, i want to be simling all the time, and i just want to be able to view the world as something that is good. but this is way to hard for me. my parents are constantly fighting. i cant be happy when i am in my room hearing them contstanly yell and say all these horrible things. and there is also drama between them and my sister, who is now begining to smoke and is getting into a lot of trouble in school. stuck with all of this hate around me, i can't see how i can ultimatley be happy.

2006-12-09 05:15:08 · 4 answers · asked by s 2

Reality punctured with holes
She tells me to breathe
That nothing is
and nothing is make-belief
Off my tongue words tumble
Without thought
A somersault
Until she is not
anything that is possible
For once not getting caught
In candy-stripped chaos
Of lustful lips
I am real, I maintain
I flap and feel
And rain and reveal
failing to contain myself
I hunger and break
For someone else’s breathe
Awakens to take
and lay me to rest here
at my celebrated death
things I cannot
A careful hand
and strand of hair
For one moment in time
Gives reason to care
Before it tears and drops
With tears you can’t stop
Never knowing concrete
On only bustling streets
And shuffling feet
We will never meet
in reality


how can you offer home
to a stranger unknown
with no map to find
the peaks of the mind
and valleys of the heart
where do you start
to glow and ascend
will purity transcend
when reality invades
and innocence fades
depression is a season
she can see no reason
to keep connection
in this human collection
and so we intellectualize
feelings that are not wise
can a gift stay alive
can a dream still thrive
on the end of this vine
nothing to be mine
but only to for once see
unrestrained eyes free

2006-12-09 05:14:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so i've been with my boyfriend for a short while. just the other day, he said he had to tell me something. what he told me was that he just had a baby. i couldn't be mad at him under the given circumstances, the only thing that i could be mad about is that she was born on the 2nd and i found out on the 5th. so that isn't the problem. if i want to be with him, my only choice is to deal with it. but there are so many things up in the air. i don't want to seem selfish, because he is more shocked than i am, and he has no other choice but to deal with it. i don't know if i should worry about the baby's mother, even though she is engaged ( but under the circumstances that she had the baby, she can't be trusted). i can't be jealous. i want him to be a part of the baby's life. i'm still just trying to deal with the shock of everything. i feel like i'm being left in the dark, though. if he is with the baby, he ignores my calls and texts. all he has to say is that he is busy. i feel like he was always too busy and i was not very much of a priority before, so where will i fit in now? i'm confused and still not sure how i'm supposed to feel. and i don't want to tell him all this so soon, because i don't want to seem selfish or stress him out even more. what should i do?

2006-12-09 05:14:25 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Lovely Candi 3

If a guys hits your g/f and she goes to hit him back would you hold her back and tell her to calm down?? If, not what would you do?? Would you stick up for her or your friend??
What if it was all cuz she beat him at what he considered his thing??(she races cars and beat him)
would he still be your friend after??
Would you tell her not to hit him or let her react as she wanted??
Why'd he get so pissed about losing??
Is it wrong for me to want to hit him back??
It was serious. I am a lax player so I have no problem fighting back. I wanted to beat the crap out of him but my b/f was like let me handle it.

2006-12-09 05:13:27 · 14 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3

Im thinking about getting breast augmentation surgery, not huge but a nice natural looking size, Men out there what do you think?

2006-12-09 05:13:02 · 15 answers · asked by Intrigued 2

i am a natural blond and always have been i dont get what hes talking bout

2006-12-09 05:10:35 · 40 answers · asked by angel 1

I always treat women with respect and pay for all when on a date, I listen and remember birthdays anniversaries etc for all my female friends but never seem to make a romantic connection. I am a genuine guy and not a lad who only thinks of beer and fooball.

2006-12-09 05:09:15 · 17 answers · asked by Andrew R 2

2006-12-09 05:08:04 · 4 answers · asked by Krishna 4

What would his body language be and how would he talk to me? What kinds of things would he say?

2006-12-09 05:06:58 · 8 answers · asked by Michele 3

Dear Angel,
I miss you alot. i miss you warm hugs, your sweet kisses, and the fact that you love me as much as i loved you. you need to hear my side of the story. I really love you and i don't want to be apart from you. I need my Angel back. I cannot live without you.

- Elliot

add something you think would be great too please
thanxz to all who answered

2006-12-09 05:05:07 · 8 answers · asked by EZ 3

in general?

2006-12-09 05:04:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this girl. We flirt, hold hands, things like that. She just won't tell me if she likes me, considering I don't ask.

We've only been on one official date and are going on a second one tomorrow but we've hung out every day for like the last two weeks.

Should I ask her if she likes me?
Is it weird after one date to ask her that?
If she said "Sure" to a date both times, is that a sign?
How does one initiate a kiss? (I know how to kiss, although not very good)?
When talking tonight about personal issues, I thanked her and she said something like "You're welcome. Isn't that what friends are for?!"

Does that mean she only wants to be friends?

Thanks

2006-12-09 05:03:58 · 7 answers · asked by dowboy98 3

I know it maybe a man's dream but I am in fear. I have been divorced for six months and I have had emails from lots of women around my age. I recently got a email from a Brandee who lives just a few miles from me. She said she fell in love with my photo and would love to meet me. She is 5'8", 120 lbs, Black hair and a lovely face. My problem is she is 20 years old and in college. I am 35 and was hurt in a eleven year marriage by a back stabbing, gold digging, cheating w-h-o-r-e! I want to move on, but my pain of all those years won't let me. But do I have a relationship with a little lady who might make my ex wife jealous?? What do you think??

2006-12-09 05:03:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-09 05:01:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work out at the gym everyday and I met this woman. We got to talking and I asked her out for dinner. She said yes and gave me her cell phone # and told me what time to call. I called and she didn't answer, so I left a message that I'd call back later. When I did her son answered and said she was in the shower. I called back later and she still didn't answer. I called back again later and left my phone # and she never called back. Why couldn't she just be honest and tell me that she wasn't interested in going out. I would have been cool with that. Instead I'm just offended. I'm going to see her at the gym and it's just going to be awkward. Why would she do that? I thought it was evil.

2006-12-09 05:01:11 · 11 answers · asked by spackler 6

2006-12-09 05:00:23 · 18 answers · asked by Roboito 2

2006-12-09 04:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by sweetart 1

2006-12-09 04:58:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find its too important to me and cant get around it...I guess I feel the decisions someone made shows who they are and if I cant get down with it, it wont fly with me. Granted I am not very forgiving either, but perhaps that only amplifies it (and frankly I dont think we should be forgiving, but thats another story).

2006-12-09 04:55:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

she asked me if she could store her stuff for a few months...and now it has been 2 years. i am in the middle of cleaning up the basement and trying to make it nice, but her stuff is in my storage space. It is not just a few things. it is like 15 boxes, 10big garbage bags, and like 20 boxes of shoes,plus a stereo, and a tv and a microwave. I told her several times now that she needs to get it out, and she has said ok, but never does anything about it . She is in Florida, and I am in Michigan. She has no friends or family that I can dump the stuff off at either. Please HELP!!

2006-12-09 04:55:03 · 9 answers · asked by Smiley 4

i like kenin. kevin likes me. but my friend likes me and he's my best friend....kevin and i have so much in commom

1. were asian
2.we love the same music
3. watch inuyasha
4. we like eachother


but my best friend and i mess around alot.. i need hel!

btw theres more but i dont want to get too in to detail. and im crazy 4 kevin. i dont want to hurt my best bud.i walk home w/ kevin alot!

2006-12-09 04:54:25 · 8 answers · asked by Kitty 2

2006-12-09 04:52:29 · 28 answers · asked by angel 1

what does it mean when a boy on chat tells u that he loves u so much but he has alot of diffrences in personality ,culture everything ...but he keep saying i love u what should i do ?what does it mean?

2006-12-09 04:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help me make some thing

2006-12-09 04:50:02 · 5 answers · asked by brendena k 1

my life used to be new and exciting in college, when i was seeing new things, and meeting people. It was still pretty good at 23 and 24. but lately is just so bland and mundane. does this life get any better or is just all downhill now?

2006-12-09 04:48:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so i like this guy who is just a friend. i think at one point he liked me too, but now he likes some other girl. i think it would be best if i could just get over him and move on. but i still really want to be friends with him. & the only way that i came up with to get over him is to stop talking to him, but then i would have to give up our friendship too. what should i do??

2006-12-09 04:47:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous