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hi I love this girl I got relley mad a her andi called her a fag she is mad at me now what should I say to make it better?

2006-12-01 05:04:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I got madly in love with her but she pissed me off and i want her back can someone come up with something I am no good a peoms

2006-12-01 05:13:51 · update #1

what do u mean immature i am in seven grade for god sakes

2006-12-01 05:44:52 · update #2

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Seems like you need to better control your temper and don't be so immature.If you are angry you need to express it to her in more adult way.It's all about communication.Apologize and reassure her that you will never act that way again but mean it.Tell her all the reasons you love her and that you need her and can't live without her (in a non-suicidal way of course:major no no!)Write her a poem from your heart saying how sorry you are.If you are not poetic make a list of all the reasons you shouldn't have said what you said and of everything you stand to lose without her.Good luck, but work on your anger!

2006-12-01 05:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by lonesome4calle11 2 · 0 1

Say you're sorry. Say that you were angry, and the anger made you say things you didn't mean. If she's the kind of person who believes that people are more inclined to tell the truth when they're angry, then this won't work, but on the other hand, do you want to be dating someone who has a harder time trusting you when you're not upset?

You're the only one who knows if a present will actually smooth things over. It *doesn't* work on me - I feel like I'm being bribed. My advice is to stick with the apology, try extra-hard to be considerate of her in ways that don't involve money, and then maybe in a couple of weeks get her a small gift. (Don't connect this small gift to her Winter-Solstice-Holiday present, though - it should be for its own sake.)

2006-12-01 13:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0 0

Buy her roses, write her a poem. If you want I can write you a poem and you can give it to her. I would just need her first name. Sit her down in a chair the the most quiet and relaxing place in the house or at a coffee shop. Give her the roses and read her the poem and say your sorry that these are my true feelings coming from my heart and what I said to you earlier came from my stupidity. I love you. And you'll more than likely see her cry and kiss you until you pass out!

2006-12-01 13:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

check this if you love her all you gots to do is buy her a dozen red or white roses, and one fake rose make sure the color of it is different than the real roses what i mean is say you buy 12 white roses buy one red atach a letter that says im sorry for all the bad things that came out of my mouth that hurted you and i will always love you till the last rose die weeks will go buy all the roses will die exept for the fake this means you will always love
just try it but make sure you give her the rose in front of a lot of people to show that you have balls and make sure yo friends and her freiends are around you will get her back dont be pussy do it in front of a lot of people trust me i did

2006-12-01 13:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It's not what should you say - it what should you DO! FIRST - was the reason you got "really mad at her" a stupid reason - one without a valid reason. The SECOND - no matter how mad she made you - calling her the Bit## word is not reason enough. THIRD - what you need are anger management classes. I'm sure she's not the only person you've vented your anger out to. Is she??? Enroll in a class - seek help.

2006-12-01 13:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Topez 6 · 3 0

Flowers are for "Im sorry" and yes i suppose your sorry but try something oringinal. Like write her a poem, or make your own flowers (using paper, plastic, cans, tampons, whatever be creatvie!)
Doing something like that shows her you still care cuz you took the time out of your schedule to do something special for her.

2006-12-01 13:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Want her back?
this is the best thing ... and true..

DO NOT TELL HER THAT YOU LOVE HER.
DO NOT BUY GIFTS OR FLOWERS.....

that will be the worst you could do! Careful!!

I am in a same situation, but here is the hardest part.

first of all we need to understand what really happened.. if you ant her back, you should let her know that you are sorry for whatever came out of your mouth. It was just frustration. We are humans and here is the best solution .
Dont tell her that you love her. Dont ever say that in a dificult situation, believe me .. you will be pushing her away...

I happen to be in a kinda same situation here, its been 3 days since I argued with my G/F.

First day woked up and left her house, work etc. and went to my own house. did not called her at all all day long.. it was hard.. but necesary... you must do it.. have to is No. one rule to get her back...
So getting back to mine situation, she called me that nite and asked me what i was gonna do.. i told her that she just woked me up and i was in bed.. i needed to sleep... she hang up on me...
yestarday all day she was calling me and living me messages... she was getting nervous.. i can tell.. i was making her suffer now.. now I was winning....
last nite.. I finally decided to answer her call.. told her that i was just busy... (like i did not care..) and she asked me that when i was donne to go and see her.. she wanted now to see me...
I called her arround 10:30pm and told her i was having a drink in some friends house... she said "oh well..ok i am going to bed them..." and i said .. "ok .. good nite" I was raw and cruel..

today... she called me first time in the morning.. and told me how bad she felt... blablabla... now she is beggin me to get back tonite... until now 1pm she has called me 4 times.. now she dies for me.....

do it.. as hard as it seems.. it is the best thing to do.. I always do it and works perfect.!

hoppe this will help.

2006-12-01 13:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by enriqueflorida1 2 · 0 1

to start with tell her the truth and if you did not mean it tell her as she already knows no one is perfect and try to treat her better as agood woman is hard to find and no matter how mad or upset dont take it out on her

2006-12-01 13:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by ronny b 2 · 0 0

just call her and talk it over with her. Find out how she really feels inside and show her that you really care about her and that you really want her back. Make sure she knows how you feel about tha whole situation too.

2006-12-01 13:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by TrueHappiness<3 3 · 0 0

Be as romantic as you can by showering her with gifts and attention to show that you really do care about her.

2006-12-01 13:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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