Singles & Dating - 5 November 2006

After my boyfriend came back from a week-long trip, and we hadn't had sex in weeks, and I was so excited to see him. For at least the past 6 months I had a pretty low libido, and rarely initiated kissing, foreplay, sex, or being intimate. Now I feel almost like I did when we first started dating, sexually aroused when I see him, initiating sex, making out and enjoying it. The problem is, he told me yesterday he likes sex better when I give in and don't want to do it, more than he likes having sex with me pouncing on him the second we're alone and actually enjoying it. I thought guys liked it when the girl takes initiative once in awhile, what's going on? How are we both supposed to enjoy sex if he likes it when I don't, and he isn't turned on as much when I really want it? I love enjoying sex, but now that I know he doesn't enjoy it as much, I feel very frustrated and stupid. Help!

2006-11-05 07:31:59 · 19 answers · asked by greenlife 1

I'm 18 years old and i still havn't got my drivers license. How am I going to ask a girl to go out to eat with me? Do I have her ride on the handle bars of my bike?

2006-11-05 07:30:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i tell the guy i like that i wanna go out with him and not be friends without freaking him out?

2006-11-05 07:27:01 · 12 answers · asked by Amers 3

no bad language.

2006-11-05 07:25:44 · 14 answers · asked by ***** Morgan****** 1

he is my friend on my volleyball teams brother and I told my friend I liked him and I asked her if she could ask him if he'll go out with me (only to get to know him). Then the next day she told me he said, "no, and she said I dont THINK he's interested in girls yet" what should I do he's really hot and I dont know what to tell him for he to like me.HELP
If ya dont want to post your answer on the intenet e-mail me it at volleyblover17@yahoo.com

2006-11-05 07:25:24 · 9 answers · asked by Holly S 2

2006-11-05 07:22:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at a party last night a someone i know got sooo drunk and said told me to stop hittin on her brother who i really like. Whats the odds that shes gonna remember it??

2006-11-05 07:22:17 · 10 answers · asked by Babii Blondee 2

I've seen a trend in relationships being destroyed after 1 and a half to 2 years. Why do you think this is?

2006-11-05 07:20:34 · 11 answers · asked by wonderful 2

2006-11-05 07:20:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend does this a lot. Asking about old girlfriends, and have i ever done this or that....When I answer (honestly) she gets all mad. Any girls out there who can explain this madness, please help.

2006-11-05 07:19:07 · 25 answers · asked by Andrew M 1

About asking this girl out tonight. We have/had been dating for about 6 mos, until Friday she said she needed time to find herself (take a break, I guess?!). Then proceeds to text me about 20 times each of the last 2 days and I know she wants me to ask her out tonight. I am understandably gunshy, but I want her back when she's ready. So, what would you do? Ask or just let it go?

2006-11-05 07:18:23 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6

My bf just broke up with me after 3 months because i mentioned the future (im not even sure if thats why) he gave me a bunch of excuses, including saying that he couldnt be in a relationship for too long. this happened 2 days ago, and for both of those days, i cried my eyes out, but today im all happy and thinking about some other guy that i wanted to go out with for the past year and even when i was with my bf. am i in denialor did i truly not like him i cnt tell. anyways, now i dnt know what to do to get him out of my head, any ideas?

2006-11-05 07:17:36 · 8 answers · asked by sweethyedreamer213 3

and the winner at the end of the month...wins I donno a date with a gorgeous woman/ man..hehehehe..whatdoyahsay!

2006-11-05 07:15:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

dont worry even if you havent done this you can still show your opinion

2006-11-05 07:14:05 · 14 answers · asked by Kelsey_blair 3

My girlfriend gave me crabs and other assorted seafood for my dinner but I'm not too keen on it.

She says Im getting a choclate starfish for dessert?

Is this tasty?

2006-11-05 07:14:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

also, another benefit is warmth, pantyhose are a hot less bulkier than normal thermals. how many guys have wron pantyhose
instead of thermals and how many women don't mind
if their guy wears them for warmth and leg fatigue..
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2006-11-05 07:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 07:09:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She said she needed time to find herself just on Friday. She has texted me a ton these last two days and said she got invited to a dinner next Sunday. She definitely wants me to ask her out, but it might just be to say no, she still needs time. What do you think? I mant her eventually. Should I or should I not?

2006-11-05 07:08:57 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6

What do you do when you get back with a guy you was once engaged to and he all wrapped up in you again and you dont want to hurt him but you dont feel things like you use to your heart is actully with someone else but you dont want to hurt the one that inlove with you even though you dont see him like that what can i do to make it easyier on him should i stay so i dont hurt him or should i just tell him and what way is the easyest way

2006-11-05 07:07:49 · 17 answers · asked by baby_doll66012 1

2006-11-05 07:07:47 · 9 answers · asked by Jades Kitty 1

it sure seems like it's large ; I have no problem with women with women ; it's cool to watch actually

2006-11-05 07:06:19 · 8 answers · asked by pahump1@verizon.net 4

hallo,anyone out there?

2006-11-05 07:06:11 · 3 answers · asked by karl s 3

k i fancy this girl and were good friends which makes things more complicated. she seems so outta my league its unreal, i mean i look ok and ive been told im quite a nice guy, but shes brilliant

anyway, should i move on or shud i ask her out, if so, how?

2006-11-05 07:05:47 · 21 answers · asked by bob jowl 2

2006-11-05 07:05:11 · 4 answers · asked by Johnboy 3

This is a tough question to ask, so please IM or email me regarding this topic! I'm a little confused and could use the male perspective...

2006-11-05 07:05:03 · 7 answers · asked by Tiny T 1

if you want to email back and forth give me your email.. i just had a really long nite and would like someone tokeep me company. .

2006-11-05 07:04:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is a blonde and wants to go out with a junior. I don't know what to do and I am too shy to ask her out.

2006-11-05 07:04:31 · 10 answers · asked by Firefighting Hero 3

2006-11-05 07:02:15 · 15 answers · asked by robertapdixon 1

my girlfriend and her mum and her best pal came home early from a night out and caught me "pleasuring" myself,i did'nt hear them coming into the room cos i was wearing headphones and the seen me in full view,xmas dinner is going to be really awkwaed should i still go?

2006-11-05 07:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tomorrow is me and my boyfriend's 1 month anniversity and I wanted to know if I should remind him or if I should just see if he remembers. Please let me know! Thanx!

2006-11-05 07:00:30 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2