Singles & Dating - 28 November 2006

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or
spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends" A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He
didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would
he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has
more education or a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

2006-11-28 09:48:54 · 14 answers · asked by Dr. Kat 5

I've been dating a guy that is into country music and surfing and has a dog and a truck and likes sports and likes to travel and is 28. I don't know what to get him for christmas. What do guys like. Please don't say some sort of video game, he's not into that. What do you buy grown men that don't need anything? also, i'm thinking around $40. i'm cheap i know.

2006-11-28 09:47:01 · 12 answers · asked by TimeWillTell 1

I've met a guy who's lovely. He lives in the USA and I live in the UK. Is ther any chance of it going further?

2006-11-28 09:46:42 · 15 answers · asked by MsCurious 2

Ok this one guy, he's 2 years older than me (i'm in 9th) he's been my neighbor, FOREVER!!!! And i've always kinda liked him and he's always kinda liked me but nothing BIG, not even a crush or anything!!! just a small little thing i have for him, we always flirt with each other and i know he would date me, but i'm not sure if i should.....i dont date alot and right now i'm heart-broken so maybe thats why i'm thinkin about givin him a chance.....
also, we act like we're dating all the time, this one girl that rides my bus asked us if we were datin 2day and he always says "yea we are, gotta prob with it??!!" but i think he's just jokin around but idk...


i'm shy around most guys i like but i'm DEFINETLY not shy around him, i would tell him to his face i like him, (i do it all the time) but the problem is i think he thinks i'm just joking around and i'm like seriousily he just smiles,

and he's not much of dater, ALOT of ppl like him but he never dates them

2006-11-28 09:46:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and me now ex-broke up recently. No bad things happen, just want to focus on school and work right now. He wants us to still be friend, (we were friends for 3 years b4 we actually dated) and I was cool with that. But how do you do that if you are still in love with the person? It's not like you can throw away all the things you shared and go back to "hey buddy ole pal". Help.

2006-11-28 09:45:56 · 9 answers · asked by bridget c 2

Im a guy and just an hour ago realized that I follow that man law now, because I used to no to. But would you really take your friends over a girl as your first priority.

2006-11-28 09:45:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My roomate and I admitted our attraction for each other a few weeks ago, and have gotten on each other twice. It seemed like he actually may have liked me but now he's mean to me sometimes. There wil be times when we are home alone and we get real close to each other on the couch and watch tv, or look at our fantasy football teams, but sometimes he's a jerk. It's not like he's this way before or after we get done cuddling..and I know it's just an innocent little fun random hook up, but still...What does this mean?

2006-11-28 09:45:51 · 12 answers · asked by trickyandmysterious 1

look my phone was broke for like a month and my boyfriend had got locked up so when he got out he said he need some you no what anyway he went to have sex with some who he say is a hoe and now she's pregnant so i call the and she said she's not what should i do we went through so much but look i'm not going lie i also most did it but i stop my self please please help me i'm hurt he told me but i think the only reason he said something is because i said something when i did it

2006-11-28 09:45:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think he's flirted wiht me a few times but then sometimes he will just plain out stare at me and other times it will be like he doesn't notice me at all but we do make alot of eye contact sometimes but we don't really talk that much

2006-11-28 09:44:20 · 7 answers · asked by Stephanie P 1

do you think if a guy say he loves both of you...do you think hes confused???

2006-11-28 09:43:54 · 6 answers · asked by chubey 1

and who or what makes your soul cry with pain???

;0)

2006-11-28 09:43:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

its a gay community web site manly for teens but ther is no age limmet i ant got much if ne money for ppc and stuff like it

2006-11-28 09:43:30 · 3 answers · asked by boy18.co.uk 1

thers this guy,in my class,and my friend asked him out for me. he said no. i dont know if he was sayin no because one of my best friends asked him or if he realy meant no. should i wait to see if he changes his mind,or should i find another guy?????

2006-11-28 09:43:08 · 4 answers · asked by sk8trgrrl101 2

Okay, I really lyk this guy. He acts lyk he lyks me and he told my friend that he lyks me but he isnt sure if he wants to get into a serious relationship right now. For the first time in 3 yrs I can actually see myself in a long term relationship but I've never been the kind of grl to just sit around and wait for a guy. Do I try and wait or what?

Please!! Guys...what would you want me to do to help you determine whether you wanted to be with me or not?

2006-11-28 09:42:52 · 2 answers · asked by Kaylie Reanne - Born 08-06-09 3

does popularity MATTER in a relationship?
there`s thiss boy (:& i really like him
right now we`re just friends and i havent told him that i like him more than a friend.
but likee, he`s SO popular & has a lot of pretty girl friends and im shy, not so much popular and i dont have that many guy friends AT ALL.

i feel like statistically- hes wayy higher than me ;(
& that he would NEVER like me...
the other day i was talking to him on the phone..
i told him that i knew someone who liked him
& guess whatt. the first question he asks after i told him that is,
"IS SHE POPULAR?"
like seriously. why does it matter? its` ONLY junior high!!
mannnn i kinda do & dont wish i was popular right nowww :(
but if i go out with him...he'd make me popular...
but NOOO! i dont like him b/c of thatt
i like him for the person he is,
not his reputation or his popularity...

2006-11-28 09:42:14 · 16 answers · asked by Taylor. 5

me:
i used to blush ALL th time at school for no reason-i tried to stop but it got worse
-akward stuff with my crush
- having my friends talk about my crush in a group of GUYS!!
hanging upside down from the subway rail a lot of times
-smelling REALLY bad-like a woman thing but i couldn't shower at the moment and i was partners with a guy
singing the little mermaid and stuff in class
MORE i just can't think

2006-11-28 09:42:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do people prefur big fake breasties or fried eggs????

2006-11-28 09:41:54 · 22 answers · asked by sammyantha 4

have a hard on wen they see the girl they like?
(they're nt dating they both fancy eachother but have never spoke)

2006-11-28 09:41:17 · 26 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2

2006-11-28 09:40:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex boyfriend kept on calling me last night.i like him a lot i just didnt really feel like talking i had an awful day. he got all mad that i wasnt calling him back and then he called me again so i just picked up the phone and he says "LOOK OUTSIDE AT YOUR DRIVEWAY". i see him in a car with two other guys that are going to my friends house to hang out. well too bad none of them have their license, my parents arent home, and the friends house theyre going to parent's arent home either. so i told him no i didnt want to go and my parents would pretty much kill me if i did. he got really upset about it and about how i wasn't answering my phone before. im not even going out with him i dont even get it? he wouldnt talk to me at school. should i even call him and apologize?i thought i made a good choice. i heard from my friends that he still likes me but i feel as if im getting myself involved in a weird situation consisting of us just making out but not going out. im frusterated with myself

2006-11-28 09:39:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 09:38:50 · 15 answers · asked by Luis 4

There is a girl at the gym a similar age to me (24). I sometimes see her in the gym when i'm there on a saturday. she goes on her own and doesn't have a ring on the marriage/engagement finger (i noticed). she smiles and says hi and bye on her way out. but it could be her being friendly. I really fancy her but don't know how to tell if she: a) is single and b) likes me. On saturday i was walking out the gym about the same time as her and when i looked behind, she waved at me and I said something about the gym not getting any easier and she laughed. I think she would have stayed to talk but I went to put my bag in the car, I turned my back on her. I didn't mean to be ignorant - but it could have looked that way. she just said, have a good weekend, bye. and when i looked up she was reversing her car and smiling at me. but again - she could just be being friendly. I may see her this saturday again or the saturday after. i just can't see a girl like her being single cause she is so nice!

2006-11-28 09:37:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love him with all my heart but the only thing thats stopping me is my parents.. like .. im sure they wudn't do nothign drastic but i noe deep down that theyd rather me with somebody indian

2006-11-28 09:37:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

to a guys heart
besides looks and confidence

2006-11-28 09:36:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

, and it was done gently, do you feel you are entitled to remaining friends, assuming you want to, with that person, or do you understand if he/she feel too hurt in your presence to remain there, and thus wants to no longer associate with you? Do you accept or refuse the possible consequence that the dumpee might not want to be in your life anymore?

2006-11-28 09:36:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 09:34:36 · 33 answers · asked by noetic24 1

am just 22. i dont like him but he talks about sex!!i didnt do it with him but am bored of listening to all this shits

2006-11-28 09:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by Lady Santa 5

Alright... this guy is like so totally hawt. More than possible. But lately, i have been getting the feeling he likes me. So I asked my friend to find out who he likes, he didn't say anything. Then she said, "Do you like Britney?". He said he didn't like me like that. She called him a liar and he smiled and nodded his head a little bit. Then he ran off.

What's the deal? I don't have the guts to come face-to-face, and I am moving soon. Help?

What is he saying? Does he like/ not like me?

SOS

2006-11-28 09:33:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres a guy i like at my school named Adam and i was bored and found his number in the phone book and i dont know if i should call him or not.i dont want him to think im a stalker or something.Sould i call him or no?

2006-11-28 09:32:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

im engaged in a long distance relationship.. 8000miles apart.. moving together is not an option yet..

can you pls give me suggestions how i can make her feel special..

i love her more than i've loved before..

and one more thing, im a lesb..

2006-11-28 09:31:45 · 6 answers · asked by mystery moo 3