Theres a guy i like at my school named Adam and i was bored and found his number in the phone book and i dont know if i should call him or not.i dont want him to think im a stalker or something.Sould i call him or no?
2006-11-28 09:32:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm only 14 ppl so dont put the crap saying u werent bored u were horny and i was bored.
2006-11-28 09:34:56 · update #1
you should have somebody else call him and ask if he likes u
2006-11-28 09:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Katie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not bored, you were curious. You just didn't have the nerve to call him.
There is nothing wrong with that, but you should probably go with your gut, you were apprehensive, so maybe not.
I agree with the one that said to talk to him in person first.
Someone has to make the first move, and guys are usually pretty shy about things like that.
I don't think either way that he will think that you are a stalker, he might even be flattered.
2006-11-28 17:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Sure, we live in the 21st Century, but there are still rules that should be followed...and one of them is that chicks who make the first move for a guy usually end up being called a lot of names.
Try using your head and come up with some creative ways to get noticed by him.
2006-11-28 17:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, talk to him in person at school. It seems scarier, but it's a lot less awkward than not being able to see his face over the phone. I say go for it in person. No guy will think you're a stalker for talking to him. He'll probably be thrilled. If he seems less than excited, find someone that is.
2006-11-28 17:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, Then say you got the wrong number, but start a conversation. And, U probably was looking 4 his phone number, in the phone book.
Admit it!!!!
2006-11-28 17:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo, dont call him. Thats so creepy, im mean if a girl who i didnt know called me by finding my no in the phone book, then i wouldnt even look at her lol.
2006-11-28 17:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u dont know him then dont call him
u have to talk to him in the school if u really like him
try to be close to him by any reason like
asking him for him helping u in subject or something in ur study
try to be a friend to his friends from them u can reach him
dont call him if u dont know him
2006-11-28 17:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see anything wrong with calling tell him that you were thinking about him and decided to look him up and you did so you decided to call him and say hi and thought that maybe someday he like to go out to eat or to the movies i see no wrong in approaching a person that your interested in after all how are they gonna know if you don't let them know. as long as you don't scare them away.
2006-11-28 17:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by GINA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should call him and be like somebody gave me this number and play games with his mind cause i did that and it worked and we have been dating ever since!!!!1
2006-11-28 17:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Justine and Lil p forever ~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just do it like it was a messtake but then when you are talking to him in the phone tell him that if is ok to call him back or you could tell him to call you
2006-11-28 17:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him. Imagine if you didn't call, and it is twenty years later. You sit there and flip thorugh your yearbook and BAM! There his picture is, and you get those darn butterflies. But you didn't call way back when and now he is married.
Don't create something you will regret later.
Good luck!
2006-11-28 17:36:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋