I love a girl, she older than me by a year and until this moment I don't know if she has the same felling or not. after I knew her by tow months I asked her to go on a date with me but she said to me "I'm sorry ,I can't do that because I'm organizing my self right now, but we can go later for a dinner !" what can I do on this situation? is that mean she doesn't love me or what ?
thanks for your answer
2006-11-09 14:20:45 · 11 answers · asked by kh_fhd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well don't mean she don't like you but does mean she's not lookin for a date right now!
2006-11-09 14:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to do my dating rules on this stuff but there isn't one for this. Look at what you typed, is there anything that said that she isn't interest. nope. She did say she needed to get herself organized and that you could go to dinner later. In other words she needs to get herself straighted up (mabye from another relationship) and that a dinner later would be nice! So she may be recovering so don't take it to fast (dating rule #1)
2006-11-09 22:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she does not love you. What does she mean? She means what she said. she has some personal work to do but she would go to dinner at a later time. That's it, no love, no hookup, just dinner, later, maybe.
I would tell you the lady in question is not interested in you in a romantic way and unlikely to change her mind.
2006-11-09 22:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did say she wanted to go for dinner later, which is a good sign. she just doesn't know you well enough to go out on a date with you yet.
Just treat her like a friend for now and get to know her a little better. In another month's time, ask her out for dinner.
2006-11-09 22:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep being friendly with her and talking with her. and maybe ask her to tell you when it would be a good time to go out for dinner. remember, she didn't say no, she just said later. don't worry, things will work out for you. and I hope you get that dinner date real soon.
2006-11-09 22:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not sure if she's ready for a relationshiop as of this moment. She said 'Yes' to dinner right? Give her time to reorganize herself and to clear her thoughts. Just be there whenever she needs you and always let her feelt hat you're always there for her.. Be patient ^-^
2006-11-09 22:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she'd be interested in going out for dinner with you to get aquainted, but not romantically (at least yet).
2006-11-09 22:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she's not ready to date, but she's willing to get to know you better and be good friends. Chances are she probably doesn't have romantic feelings for you, but she's the only one who can tell you for sure.
2006-11-09 22:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by curious cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means she's sorry she doesn't want to go out for a date right now that's all
2006-11-09 22:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she may be letting you down easy, honey. I could be wrong, though. I hope everything works out for you.
2006-11-09 22:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by circa 1980 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋