i love to have romntic and dirty sex. but he always tells me he is to tired. i feel like my sex life is going to an end and ive been with him a while now
2006-12-01 05:02:51 · 20 answers · asked by aleisha21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you catching him right after work??? or is this no matter what time of the day he is just to tired??? try waking him up after he's had a few hours of sleep.... my bf loves that.... or see about getting a toy.... if he has a prob with it, then maybe you should look for another guy sweety.....
2006-12-01 05:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I am there for you. I am a sex therapist and I have to say what you have is a case of the cold shoulder. What is he doing that is making him so tired? You're jumping in and asking him to sex you when he's tired. Take it slower in steps. Start off with a massage soon after he gets home. Then take it too a little no-no on the couch. You can't just say 'Let's have wild sex even though you're tired and I didn't get you in the mood.' Massages. Shows of affection. Make him crave doing it with you instead of having it be a chore!
2006-12-02 04:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he is sleeping, arouse him and go for it. Most men like a women who is controlling of the situation. If ur asking him he might be turn down about the whole idea. Also, don’t make it obvious that’s another put down. Also, when he is showering, join him don’t tell him just walk in the shower and do something to arouse him. I also heard if men have low sperm count there also tired, I don't know if that’s a fact! Oh, give him a BJ! That’s another tip; Remember, most men hate when a women is asking better off you make a move sometimes. And if ur not afraid let him go down on you, make sure you don’t stink. Good luck, if any of this things don’t work you need to find another man because cannot name any man who don’t want sex unless ur GAY!
2006-12-01 08:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is to tired to have sex and you love it, he should of never of gotten to you. Find a guy that loves having sex as much as you do, but not to much sex...O.K? I'm not dissing your boy but sounds to me he is to tired for you over all.
2006-12-01 09:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just tired of the same moves try something new wear something more sexy because instead of in bed make it somewhere eles or maybe he wants to be more then just sex to u
2006-12-01 05:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your over 18 and you wanna have sex all the time, you need a BOB on the side! BOB = battery operated boyfriend! Or, you can get at one of us fellas!
2006-12-01 05:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Buy porn. Or lingerie. Find out what he likes. Maybe he likes something in particular that you're not taking into account.
2006-12-01 05:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by censored_4_tv 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you can do all the work yourself or you could get a new boyfriend.
2006-12-01 05:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by finished 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get ride of the BUM and learn about Divine Sexuality!
2006-12-01 05:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
back off, try to let it happen on its own, if it doesnt happen then i would worry less about sex life and more about who else he is having sex with.
2006-12-01 05:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by jdmholdemslick 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋