Singles & Dating - 9 November 2006

Along my 25 years I have dated several guys, I really don´t know why but after a while they loose interest. Finally I meet thid guy 2 months ago and every seemed to go well but now I have the feeling he´s not interested, why can this be ? I´m kind of shy and I have a really hard time opening up, I´m not easy and I´m not ugly . What can I do I really like this guy his different from anyother guy I have dated he´s nice a gentleman but lately he´s been calling less and almost not asking me out and I know for sure he´s not dating anyone else. I don´t know why when I go out with them I shut myself so badly that no chemestry is in the air. What can I do? I´m sad and frustrated.

2006-11-09 14:44:18 · 18 answers · asked by crisy m 1

When you're ready to settle down and find "the one", what are the best qualities in your oppinion (and please don't just say good in bed- I already know I have that quality).

2006-11-09 14:43:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My old next door neighbor whom I lived by all throughout our childhood keeps staring at me at the college we go to(she is in her first semester freshman semester, one year younger than me. I'm almost positive she is interested in me. I havn't seen the girl in over two years when I moved right my 18th birthday. I used to always play with her little brothers all the time and was always very good at football and street hockey, and loved playing the guitar, but I'm guessing it's how I was a role model to her little brothers.

I havn't talked to her yet, even though she has been staring at me, my penis has a mind of its own, it takes over me. It has level 99 mind control :( Even though I think this girl is really interested in me, and we have known each other for years, if I treat her nice is it alright if I hit it?

2006-11-09 14:43:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

They're both 27, both weigh 125 lbs, and both have long hair.

One has brown hair and brown eyes, the other has blonde hair and blue eyes.

Which woman would you prefer?

2006-11-09 14:43:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl in my class that asked me to dance with her and I turned down. I told her that I wasn't in the mood. At the time she asked me for a dance, she was in a relationship. It seems that she likes me.I might add that she recently told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. I am perplexed. What should I do? Should I make the move. Mind you I'm afraid of rejection

2006-11-09 14:42:13 · 12 answers · asked by hey101 1

2006-11-09 14:41:45 · 15 answers · asked by Gemini Girl 4

I am 5'1 and like 90lbs. Keep in mind I am a gymnast and dancer. Am I too thin?? I eat and don't look thin. People always call me fat.
they say I am too fat to be a gymnast. I am all muscle due to the fact I train 8 hours a day and run on my days off. I also do tons of stomach toming exercises too. I mean the only people who don't call me fat are my bf and best friend. I am In high school.

Please answer. Thanx soooo much.

BTW: I am in high school. I am pretty sure I am done growing.

Are they jealous?? Or are they serious?? Guys ask us out all the time but girls call us fat.

2006-11-09 14:41:29 · 13 answers · asked by Hott Gymnast 1

I want hear nasty jokes because I want to shear them with my guy friends. They always seen to beat me in nasty jokes. So can you help me?

2006-11-09 14:38:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy that goes to my college & we've been talking the past few days online. When we first started talking, he seemed so friendly to me and wanted to get to know me and things. He's single like me. He said he wanted to meet me on campus and visit me in my room or in his room. Recently he's been asking me questions like...what I'd do if we had sex and what I'd do if I was sleeping in the same bed as him and I woke up and found him inside of me...and what would I do if the condom broke...and what I would do if I ended up pregnant...if I shave or not and where...where he could touch and kiss me (on my body)...and other sexual questions and scenarios. Since I didn't want to hurt his feelings, I tried to answer them honestly. Today, I noticed that he's not online and deleted me off of his friend list on Facebook. I wrote him an e-mail and asked why he deleted me all the sudden and he hasn't responded. What kind of person does he sound like??

2006-11-09 14:38:13 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6

ok, i just got a new bf, and my x found out. so now he's like "i want you. will you be w/ me again?" he follows me to class, waits at the door, became possesive and is skipping class to make sure none of my guyfriends (almost every guy in school) doesnt hang out with me. i do like him, but i just got over him (or at least i' trying to)

2006-11-09 14:36:54 · 7 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3

what's the deal, either she's gonna go to bed with you or not, why lie to her?

2006-11-09 14:36:51 · 17 answers · asked by carebear6835 1

I remember a time, just a few yrs ago, talking to girls was easier, there wasn't so much emphasis on sexual abuse , rape, touching , what ever u call it, now its out of hand, if u look at a hot chick these days, people think ur a perv.. jeezzz. ive been thinking about this, and i can't get my head around it, why they were these sexy clothes, they make a man go all silly, and then when u get a attention its like ur being abused, for example, some guy would see a hot chick, n yell " HEY SEXY ", the women would go " go get ****** " ... were giving u good comments and u shove it back in our face.. why all u girls dating really queer looking guys with no guts.?

2006-11-09 14:36:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i been sort of going out about 6 mths with this man (he is widowed- about 10yrs)
nice guy, not bad looking .. what more can u ask for ..
the thing bothering me is that
we had dinner one day when i donoe he just blurted out and i still remember it clearly.
he said, " i can't believe i found her in you."
i only understood when he showed me his dead wife pic. i nearly chocked on my drink .
we look somewhat similar. the resemblance was much .. and he even said we behave almost alike..
the only difference was we are of different race...

should i get away from him before he actually turn me into his dead wife..??
but he is like the only man that i dated that has the potential as a great husband..
what should i do ?help

2006-11-09 14:35:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

are there any ways out there to make him kinda lyk me?

2006-11-09 14:35:36 · 2 answers · asked by lucy xD 1

My ex and I broke up a year ago when I got pregnant. He really is a jerk in a nutshell, but I still miss and love him so much. We rarely talk and if we do its on yahoo i/m and he messages me. We dont even have each other's phone number! He asks about the baby and we just chat about things in general. I dont want to seem desperate and message him first, so I never do. I see that he is online right now and I really want to have a real conversation about where we are and to let out some feelings..Should I contact him?

2006-11-09 14:35:08 · 22 answers · asked by confused346 1

I don't know, but for some reason I'm just drawn to this person, I think he's the ugliest person ever, His eyes are beaty he has this gross bump on his cheek, his teeth are oversized, he's really dorky too but I find him cute at the same time.

It's so ridiculous and it's definitely driving my crazy.

2006-11-09 14:33:29 · 19 answers · asked by Great. 1

in the mood. What are some signs you give to your man.

2006-11-09 14:32:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is no one out there who wants to love me and all the others are either taken or cheating i hate that i have no one to talk to or to love this is a lonely life

2006-11-09 14:32:14 · 6 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4

A guy at my school was all rude and mean to me yesterday and today he was real sweet and offeres me some tootsie rolls (my fav candy!) and I just don't understand. Help!

2006-11-09 14:31:52 · 15 answers · asked by MRS. EFRON ♥ zac 3

I'm a college freshman, and I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. Im going through alot of stress right now because Im not making any friends, and the transition to college is really tough. My boyfriend has always been my bestfriend, someone I can talk to about anything. Of course I have a roommate but I just recently overheard her talking to her boyfriend about how she hates me talking to her about my relationship issues, which really hurt because I thought it was okay. She kept refering to me as a "*****". So now the only friend that I thought I had on campus, really isnt. I call my boyfriend every chance I get, and it just always seems like the conversation is "Hey, how are you? Im good. Ok, Love ya, talk to you later"...he says that he doesnt mean to do that and he knows what Im going through right now. I just feel alone, and I thought that the one companion I had would be considerate. What should I do?

2006-11-09 14:29:58 · 4 answers · asked by YupYup 2

would u be with her for 2-3 years with no sex then get married for it ?

would u cheat behind her back to have sex?

just wondering

2006-11-09 14:29:36 · 19 answers · asked by curlyqt1986 2

So there's this girl I have in a class that I'm acquainted with. I can sometimes catch her looking towards me out of the corner of my eye, and we usually talk about halfway to our next classes after that.

I've talked to her a bit online and her cousin is a pretty good friend of mine. Now, I don't want to talk to her cousin about how to approach her in fear of his reaction.

She's really shy and there's a little gap between our ages and I don't know how to confront her with my feelings or that I'd like to have a shot at getting to know her a bit better.

Another problem is that I have no car and don't know where to take her if we do go on a date. We live in a pretty urban enviornment with nothing really in walking distance of most of the houses/appartments.

Also, if I happen to have my father/her father drive us should I sit beside her in the back seat (sedan) or would that be awkward for her? Only other circumstance would be with her father driving and myself forcefully in back

2006-11-09 14:28:36 · 7 answers · asked by Zurai 2

the men in white coats have come to drag me back to the asylum for a 24 hour stay?...(now you all know where i really get my questions from,lol)...;0) last question of the day and im just feeling egotistical enough to ask it,lol....

2006-11-09 14:27:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had some fascinating demonstrations occur over many years now that have proved for me concusively that psychic and para-psychic type facilities are ever more present when dealing with members of the opposite sex.

Anyone else have whom suspects or knows they possess "gifts" or abilities in this type of field is most welcomed to make suggestions as to why this might be the case.

I suggest that this phenomena for me anyways might be refelective of the duality of the brain, right/wrong belief systems external VS internal penetration of the body and mind.

2006-11-09 14:25:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok when we were goin out for a week when we frist kissed and we kissed alot that weekend and today we went to the movies and i used my tounge and she liked it we made out for most of the movie were 13 but plzz dont say we dont cause we do rely love each other and ive grabbed her butt and she didnt say anythin and today i put my hand and her leg and slowly moved it up her leg to see what she would say and i moved my hand all the way up to the top of her thigh and she didnt say anythin we just kept makein out so wat should my next move be and when should i do it??

2006-11-09 14:24:29 · 9 answers · asked by monkeybutt3511 1

i just broke up with my boyfriend and we have been going out for 6 months, one boy likes meand wants to ask me out and he is really cute, and another boy likes me and wants to ask me out and he is also really cute? What should i do?

2006-11-09 14:23:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

does it mean he doesn't like you at all or he likes u little or he likes u but doesnt want to tell u.

2006-11-09 14:23:43 · 8 answers · asked by gousa1991 4

2006-11-09 14:23:26 · 7 answers · asked by jamie anne 1

How can I tell if he's interested in more? I introduced myself to this guy and he seemed surprised. After a couple of days he started to say hi to me first or get my attention then we'd make small talk. I think he knew I liked him since I always used to say hi to him and smile and make the eyes at him. Now he comes up to me in the library and we make small talk and he'll come say goodbye to me before he leaves if he's sitting near me but how can I tell if he likes me the way that I like him? I really dont want to just ask him out myself.

2006-11-09 14:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by Stephanie 2

I love a girl, she older than me by a year and until this moment I don't know if she has the same felling or not. after I knew her by tow months I asked her to go on a date with me but she said to me "I'm sorry ,I can't do that because I'm organizing my self right now, but we can go later for a dinner !" what can I do on this situation? is that mean she doesn't love me or what ?

thanks for your answer

2006-11-09 14:20:45 · 11 answers · asked by kh_fhd 1