There is a girl at the gym a similar age to me (24). I sometimes see her in the gym when i'm there on a saturday. she goes on her own and doesn't have a ring on the marriage/engagement finger (i noticed). she smiles and says hi and bye on her way out. but it could be her being friendly. I really fancy her but don't know how to tell if she: a) is single and b) likes me. On saturday i was walking out the gym about the same time as her and when i looked behind, she waved at me and I said something about the gym not getting any easier and she laughed. I think she would have stayed to talk but I went to put my bag in the car, I turned my back on her. I didn't mean to be ignorant - but it could have looked that way. she just said, have a good weekend, bye. and when i looked up she was reversing her car and smiling at me. but again - she could just be being friendly. I may see her this saturday again or the saturday after. i just can't see a girl like her being single cause she is so nice!
2006-11-28 09:37:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it mate ! Ask her out . When you see her walking out or in the gym, take a deep breath and just ask her . If you dont you will always wonder what if . You will regret it if you dont . Trust me i know !!!!!!!!!! If you dont ask her some other geezer might get in there before you. Just say " Do you fancy coming out for a drink?" How easy is it to say that. DO IT !!!!!!!!!!! Good luck young jedi ! If it turns out that you land up getting married can i get an invite to the head table. If you pick this as best answer let me know how you got on when you leave feedback.
2006-11-28 09:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by warpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just re-strike up the conversation about it not getting any easier. Let her talk. Then, look at your watch a second and say, "hey do you want to get a cup of coffe (or whatever...)"?
If she says yes, go to someplace away from the gym (less distractions by those who may know her) and from that point you are on your own.
2006-11-28 09:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by dragunov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear some cool looking b-ball shorts or some cute aeropostale or hollister bermudas. Also, if you like the the sporty-girl look, buy some bball shorts and a warmup t-shirt that you can get at a local sports shop. Then wear bball shoes. if you like the preppy look, buy some aeropostale or hollister bermudas or sweatpants. Then wear a aeropostale or hollister athletic dept. tee with them. then wear some cute Adidas or some other brand of cute gym shoes. or you can buy a warmup set from your local sports shop.
2016-03-29 14:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her at the gym or ask her out for some coffe or somthing just as a friend of course. after that just get to no her a little bit better if she does have a bf thats ok its ok just being friends with her and if she doesnt keep meeting up with her she might just be ur luck ;)
2006-11-28 09:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her - get it out the way!! Sounds like she may feel the same but if you screw up and humiliate yourself then go to the gym on a different day!
2006-11-28 09:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls aren't into trying to make a first move, so you might want to talk to her some more to find out if she is single or not, then you can go on from there.
2006-11-28 09:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by Shanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like this girl to.....What I do is I invite her and 1 of her friends to go with me and 1 of my friends but only do that when you get to know her better. The only thing you can do is just be you and try to hang out with her.
2006-11-28 09:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by LJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya, it sounds to me that she likes you but is waiting for you to make the first move as she might be shy. ask her out for a drink or something, whats the worst that can happen, she can only say no which im sure she wont but even if she does then atleast you will know and then you can move on :)
2006-11-28 09:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by materialgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you ever going to find out unless you ask her? Grow some balls, and when you've done that, tell her you wouldn't mind her wrapping her lips around them in the near future.
2006-11-28 09:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aim to leave at the same time as her, and tell her you need to go and grab a juice at the nearest bar to refresh after the taxing work out you've just had. Then add, "you're welcome to join me!".... whatever you do, keep the exchanges up :)
2006-11-28 09:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by demnity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋