Singles & Dating - 1 December 2006

She WAS in counseling. Now she is not. And whatever is going on with her now, she seems content to let it consume her rather than do anything about it. I have done some reading and research b/c I am really scared for her. Under THESE circumstances, I want to just tell her, "Look, I know you're frightened but I don't know why. But it scares me to, not b/c I'm worried, but b/c I care. I have done some reading on my own, and know you went to counseling before. What would you say if I said I thought I knew why? (And then tell her) I have suspected this for a while and still haven't left you and don't plan to now. I just wanted this out in the open so you know that I know and still love you, don't blame you, and want to be here for you."

As I said before, I am very nearly to the point that I would rather have her hate me and do something to help herself rather than try to figure out what's best for me in the context of her situation. So what would you do? Would you tell her?

2006-12-01 05:20:05 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6

Could a successful and meaningful relationship develop if the "couple" slept together the first night of meeting? Or would the relationship always be based on sex?

2006-12-01 05:19:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

the ex likes to yell at me for it too

2006-12-01 05:18:29 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Lil♥Miss♥Teccanina♥ 1

ok my ex bf physically and emotinally abused me and i still love him. How can i fall out of love with him? Somebody please help me!!!

2006-12-01 05:18:09 · 37 answers · asked by Bubblez707 2

here's the situation: two guys, decisions decidsions...1) one has been hitting on you from the start, for 5 months, definately showing major intrest and making no bones about it. 2) the other, you meet online, have an agreement to meet after three months of talking online and on the phone.
Problem:Guy 2 makes you feel like he's toying with you and he may not be, and guy 1 is flat out telling you what he wants, straight up. Both have much to offer, in different ways. Which one seems the best of the two?

2006-12-01 05:17:48 · 11 answers · asked by topcat 1

i'm sweet,cute,funny,nice,cool,arrogant,handsome,romantic,and i'm 2 inches tall.
If we where under the misoeltoe,
what would you do to me?

2006-12-01 05:15:43 · 9 answers · asked by Mr.John Smith 1

2006-12-01 05:15:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know my bf dosent like it but he dose it anyway. im a beautifull girl with great hygene and i just want to know what guys opinions are about going down on a girl.

2006-12-01 05:15:01 · 23 answers · asked by aleisha21 1

...by sun bathing nude when she knows her neighbor sees her.

2006-12-01 05:13:25 · 4 answers · asked by Ivar 4

What do you do when you like this one guy and you have dated him before. And then you start talking again and he tells you that he really likes you still and you tell him the same because you truley feel that way but then he doesnt talk to you for a while. What do you do...do you let him go and if he comes back then talk again or do you just keep trying to talk to him?

2006-12-01 05:10:16 · 4 answers · asked by Brittany<3 1

4 years ago when I was still at school...there was always this guy in my class that all girls loved him.....(for his money and his lame fancy cars.)
he was so sure of himself that all the girls loved him....(true)
ecept ME!!
I never spoke to him never gave him attention....
and so a year passes by without talking 2 him like AS if I care...
Today...Im driving and while he was next to me...had his music up loud..and I knew him so I ignored him...so he sends me a blutoothe at my cell messaging me......
U always wanted me!I know it... meet me ..and bla bla bla

WHATS HIS FREAK'N PROBLEM?????

2006-12-01 05:08:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Location not with who or anything.

2006-12-01 05:08:27 · 3 answers · asked by Not Known To Me. The Voter ;~`}= 7

I'm disabled myself. No one can really tell unless my hair is short and they ask why I have a long scar on the side of my head, then I tell them the story of how I got shot in the head when I was 11. No one can tell I have a glass eye unless I tell them or show them.
most of the time I start hitting it with a pen.LOL!

2006-12-01 05:07:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm dating a guy who keeps saying he wants to get to know me better and that I'm the ideal situation for him but he thinks I'm a little off because I don't like it when he's late or takes 2 hours to pick me up when I know he only lives 30 min. away.

I call him consistently when I'm waiting on him which only makes him take longer and he knows that I have an anxiety disorder. I am now seeking therapy and he said he is willing to go with me, need be. I'm 30yrs. old, no kids, a good job, my own place and I take care of myself. I have a pleasant personality and get along great with other people, I'm also a very giving and understanding person. Am I a little off because I can't tolerate being left waiting and want a serious relationship and take the steps to show that? Am I a little off because of my anxiety? Nobodies perfect, at least I acknowledge my weakness and am trying to work on it.

2006-12-01 05:07:16 · 20 answers · asked by geminig 1

2006-12-01 05:07:10 · 13 answers · asked by tprincl 2

Do you know any good conversation topics?

I am really shy around girls and I am really attracted to this one girl. We have never spoken but she is on my mind constantly. The reason I am shy is because I have not yet had a girlfriend. And any advice you give to me would be appreciated. Thanking you in advance Mr. X.

I am new to this site and I would like to say sorry about my user name but I did not want to use my real name and Mr. X was all I could think of.

Also sorry if you get this question a lot but I really need advice and if more people answer hopefully I will have a better understanding of where I am going wrong thanks.

2006-12-01 05:06:13 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. X 1

I cab't believe it!!!! yeahhh

2006-12-01 05:05:26 · 12 answers · asked by icy 3

i've been going out with this girl for 2 1/2 months. we're both 15. She already says she loves me!! and I DO love her!! And NO... what i feel for her, is not a teenage love... i really DO love her!!!


is 15 to young to kiss??? she keeps talking about kissing but she wants to be alone with me...

2006-12-01 05:05:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi I love this girl I got relley mad a her andi called her a fag she is mad at me now what should I say to make it better?

2006-12-01 05:04:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-01 05:03:10 · 6 answers · asked by icy 3

what if you're totally in love

2006-12-01 05:02:53 · 13 answers · asked by lazgurl2000 2

i love to have romntic and dirty sex. but he always tells me he is to tired. i feel like my sex life is going to an end and ive been with him a while now

2006-12-01 05:02:51 · 20 answers · asked by aleisha21 1

...& saw that he had been visiting all of these girlie sites, (nudy girlie sites). This really hurts my feelings. I looked at these girls. They are all blonde and like 110 pounds. I am brunette and certainly overweight. I confronted him and he says he feels bad. Can you help?”

2006-12-01 05:02:38 · 20 answers · asked by nita 1

Right now I am engaged and I am living with my fiance. He is 25 and I am almost 21. We have been together for almost three years. We have been engaged for about nine months now. We have a townhome, a couple of cars, and a dog and a cat. We function well and living together works great for us. My parents don't know my fiance really well and are not in support of us getting married. There are even more against us living together right now because they say that by "shacking up" I am living in sin and that they want me to stay away from my little brothers because I am immoral. What am I supposed to do? Do I move out just to make my parents happy but in doing so make my fiance and I unhappy? Also, my parents say that they are going to disown me if I continue to live with him.

2006-12-01 05:01:45 · 8 answers · asked by Grace86 1

Then he tells me he didnt feel any "chemestry". Could have fooled me! What do you make of this? Comments please.

2006-12-01 05:01:44 · 1 answers · asked by rose 3

ok i might be pergo and my bf knows but what do i tell my mom and dad?

2006-12-01 04:59:53 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Lil♥Miss♥Teccanina♥ 1

2006-12-01 04:59:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-01 04:59:19 · 11 answers · asked by rinoa 1

My gf has been to counseling, I know that much, but don't know for what. (Something pretty serious I'd say) I assure you I accept her privacy and right to tell me as little or as much as she feels comfortable. But this is ruining a once promising relationship and she would admit to it, too. I have been doing a little research and have come to a conclusion. She wants to feel right and whole again. I see her torment herself over this frequently. I know we care for each other very deeply. I want to tell her I think I know what is going on despite the consequences if I am wrong. I am ALMOST to the point where I don't care if she hates me or not, so long as she does something to help herself. So if you loved them, would you tell them so they understand that YOU understand what they are going through and reassure them you don't blame them and are there for them?

2006-12-01 04:57:52 · 11 answers · asked by randyken 6

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Stncr9dXsMw

check on the link to see the video
very funny

don't forget to come back and let me know what you thought.

2006-12-01 04:57:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous