Singles & Dating - 5 November 2006

My boyfriend refused to be called as a boyfriend, he says we are sleeping friends, is it possible to be sleeping friends? and he left another country but he promised to come back one day but he did not said when, now I can not reach him on the phone and mails. Should I wait him?

2006-11-05 23:13:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the sign to know somebody likes you or that you are atrectiv to somebody?

2006-11-05 23:11:56 · 2 answers · asked by Ade 1

i am in a relationship with a guy , its been 4 years, aithough i love him, i have this feeling that he doesn't anymore. i have tried talking to him, but he syas he doesn't care like he used to about me. i really am confused cos another guy who is willing to go extra miles for me, but he used to be a classmate of my boyfriend while they were in the university. pls help me. am really confused

2006-11-05 23:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by nina-reality 1

we are both nearly 29 and have been going out for a few months, her brother and sister both have young kids but I want to wait a year or two before taking the final plunge and having kids, I am not planning on splitting up after having kids so want to make sure we are suited before even talking about it really.

any tips to get her to slow down without appearing cold, i do love her very much and definitly want kids soon myself but not that soon.

2006-11-05 23:09:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, i broke up with my boyfriend because it wasnt really working! He told me ' fine, if u want to break up, we are over!!' that was it, end of story! Well the problem is that we have to work together! and now he is ice cold to me!!! like nothing happend! I tried being nice around him, but he was so cold that i got so mad at him, i just could stop myself!

I dont know how to act around him now, do i pretend he is nothing more then someone i work with, do i ignore him, be nice to him.....
and dont know.... please help!

And why was he all cold??? i dont understand? he is mad at me, i ask him, he doesnt hate me, ask him that as well.... i dont get him, please help, i dont want to have to quite my job, but cant stand him being so cold!!!

2006-11-05 23:08:15 · 5 answers · asked by Simone 2

if a guy has been chasing you for ages and ages, even when you were in a serious relationship with someone else, he is really interested in you?even if hes still chasing you now that your not in a relationship anymore?
how can you tell if a guy is really into you and not just "playing" you or enjoying the chase?

2006-11-05 23:05:04 · 9 answers · asked by Becky 1

Really need some serious advice. I really love my boyfriend who I've been with 2 months. We've talked about having sex (it would be the first time for both of us. i'm 21, he's 25) and we both want to, but when I'm round his (I stay every weekend) nothing happens. We have great fun with each other, we're just not having sex. I really don't know what to do- I really love him and want to be close to him, but am worried this is becoming too big an issue for me, but I can't stop thinking about it, and what might be wrong. Should I just try not to think about it and concentrate on just being around him and doing stuff together, or does sex make that much of a difference in a relationship that I'm not being paranoid or over the top about it? How long have you waited before having sex, first time ever and first time with a new partner? I really don't want to spoil what I have with him- I love him too much, and really miss him when we're not together.

2006-11-05 23:04:06 · 29 answers · asked by jowigley 2

My ex of three months from summer of 2005 is still in touch with me via text message. We broke up because he just runs a mile when things get serious with a girl or so he claims. He text me last Monday asking how I was etc. I ignored the text, then last Saturday Night, he text me again, asking why I didnt reply etc. It basically came down to me telling him I have to move on and asked him why he was still in touch. He said he liked me alot and would like to be a with a woman with my personality but gets scary around women when things look serious. I want to text him this morning and say my goodbyes to him because this is really hard for me, still being in touch. He doesnt want committment but I do.

2006-11-05 23:03:15 · 9 answers · asked by sunny01 1

I seem to realize the insincerety amongst people of today in terms of thier relationship to others and also the fact that they tend to hide feelings that are actually sincere about people they have affection for! Some find it difficult actually telling these people thier feelings out of shyness and others, i think have othet reasons that tend to make things too late in the end! Is there a remedy?

2006-11-05 23:01:06 · 1 answers · asked by Eljose 1

And if so,Then why do we love someone we hate? I love my boyfriend so much you guy's!He's everything I pray'd for!But if we have an argument,he'll dig deep and perpously hurt my feelings .I mean he'' rips my heart out'' and it's then thet I realize thet never in my life have I ever hated anyone as I do him! Yet I love him also! How is this possible? No" *****" anwsers please!

2006-11-05 22:59:43 · 18 answers · asked by lkayj4 3

2006-11-05 22:59:03 · 9 answers · asked by pattabi 1

2006-11-05 22:58:54 · 18 answers · asked by daniel s 1

I love one guy but I also like another one in a special way..is this wrong?

2006-11-05 22:56:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are in the twenties, and 5 months together. Recently she told me about how disappointed she is when I didn't tell her what I don't like about her, and that I hide my sad feelings. However, I always found out that whenever I am honest with her and told her what I don't like about her, she will get upset. She is getting upset either way... What should I do??

2006-11-05 22:46:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met a friend of one of my friend last week in a club. he is a real gentleman and we were very well togheter, but we had some "touching" during we were dancing. Now I have regrets as i feel like a b...ch!! I don't have news from him now and really regret my behaviour. what could I do now? I'm feeling I really like him and don't want to loose him... do you think he's thinking I' m a dirty girl?

2006-11-05 22:46:28 · 14 answers · asked by missllola 2

Attitude, character, moods, how they would treat an older women, if they play games, are they undecided,Do they have a conscience, ect. whatever comes to mind? Please give ME some advice.Help!!!

2006-11-05 22:43:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

See my earlier question

2006-11-05 22:40:21 · 2 answers · asked by Tuppence 4

Will that give you the chance that she will eventually return your feeling, given that now she doesn't feel anything special for you?

2006-11-05 22:38:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been single for about a year and abit, Ive liked this lad for ages he texts me and stuff but has never asked me out Im sort of going off him now because Ive been waiting for him to ask me out for ages he knows I would say yes if he did. In a way I know this sounds stupid but he doesnt look or feel like boyfriend material as he aways says he would rather hang about with his mates than have a girlfriend. Who else is sick of the single life...?

2006-11-05 22:38:31 · 18 answers · asked by Angelkiss85 5

basically i have split up with my boyfriend and use to live with him in which we shared a dog together.there are no written documents or anything as this woman didnt ant this dog and just gave it to us.i miss the dog sooo much and split up on bad terms with x in which he wont even let me see the dog.ive treid texting him and ringing.has any one got any info on how i can see the dog or should i just try and move on without him:(

2006-11-05 22:38:01 · 4 answers · asked by charlotte m 1

I personally go for brunettes they are my fave but there is plenty of sexy ginger women & blondes and girls what type of hair dya like on a guy?

2006-11-05 22:35:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 22:29:22 · 9 answers · asked by search4friend01 1

Sexy,

Wow, thank you so much for composing such a detailed and thoughtful reply to my recent message. So where are you hiding that PhD degree? You have incredible insights and ability to drill down to the nuances most anyone would miss. I knew you were special...this example just continues to reveal that fact. Yet I am still astonished and even swept away by the depth of feedback you have given me. That you care enough to even take the time, the kind effort & thought, is impressive. But the ability you possess for finding a subjective meaning, is brilliant.

I've had to read your reply several times, just to take it all in. Some points you make I might disagree with initially, but actually you're probably right even if I don't want to admit it. I don't see myself as complex enough, emotionally, to have "innermost" feelings of any kind. Whether it is fear, as you state-- or simply the fact I am a "loner," there is a major tendency on my part to avoid emotions and personal connections. You haven't taken it as a personal insult that I am like this, although you easily could have started finding fault in response if you were a different kind of person. But since you are a wise, caring, brilliant man, you actually see that there is more than meets the eye when figuring out why people do the things they do.

I hope maybe we can talk or chat later, but if not, I will get back with you sometime soon.

With awestruck love,

Pumpkin

2006-11-05 22:27:55 · 10 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

m in a long distant relatioship , m only seeing my bf in few weeks tym. Can u pls tell wut the most romantic thing we can do when we meet each other..Besides havin' sex

2006-11-05 22:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by mommy2be 3

can u believe this,he dump me just bcoz i chatted with other guy.wut is this **** mean???i just started to believe this guy and he dumped me????he's my first real love.and i'll die for him.i love him like so much,more than i love myself or anyone in my life!what does this mean?i wanna kill myself now!!

2006-11-05 22:27:00 · 18 answers · asked by i^am^me 4

2006-11-05 22:26:37 · 7 answers · asked by vargas f 1

Even we knew we were friends for many years and has a boyfriend, she spend one night with me. I don’t know if she was seductive or just playful, but she just got on top on me and asked me to do it with her, but since I am a virgin, I was pretty protective of it. She started telling me her dark secrets and all but we knew she was cheating on her boyfriend.

Weirdly enough, a week later she brought me to meet her boyfriend. After he left she held my hand and started asking me question like how is my boyfriend and all. Later when he called she was pretty rude to him and slammed down the phone and in front of me acted like nothing had happened. Out of anger I cut my friendship from her. AA couple of months later she asked me out again and started to repeat the same thing again, but this time without the boyfriend. What is going on here people?

2006-11-05 22:26:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 22:23:38 · 10 answers · asked by ღ 4

found my partner ov 5 yrs sitting in a house at weeken he is 42 and where he was 1 ov the girls he had slept with when she was 16.he was 37 but im so sure she swas under age .am i overeacting with this or is it normal a man ov that age being with younger girls before i met him !!!!!!!!! i know every 1 has a past

2006-11-05 22:19:45 · 6 answers · asked by cazi26 1

Despite I have been very kind and caring towards her.
Why? Please do not say bad things about her...

What should I do to get her back?
I am 14

2006-11-05 22:18:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous