2006-12-01 04:59:19 · 11 answers · asked by rinoa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i still get back in a relationship with him?should i marry him?he's asking me to marry him but i'm half - hearted doing that bec of the fear that he might abandon me again just like what he did in the past..
2006-12-01 05:03:01 · update #1
You need to seriously talk to him and think about it before you make an decisions. If he left because he was young and scared, although it was completely unfair to you if he wants to step up and help out now, and you want him there then you might want to consider it. However you have the right to make him prove to you that he is serious and in it for the long haul. If he doesn't seem sorry or if you don't trust him to stay I would tell him to leave you alone!
2006-12-01 05:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by LLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he sorry for leaving? Was the statement "I'm Pregnant" just too much for him? If so maybe he needed time for this to sink in. We got pregnant before we were married and we separated and I said I would raise the child on my own. He wised up and we have been happily married for nine years and we have three children.
2006-12-01 05:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by 2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to tell anyone what to do in this kind of problem. But i think i would do some hard thinking about this. If he left you when he found out you was pregnent will he do it again. I know it is hard if you have a lot of feelings for this guy to just push him out of your life. But ask yourself if he is going to do it again and then leave you hanging the second tije around
2006-12-01 05:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by sue w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this his baby? If it is do not go back to him, obviously he has no morals and will leave you again for whatever reason. If its not his baby thaen you should probably just be his friend for now and see if you guys can develope a good friendship and then when the baby comes take it from there.
2006-12-01 05:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by nydiva28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him into the child's life but not your own. I'm sure you are too wonderful of a person to be hurt by that loser, again. But if you love him, let it take a minute before he is completly back in your life.
2006-12-01 05:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all make mistakes and if he wants to come back to you because he realizes his mistake and wants to be a good father, give him a chance. Remember, though that there are so many problems with taking your ex back.
2006-12-01 05:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left you in your time of need. Why would you even consider taking him back.
2006-12-01 05:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually i would say if he leaves u dont take him back but if he is the father u would want him in the babys life wouldnt u?
2006-12-01 05:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sami M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it's marriage and family or nothing. Do what's right for the baby.
2006-12-01 05:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He left you when you really needed him.
Do you still love and need him,is the question.
And will he do it again?
2006-12-01 05:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by starrdevine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋