Singles & Dating - 29 November 2006

just found history on our computer that he looked at some local sites for "find singles / get laid tonight" type crap....... never done this before. Always been the absolute 100% perfect b-friend for 2 years now, never found anything on history, no suspicious behavior (bad past experiences, so i have a habit of checking). No late nights, he works in his work clothes (paint/dirt, comes home sweaty), his friends come to OUR HOUSE, he's never gone on odd evening visits or anything, no odd phonecalls (only have my cell phone).....SO WHY WOULD I FIND THIS ON OUR COMPUTER. More or less.....what excuses should I expect to get when I get home (hvnt talked to him yet).

2006-11-29 09:43:09 · 6 answers · asked by it'sjustme79 3

Hello ladies. So I really like this girl, we'v already go out on a date(it was good, but it seems that she is avoiding me at uni. Yesterday she had passed behind me an she didnt talked to me (she thinks that i didnt see her). So my problem is that in time to time I catch her looking at me. I cant understand if she is shy or if she doesn't like me and want to keep some distance. Lately she is avoiding me. Help m plz ***

2006-11-29 09:41:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive only made out like twise, and i accidently bit them one time.. i have no idea what im doing or what im supposed too do.. what do i do when there tounge is in my mouth so i dont bite it!!????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-29 09:41:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've liked this boy who rides my bus and he lives 2 houses down from me for 3 years now. It sounds like a long time, but right now he is just starting to pay attention to me probably because this school year i have 2 classes with him and because i am now not afraid to sit in the back of the bus with the populars. I laugh at everyone, but especially hiim. He is soooo funny. whenever he sees me laughing at hime he says "shut up ...(my name)...!" I know he is just joking, but I was wondering if he likes me. I think he knows that i like him, my brother most likely told him.

2006-11-29 09:41:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 09:40:12 · 27 answers · asked by tysexy25 2

the day before thanksgiving my bf decided to break up with me.he said it was because he had doubt about a lot of things.he's a freshman in college and i'm a senior in high school. So after he used this "reason" i didn't believe him because i figured that he just wants to play around while he's there and i told him that i didn't want to see him again. later, he told some mutual friends of ours that he didn't trust me but he wanted to talk to me.they also said that they asked how i was doing because he wanted to know. he's even tried to contact me through facebook and even one of his friends, who had a part in the break up tried to request me as a friend through the site. i happily declined. for me, it seems like he wants to be friends to make himself feel better about everything. when we broke up he hinted at getting together again in the future. i told him that i never want to speak to him again. lately, i've wanted to contact but i don't want to be the one who caves. Advice?

2006-11-29 09:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

I have not been single sence High School. 8 years to be exact. And I don't even know how to approach a woman. I am SOOO shy. After I get to know someone, I am not shy, but it is the initial meeting that is so hard. I don't drink or smoke, so bars and nightclubs are pretty much out, I guess. What do you think?

2006-11-29 09:37:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some where on the internet I heard it was forrbidden or something for an Asian women to like Black men or something like that. Or like it's not supposed to happen or something. Think I should stop reading internet sites that say stuff like this? Or are they helpful, like giving a heads up?

2006-11-29 09:37:23 · 7 answers · asked by Shattered Dreams 1

I live with my boyfriend and to guy roomates, when I went to sleep my boyfriends ex-wife came over(drunk) with a friend of hers and was still there in the morning sleeping in the bed with their son .. My boyfriend says he asked her to leave and she refused, and there was nothing else he could do. so he just came to bed.... He said it was because it was his son's mom and she just wouldn't leave there was nothing else he could have done?

2006-11-29 09:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by 21&lovinit 2

Ive already told my boyfriend, but When did you all tell him/her?

2006-11-29 09:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you really mean when you say you need your space? Does that mean you are not interested? Or does it just simply means that you don't want to be "smothered by the other person?"

2006-11-29 09:35:51 · 19 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3

2006-11-29 09:35:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

we always use the word love with everything like i love these shose or food or some thing. you guys get it. but when it comes to trying to tell people how we realy feel about it we chock aand cant get the words out. why is that? why are peolpe so weird that way?

2006-11-29 09:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by *****heart***** 2

i like some body but they don't like me back in the same way o like them but i think i can rub off on that person and they might start liking me back.

2006-11-29 09:33:28 · 3 answers · asked by dlt2fine 1

Girls are the wisest. Will you please help me?
I have known this girl for two years, she’s 34 and I’m 30. She lives about an hour away. We went out a couple of times awhile back. First time she had an old friend get in the way, and they pursued a relationship. The second time she indicated that if I lived closer she would pursue a relationship but didn't want a long distance relationship. I told her I wanted to pursue it but she resisted, citing the distance thing. We kept in touch and emailed almost daily, pretty much excessively as many as 20 times a day (considering we both have office jobs, that wass pushing it I think). About 3 months ago I told her (casually) that I was seeing somebody. She immediately suggested that she was coming to my town and wanted to hang out for awhile. We did. She asked how things were going with the g/f, and I told her they were ok and that we were reaching the make or break point of the relationship. I asked her if she was seeing somebody, and she hesitated (what does the hesitation mean) before saying that she had been seeing somebody for a year. I told her I was happy for her. We had a nice innocent time together. On that following Monday I emailed her and said that I was happy for her that things were going well for her. It’s been a month and she hasn’t really kept in touch AT ALL, not like she used to. Any ideas on what her intentions were and what the heck she is thinking now? Thanks gals, I appreiciate it.

2006-11-29 09:32:38 · 16 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2

2006-11-29 09:31:34 · 25 answers · asked by Dreamz 1

Is it just me? Isn't trying to win back an ex or an ex trying to win you back pathetic? I'm not in this situation but it seems like everyone else on Earth is. Don't people think ahead before they break up with people? Do people just like that drama? Can't people have enough respect to just move on? I don't mean that everytime people try that it's pathetic. I know that stuff happens sometimes, but come on. Do people just rush into break-ups or am I just emotionally cold about it?

2006-11-29 09:31:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

from happening in the future? I dont even like the guys.

2006-11-29 09:30:24 · 17 answers · asked by mystifyingsilence 1

I've been seeing my girlfriend for 2 months now. I am so confused. We started in the "honeymoon" rosey glow of seeing each other, being in each other's arms and looking into each other eyes. She is still very keen and talks about the future. I felt great on Sunday when we went for a walk and had a meal together. She then met my parents and I met her mother. However, when I saw her last night I felt a little pressurised to kiss and cuddle all the time. However, I felt like telling her that I loved her when holding her in my arms in bed. I've had a major up and down before about two weeks ago. I admit that I probably analyse far too much. However, I don't want this relationship to slip away or to hurt her. I also don't want to lose her love if I have to step back a bit. Please advise.

2006-11-29 09:27:53 · 12 answers · asked by drsauce99 1

2006-11-29 09:26:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in a relationship for 5 years and we just broke up. About 1.5 days later, he accepted another female's number and is thinking about talking to her on a serious note. Isn't that too soon? I'm still trying to deal with all the pain. I don't think I'll be ready to talk to someone for a long time.

Why is it that men move on so quickly? Is she just a quick back up plan or "rebound" person? Could he be serious about being serious with her? Should I assume other things were going on with her in the past?

2006-11-29 09:26:19 · 16 answers · asked by * 2

My ex and I broke up and we aren't talking anymore. This was my doing (HEY, I'M ADMITTING IT WAS MY FAULT! NONE OF YOU PEOPLE WOULD HAVE THE GUTS TOO SO SHUT UP!) and now he's going around hanging out wth much pettier girls then me. First it was the threats of suicide now this. What's his problem and what should I do?

OTHER THEN BEATING HIM UP!

2006-11-29 09:25:48 · 5 answers · asked by Christina M 3

2006-11-29 09:25:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

onship? I'm really curious. I would like to be with a woman to see how it is. ? I would like to start off as friends frist to see how that turns out then become more than friends. ? I would like to get to know her frist before anything else happens between us.

Thanks guys any ansers would help me out a lot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-29 09:24:43 · 2 answers · asked by sexycutenicelatinaepettiewoman 1

2006-11-29 09:24:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If my boyfriend of 5 years didn't physically and verbally abuse the woman before me (also long term relationship of 5 years), but abuses me and says that he will make sure he doesn't do this to the next woman, how do I swallow that? Many people remind me that it's not my fault that I'm being abused, but if I'm the only he's abused, what does that mean?

2006-11-29 09:23:19 · 3 answers · asked by * 2

Just say you are wearing tan thigh highs and you notice a guy kinda sneeking glances at your feet and shoes knowing what he wants to see what would you do! Would you tease the heck out of him and get him all riled up?

2006-11-29 09:22:45 · 3 answers · asked by beckett305 1

Ladies hi there I need help with something please!. This Saturday coming up I am going to be set up with a girl at a friendly barbique. I have met this girl before she works for one of my clients and is very attractive to me. I don't know if she knows that this is a set up. I also know that she broke up with her boy friend a week after I broke up with ny girlfriend. I am going to the barbique alone and so is she. How should I act around her? We have both come out of seriouse relationships so it will be nice to be with someone again. What should I do? It has been a while since I have hit on someone or asked someone out from scratch again. If I do this right it could be a wonderful future for us both I really don't want to lose trhis girl over stupidity or lack of set up ethics, so to speek. How should I handle this situation???? help me please, the balance is in your hands!. Serious answers only please!

Thank you George

2006-11-29 09:22:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have met a guy and been on a couple of dates with him. On the 2nd date i slept with him - he was txting me all day after it. Then i saw him again and it was as if he just wanted sex. He txt me again the next day but since then has not been in touch,(has been a week) i feel slightly daft. I may be being paranoid or is he just not interested in me except for sex. Something felt wrong and impersonal the last time i saw him and we were speaking most days until the last time i saw him.
Should i get in touch with him?

2006-11-29 09:21:41 · 37 answers · asked by lady.x 3

I just broke up with my boyfriend today and it was a horrible situation...and i'm heartbroken. I just wanted to know if anyone else is out there feeling the same pain....

2006-11-29 09:21:25 · 17 answers · asked by Roxy1316 3