i love him with all my heart but the only thing thats stopping me is my parents.. like .. im sure they wudn't do nothign drastic but i noe deep down that theyd rather me with somebody indian
2006-11-28 09:37:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm an african american woman and understand. i don't condone racism but it understand culture. i'm not sure how old you are but i'm take my time about it. ask you're parents if it's alright to have friends that are of different nationalities. if it's ok with them then be his friend. try to hang out with each other in groups, that way no one can say for sure what is between you guys and you'll be able to spend time with each other. sneaking around is stressfull. you're friends will see that he's ok and trust me, it gets back to your parents and they'll eventually want to meet him. you'll get to do what you want when the time is right, but take it slow wih your parents. i'm really don't want to encourage hiding a relationship but there are times when it's necessary. if you both really care for each other then everything else will come in time. and when the time comes nothing will matter. although we love and respect our families, we do have to live our own lives. lots of luck to you both.
2006-11-28 09:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I gained't compromise. i'm a school graduate and that i married a school graduate and does not have gone for someone who has a decrease tutorial element. i comprehend of route what concerns the most is his deen, yet when u could have someone religious with an equivalent degree then what's the problem? This also has to do plenty with traditions. i do not favor to be appeared weirdly at at the same time as ppl comprehend I have a more advantageous degree than my husband's. u comprehend "elshaklyat" concerns plenty in Egypt and between Egyptians mostly. yet another issue i must be dealing with is that I is in simple terms unable to get alongside with my husband o.k. as we both have different ranges of ed. and is in simple terms unable to percentage information and information mutually. also, some adult men act like psychos at the same time as they experience that a lady is extra effectual than they are, and existence with such people can be a residing hell!
2016-11-27 19:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hindustani or Native American? If Native American I don't know why they would have a problem with him but Hindustani I could see. I dated Hindustani before and I never got to meet his parents and I am Native American. Almost positive it was his parents why we broke up for no reason.
2006-11-28 09:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're infatuated...but it's still a strong feeling. Talk to them about it. Tell them you like a black guy and how would it be if you got to know him better?
Hopefully they'll be open minded enough to let you follow your own path.
2006-11-28 09:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are racists, so move away from them and tell them to get an education before trying to interfere in your life.
2006-11-28 09:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself, they won't do anything drastic, and if they really love you, they should let you follow your heart. maybe your parent's heart may be broken a little but as long as you're happy.
PS: I wish you happiness together(cute couple)
2006-11-28 09:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try proofreading...it works....i think folks should stick to their own kind....when it comes to marriage...he'll probably date you, but won't every marry you....
2006-11-28 09:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by EJ W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋