Singles & Dating - 13 November 2006

The thing is, he is not AT ALL abusive. I am not AT ALL concerned that he would ever, ever hit me or touch me angrily in a physical way. We are going to be married soon and have a really wonderful relationship.

The thing is, he has gotten angry with me about 3 times in our relationship and yelled so loudly at me (usually in the car where it sounds louder then it probably is) but even one time practically screamed. Now, the problem is that usually when this happens either he or I have been drinking. The first two times he was but tonight it was only me. He called me names (nothing really that bad) but yelled at me at the top of his voice until I cried and asked him to leave. He didn't, though. He just came in and apologized for making me feel bad. Alcohol has been involved in some of our fights but I have never, EVER yelled at him or spoken to him the way that he talks to me in those moments. I would never speak to him the way he speaks to me. He would never hit. So what is up?

2006-11-13 17:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by wendyshannon 3

I know what its like to live with him in his place. But now the place will be full both of ours. Any advice you might have for me? Smallest or biggest thing.

2006-11-13 17:52:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm nineteen, and my boyfriend is twenty-six. When we first started living together, we had sex every night. Now, ten months later, we hardly ever have sex. I get sex about once every two or three weeks. He works very late in the evening, and comes home very tired. As well, he's on medicine that makes it difficult to get it up. I give him blow-jobs every few nights, and he rolls over and falls asleep. I have a very high sex-drive. Now that I never get sex, it's hard to think of anything else. I'm distracted all the time, and dream of sex all night. Whenever I bring up my desires to him, he says he's tired, and apologizes profusely. I could sleep with other people, because we are in an open relationship, but it would make him sad if I ran off and screwed a bunch of boys just because he works late hours. I get propositioned often, and it's getting increasingly tempting.

Should I keep ****-buddies? Wait for him to get rested? Try to continue on with my life terminally horny?

2006-11-13 17:51:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

im super jealous i dont know what to do i dont like my boyfriend talking to other girls i mean i dont mind him talking a little but not like having a full deep conversation with chicks ive talked to him about it and he still does it

2006-11-13 17:50:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

mine is spainkings....i like paddles....belts....hands.....wooden paddles.....

i roommate likes girls that wear stockings...

whats yours......

2006-11-13 17:48:11 · 13 answers · asked by gemini_girl 2

Not too sure about love??

2006-11-13 17:47:05 · 12 answers · asked by agentruddy 1

Is this true,and can it be true

2006-11-13 17:45:29 · 20 answers · asked by breann 1

Okay i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months and i have know him for like four months. And we are starting to have problems.Like i called him today and proceeded to have a convoersation with him and i was like "hi baby" and then i heard a female in the background go "hi baby??" with alot of attitude in her voice. After that he hung up on me. I really don't know what to think bout this. Plus, i mean even when we first started talking i had alot of dought bout our relationship....and a wise friend of mines told me "when in dought dump him"...and i sometimes ponder over even if we should be together. And well, guys are known to not being faithful. I mean why tell me you love me and then cheat on me. I may be reading too deep into this whole thing. maybe?? but still, guys are known to just want to **** and mess around.Where are the good guys? the ones that want to love you and only you? I guess we ran out them type of ******.

2006-11-13 17:43:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you confess to the like you like(but don't know) at prom that you have been crushing on him for the whole year?
it might be the last time you ever get to see each other though..hmm..

2006-11-13 17:43:16 · 12 answers · asked by s89 2

2006-11-13 17:41:17 · 12 answers · asked by benzhowz 3

2006-11-13 17:40:44 · 6 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3

ok. you see 2 of my good friends are going out and they realy love eachother but i love her also.2 days befor she asked him out i had tolded her how i felt but she just egnored me and acted like it never happend.I told her that i "like" her but i realy love her but i think its wrong to come imbetween my two friends. So wat do i do. do i move on , wait for them to break up ( and that will not be any time soon) or just tell her (agin) how i fell or sumthing eles you can think of

ps:im 13 and in the 8th grade so that mite help

2006-11-13 17:40:07 · 18 answers · asked by nelson22 1

Now have been told by my close friend that he loves me. After I asked him what are his feelings toward me. well after he told me that he loves me, i asked him why? he never responded. I kept asking him, the last time i asked, he said to just forget that he said it so i can chill out. Well after that he also told me that being that we are long distant, a relationship can't happened. So i asked, so you rather be friends? He said friends. Now he hasn't return any of my phone calls or text messages. and when he does return them, he always says everytime that he is busy and that he will call me back. But he never does. Why is he acting like that if he said that he loves me? And what should i do?

2006-11-13 17:39:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

latley my boyfriend really wants to go down south and that scares me because what if it smells or taste bad is there anyway to prevent this please help!!!

2006-11-13 17:38:36 · 6 answers · asked by snowballpoint 1

2006-11-13 17:38:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 17:36:47 · 18 answers · asked by vipin 1

2006-11-13 17:34:53 · 16 answers · asked by benzhowz 3

Before I moved to Ca is was a nurse in my present state. When I got out here I ended up doing home care for a man with a broken neck. Over the months I ended up falling in love with him. Then during the summer he took me to Vegas and we had such a romantic time. Then when we got back it was strong for about a month then it just stopped. I still go see him, spend time with him and he told me that he would tell me if he lost interest but I don't know. He was hurt so badly in his previous relationship that I don't know what to do. I am very confused. I really care for him alot and the last thing I want to do is hurt him. He is very religious and he said that our sex didn't feel right. Caused his loss of sleep. I can see at some points that he is still interested but at time not. I am black with two kids and he is white with none. Any advise. Should I tell him that I am in love with him. He is the main reason I am staying in California even though I hate it here.

2006-11-13 17:32:51 · 5 answers · asked by Staci R 3

me and my girlfriend start having sex but i cant last to long...she tends to get very angry...any ideas on how to make me last longer? and make it more enjoyable for the both of us?

2006-11-13 17:32:51 · 15 answers · asked by shayne 1

we live in NYC if that makes a diff

2006-11-13 17:29:16 · 9 answers · asked by TIE MY SHOE 1

i need help. i'm 14 and i like my friend and awhile ago she said she liked me too . but i think somthing might've changed. what's a list of things that shows that a girl likes you? or some tips on what i should be looking for (what she does when she's around me, how she acts, ect.) any tips?

2006-11-13 17:28:14 · 7 answers · asked by zemke14 1

it'll be a year untill i can see him again, and i want to know if i should wait for him, and just let him be till he comes home.

2006-11-13 17:26:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 17:26:46 · 24 answers · asked by Cherokee 1

Say I invite my boyfriend to eat dinner with me and my family on my birthday...should he pay for his own food or what?

2006-11-13 17:26:00 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5

Now have been told by my close friend that he loves me. After I asked him what are his feelings toward me. well after he told me that he loves me, i asked him why? he never responded. I kept asking him, the last time i asked, he said to just forget that he said it so i can chill out. Well after that he also told me that being that we are long distant, a relationship can't happened. So i asked, so you rather be friends? He said friends. Now he hasn't return any of my phone calls or text messages. and when he does return them, he always says everytime that he is busy and that he will call me back. But he never does. Why is he acting like that if he said that he loves me? And what should i do?

2006-11-13 17:23:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to do somthing nice and fun, it would just be with my family. Thanx.

2006-11-13 17:20:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Easy with the harsh responses, be serious. I am 28 years old and I make a ton of money ($500K+ a year). I am a very attractive guy and very in shape, but I am shy as hell. I really don't care if a girl is with me just for my cash...bc frankly right now I ain't looking for anything serious anyway. Problem is, I am super shy and don't have a ton of "game". I am happy to let my $$ do the talking for me....just don't even know where to start. Don't answer with "get a stripper or prostitute". How can I use this to my advantage

2006-11-13 17:19:38 · 11 answers · asked by micg70 1

some girls say its sexy. some say its freaky. do asian /european women like it or not? is ita symbol of sex? coz im goin to remove them.

2006-11-13 17:19:30 · 10 answers · asked by kanye w 1

Took me a lot of courage to write this, so please be kind. I know what they say about dating the boss. I haven't made a move or breathed a word to anyone. I wish I could fully explain in a few sentences how confused I am. I have a serious thing for my boss. I have for almost a year. I've tried dating other people. I've tried ignoring the whole thing. I've tried concentrating on other parts of my life. But it's driving me nuts.

Problem is, I love my job. I love the people I work with and what I do. But my stupid heart has set itself on the single most dangerous person it could find, and it seems like it won't take no for an answer. He's ignored it like I have tried to, but there is no mistaking the energy between us when we're in a room together. People at work have been constantly trying to push us together. I resist because I know all things eventually must end - or change- and I don't want to end any of it badly.

Help?

2006-11-13 17:19:03 · 5 answers · asked by SBLady 1

ok theres a girl i really like this one girl since 7th grade and i'm in the 8th grade now and today i was really depressed and she gave me a note that said "Tyler i know ur depressed about something and i don't like it when u r sad and i really care about u and it makes me upset to see u upset and i like it when u r happy because i'm happy with u" should i ask her out or not

2006-11-13 17:17:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous